Why Are Men Who Claim "Good/Nice" Hated Sohh?

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

and them the ppl u need to basically look past, alotta yapping with no action behind em. dealing with a man who isnt upfront about their personality...hmmmmm basically you go by their actions. they actions gonna speak louder than their words and are harder to ignore like words. cuz a mf will tell u anything, but what do they show u ?

U droppin gems in here

 

[philmonroe]

Usually with posts as profound as this I just give it a dap and keep it moving but I had to acknowledge this one

This shyt can apply to so many different areas of life too.

Yeah that post is true but why do dudes act like if you get p*ssy you still don't want to live a nice life outside of that? Its like cats be on some I wouldn't spend money on clothes, cars, housing, etc if I get women that's probably why most cats ain't shyt. Basing their whole existence on a chick. Just be the best you you can be and you'll get people that want to be down with the team and if not you'll just keep improving until you do. I just can't cosign the living slummy just because you can fukk a chick stuff. The rest I agree with.

 

[Blackout]

This is the logic of an archetypal "nice guy". Confidence comes from inside yourself first. Everything you named comes and goes. Women come and go. Your "nice car" today will be "that old shyt" in a couple of years. A nice house is useless to get women if you can't get the women to your crib in the first place. Ultimately it comes down to how you value yourself. "Nice guys" do not value themselves. They show it in their persistent jealousy of dudes who do better with women, their constant whining, and their lack of confidence. There are dudes with nothing who get women. Why? They are confident, they have self worth. Nice guys don't.

So where does faithfulness and him being caring come into this equation?

All I see is you ripping into the nice guy for not playing the game right, yet I see no comment about players and how much what your saying benefits them.

This is why I say players win everyday because even now no amount of effort from you has been going agaisnt them. Nothing you say here makes a man more likely to remain faithful, all it does is gives him more reason to follow those players that have so much provilege that they can not have shyt and still get p*ssy.

Unless....you want a player?

Again more "nice guy" logic. "Nice guys get ignored". No, "nice guys" don't approach women in the first place, or do approach women in a wack way, and then complain. "a$$holes" actually approach women and learn how to talk to and deal with them. "Nice guys" should be figuring out what the "a$$holes" are doing that they aren't, instead of crying about them. Nobody wins a game or accomplishes anything in life sitting around crying and complaining.

See more talk about nice guys not playing the game right and more talk that will have them looking at players to become as.

You focus on the game so much I wonder when do you actually focus on men being the faithful and respectful type?

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

So where does faithfulness and him being caring come into this equation?

All I see is you ripping into the nice guy for not playing the game right, yet I see no comment about players and how much what your saying benefits them.

This is why I say players win everyday because even now no amount of effort from you has been going agaisnt them. Nothing you say here makes a man more likely to remain faithful, all it does is gives him more reason to follow those players that have so much provilege that they can not have shyt and still get p*ssy.

Unless....you want a player?


See more talk about nice guys not playing the game right and more talk that will have them looking at players to become as.

You focus on the game so much I wonder when do you actually focus on men being the faithful and respectful type?

You are talking like the only two kinds of dudes that exist are "nice guys" and "players". Or that dating is a "game".

Faithfulness and caring is ground zero. It's so critical I didn't even think I had to mention it. There's no relationship without that and it's kind of retarded to think something like how someone dresses would be more important than that.

"Players" don't "win". Men who are self confident and not scared of women do better in dating than men who are insecure and scared. That doesn't make confident guys "players who win".

And I am happily married. I am "out of the game". So I have no dog in the fight. But self-proclaimed "nice guys" make me sick. I try and do right by my wife and treat her well because its the right thing to do, not because I want a pat on the back or feel like being nice entitles me to anything. That's why you nice guys fail. You think you are owed something for being a decent normal person rather than putting in work and earning something. shyt's pathetic.

 

[Suicide King]

You focus on the game so much I wonder when do you actually focus on men being the faithful and respectful type?

Faux nice guys are the ones who get done up by women and friend zoned.

Real nice guys are not beta males or lame.

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

You are talking like the only two kinds of dudes that exist are "nice guys" and "players". Or that dating is a "game".

Faithfulness and caring is ground zero. It's so critical I didn't even think I had to mention it. There's no relationship without that and it's kind of retarded to think something like how someone dresses would be more important than that.

"Players" don't "win". Men who are self confident and not scared of women do better in dating than men who are insecure and scared. That doesn't make confident guys "players who win".

And I am happily married. I am "out of the game". So I have no dog in the fight. But self-proclaimed "nice guys" make me sick. I try and do right by my wife and treat her well because its the right thing to do, not because I want a pat on the back or feel like being nice entitles me to anything. That's why you nice guys fail. You think you are owed something for being a decent normal person rather than putting in work and earning something. shyt's pathetic.

The problem is nowadays its easier to pass the blame rather than looking in the mirror. I was in them nice guy shoes, I was frustrated, said stupid shyt about women, got jealous when I'd see other dudes out with chicks. Then one day it just hits you that you're 100% the problem, not women. If you can't admit to yourself that you're the problem AND that your worth fixing that problem then nothing will change. Mind you I was in them nice guy shoes will being surrounded by a$$hole type nikkaz and shameless womanizers so it wasn't like I wasn't given game. But it's a difference between being given game and recognizing game and embracing the shyt.

If nice guys would just stop giving a fukk and understand that women will respect them much more when they're honest and just speak their minds they would feel much better about themselves. She giving you what you want by coming out the house hooked up lookin bad as fukk, why not just keep it real wit her? Learn how to communicate with her, if you want her so damn bad get hip to the game.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

The problem is nowadays its easier to pass the blame rather than looking in the mirror. I was in them nice guy shoes, I was frustrated, said stupid shyt about women, got jealous when I'd see other dudes out with chicks. Then one day it just hits you that you're 100% the problem, not women. If you can't admit to yourself that you're the problem AND that your worth fixing that problem then nothing will change. Mind you I was in them nice guy shoes will being surrounded by a$$hole type nikkaz and shameless womanizers so it wasn't like I wasn't given game. But it's a difference between being given game and recognizing game and embracing the shyt.

If nice guys would just stop giving a fukk and understand that women will respect them much more when they're honest and just speak their minds they would feel much better about themselves. She giving you what you want by coming out the house hooked up lookin bad as fukk, why not just keep it real wit her? Learn how to communicate with her, if you want her so damn bad get hip to the game.

Well the other big thing too is a lot of "nice guys" are afraid to walk away from a potential chick. That's why they stay friend zoned. They don't want to take a hint and keep it pushing. If you are interested in a chick and shes not interested in you there's nothing more to be said or done. Women respect and respond to that. That shyt has worked for me more times than I can count.

shyt is very simple. Bring something to the table and don't waste time. From there everything flows. You don't have to be an "a$$hole" or a "nice guy" to make things happen with women.

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

Well the other big thing too is a lot of "nice guys" are afraid to walk away from a potential chick. That's why they stay friend zoned. They don't want to take a hint and keep it pushing. If you are interested in a chick and shes not interested in you there's nothing more to be said or done. Women respect and respond to that. That shyt has worked for me more times than I can count.

shyt is very simple. Bring something to the table and don't waste time. From there everything flows. You don't have to be an "a$$hole" or a "nice guy" to make things happen with women.

That fear comes from that lack of confidence. That's why dude was trippin for thinkin you don't have confidence until you succeed with women. To me you can't succeed with them unless you are confident. I mean, if she can't remember your name or she don't want to make time for you or take the time you offer her then why the fukk should you hold on? To me these kinda "nice guys" are pretty fukked up cases cuz its just them clinging onto something they think will bring them happiness but if you yourself ain't the primary cause of your happiness then it shows. I know for me, I would overthink shyt and slum out but I realized its no real thought required it's all about the vibe you give off and how your words/actions make her feel. Them brehs gotta liberate themselves and give these chicks what they want, they'll feel so much better afterwards as long as they maintain a positive attitude during the struggles.

 

[King Poetic]

dudes should stop chasing after broads in the first place like fukking hound dogs

women love attention and when u stop giving them attention, they will come after u acting like WTF nikka!!! can't u see i'm looking good and shyt and u need to pay attention to me. and u should be like like i really give a fukk, i'm doing me.

and boom she either like this nikka kind of interesting or i'm off onto the next hound dogs who's going to sweat me

nice guys have to realize god is the one who is helping u out. u see how many chicks ended up abuse verbally and physically by the so call thug or pretty boys and there mind is burned like wesley snipes neck..but u still want to go after them, waste your time and money..

believe me, i see these same hoes here in my hood now who think i'm going to save them since they have all been maia campbell out in the streets.. they be like " hey king, love your car " " hey king, u dress nice today " i just them hoes and go about my business and i still end up dealing with some nice ladies.. they might not be dimes/IG/TWITTER BROADS like the coli women, but they cool for me.

 

[Jason B]

These "nice guys" need to understand and ACCEPT this important rule when dealing with women: Treat them like shyt and they will stick to you like mud. Any guy that has acted in accordance to this rule has been highly successful with women and lets not pretend that this is not prevalent. So, be a total a$$hole instead of being nice or even respectful (there is a difference) and you will be winning in the game.

 

[philmonroe]

Well the other big thing too is a lot of "nice guys" are afraid to walk away from a potential chick. That's why they stay friend zoned. They don't want to take a hint and keep it pushing. If you are interested in a chick and shes not interested in you there's nothing more to be said or done. Women respect and respond to that. That shyt has worked for me more times than I can count.

shyt is very simple. Bring something to the table and don't waste time. From there everything flows. You don't have to be an "a$$hole" or a "nice guy" to make things happen with women.

Bold is soo true. Dudes have nothing but niceness and dikk (which all guys have) to bring to the table that's why they go nice guy role anyway for the most part.

That fear comes from that lack of confidence. That's why dude was trippin for thinkin you don't have confidence until you succeed with women. To me you can't succeed with them unless you are confident. I mean, if she can't remember your name or she don't want to make time for you or take the time you offer her then why the fukk should you hold on? To me these kinda "nice guys" are pretty fukked up cases cuz its just them clinging onto something they think will bring them happiness but if you yourself ain't the primary cause of your happiness then it shows. I know for me, I would overthink shyt and slum out but I realized its no real thought required it's all about the vibe you give off and how your words/actions make her feel. Them brehs gotta liberate themselves and give these chicks what they want, they'll feel so much better afterwards as long as they maintain a positive attitude during the struggles.

This is true dudes need to get their lives right and that alone will help most with the chicks. You don't have to have all the money but enough to take care of yourself and her/kids if it goes that far your straight. You've done your part outside of that that's on her but you can't worry about that just be the best you and but alot of dudes know they not anywhere near their potential and it shows. Its even worse if your older and status still trying to push that nice guy shyt

 

[Blackout]

You are talking like the only two kinds of dudes that exist are "nice guys" and "players". Or that dating is a "game".

Faithfulness and caring is ground zero. It's so critical I didn't even think I had to mention it. There's no relationship without that and it's kind of retarded to think something like how someone dresses would be more important than that.

"Players" don't "win". Men who are self confident and not scared of women do better in dating than men who are insecure and scared. That doesn't make confident guys "players who win".

And I am happily married. I am "out of the game". So I have no dog in the fight. But self-proclaimed "nice guys" make me sick. I try and do right by my wife and treat her well because its the right thing to do, not because I want a pat on the back or feel like being nice entitles me to anything. That's why you nice guys fail. You think you are owed something for being a decent normal person rather than putting in work and earning something. shyt's pathetic.

Where did I say that there are only nice guys and players? That came out of your mouth not mine.

They are men who are relationship material and there are men who arent. Thats what I say.

What I did say is that your ripping into nice guys for not taking risks yet you say nothing that would prevent a girl from getting played.

Well now that I hear that your married I see why your so defiant.

You think that just because it went right for you it would go right for everybody else lol.

Miss you have not said how players are losing. I need a reason not a "oh no players arent winning"

Because the reasons I gave are credible. Especially when players have the most confidence around, players approach women and players can use the women they are cheating on to get more women.

I can see you setting up your single female friends to get played.

Lol @ you thinking that I really think Im owed something for being a decent normal person rather than putting in work and earning something.

No I dont think that. What I do think is that women walk right into the players trap and this whole I hate nice guys cuz they are too shy shyt you and countless women are doing just help players win.

Also no I do not fail. Yea Im a nice guy but Im only nice to the worthy. My confidence is also through the roof.

Whatever girl I decide to go with next will be blessed with a good and faithful man unlike the many women who hate nice guys and will most likely end up with a player and go through hell.

 

[HoloGraphic]

I claim but act like a gentleman. You need both sides of the coin.

 

[HoloGraphic]

Bold is soo true. Dudes have nothing but niceness and dikk (which all guys have) to bring to the table that's why they go nice guy role anyway for the most part.

This is true dudes need to get their lives right and that alone will help most with the chicks. You don't have to have all the money but enough to take care of yourself and her/kids if it goes that far your straight. You've done your part outside of that that's on her but you can't worry about that just be the best you and but alot of dudes know they not anywhere near their potential and it shows. Its even worse if your older and status still trying to push that nice guy shyt

This and this.

 

[Blackout]

Faux nice guys are the ones who get done up by women and friend zoned.

Real nice guys are not beta males or lame.

Yea I used to be a beta nice guy until I learned how to only be nice to those who deserve my niceness and not get pushed around.