Why Are Men Who Claim "Good/Nice" Hated Sohh?

[CrimsonTider]

Well when it comes to your case one of my cousins who is a playa called the chicks he was with guaranteed p*ssy.

Like if he went out and got none then he could always fukk the chicks we was fooling into thinking that he was being faithful with them at the end of the day.

This guy never got caught either and if he did the chicks actually fought each other for him.

This is how it's suppose to be

 

[Blackout]

This is how it's suppose to be

 

[VICVALLIN]

But women do not want the bolded as well. If that were really the case, women would be avoiding men who do the opposite of that. Aside from that, the rest of your post is very solid. Women have shown what they want and based on that decent, respectful men need not to apply at all.

the only women NOT checking for confident, respectful, and respectable gentlemen are women you shouldn't want to date anyway, so why are you guys bytchin about stupid chicks with fukked up mentalities, questionable decision-making skills, and obvious character flaws not finding you attractive??

 

[kevm3]

@kevm3 I don't think you've posted in here...

When it's said and done, the less you focus on what women are doing the better. Always use your head when dealing with them and never put yourself in a position to be taken by them. Number 1 rule... it's not about what you do for a woman, it's how you make her feel, so if you keep on getting taken for a ride by women then it's because you come from a mindset of 'doing' things for a woman will win her over.

When it comes to generosity, most of these 'nice guys' aren't nice. They are just thinking they will win a woman over by doing stuff for her and letting her run him. They won't give a homeless man 5 dollars, but they'll jump out of a window and beat their momma for a broad they just met.

A lot of women DO like criminal types, but oh well... when they get impregnated and their baby daddy ain't around and he ain't paying the bills, that'll be on them. Just steer clear of those types of women and never let them turn you into a provider role. If you got to pay to play, you're on the losing end. Simple as that.

 

[Suicide King]

Yea I used to be a beta nice guy until I learned how to only be nice to those who deserve my niceness and not get pushed around.

The reason I was never the beta nice guy, was because I was so indifferent. Some people didn't even know I was cool, because I would not try to interact with people I wasn't feeling.

When you nice just to get people's friendship or to get a girl its a hard knock life.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

My dad is still happily married to my mother. I have no stepmothers, no stepfathers and such.

He has a 3 level house, a descent sized lawn and is building another house on his land to rent out for money.

He is an excellent role model and his ways influenced me.

Your dad deserves props for taking care of you and fam, and being faithful to your mom. But, having a 3 level house with a big lawn has nothing to do with not being a bitter "nice guy" simp. Donald Sterling is a billionaire and look at how his women played him. If u think material shyt can overcome lacking attraction/ confidence/ self-worth you're mistaken.

Being a dude isnt about cheating is the main point.

Many players go with women and cheat on them. Many players lead on women to thinking they want more than just fukking and then leave their asses or use them to get access to more women.

The fact of the matter is I have never met a player who is shy and has low confidence. No matter how much you hate low confidence having males and shy males that fact still remains true.

Yea, but every dude with confidence is not a "player".

Whats funny is that you think you know me.

Just because I defend dudes with low confidence or who are shy that doesnt mean that Im one of them. You dont know me b.

I also only advise chicks to not date a playa if I am cool with the chick.

Im a gentleman in his early twenties who has his own place, a car and a descent job and am still moving on up and I have no urge to cheat on a woman. I have a lot to offer any female who has the pleasure of being loved by me.

I am not shy nor do I have low confidence. I just chose not to go the player route.

You couldn't "go the player route" if you wanted to. You're not built for that life, your posts show it. You're telling chicks who you're not fukking what to do with their vaginas because you don't want to see another man win. You take pride in basic shyt like being an employed adult with your own place who is faithful to women he dates. You want props for that? That is like patting yourself on the back for not being a criminal. That's what you're supposed to be doing

But shy/low confidence dudes should not be defended. I understand their plight, but I refuse to enable their victimhood. The only solution for shyness/low confidence is to overcome that shyt, get confidence and stop being shy. The world, and more specifically women, should not have to change to adapt to those dudes. Anything worth having in life is earned.

 

[Neil Tyson]

When it's said and done, the less you focus on what women are doing the better. Always use your head when dealing with them and never put yourself in a position to be taken by them. Number 1 rule... it's not about what you do for a woman, it's how you make her feel, so if you keep on getting taken for a ride by women then it's because you come from a mindset of 'doing' things for a woman will win her over.

When it comes to generosity, most of these 'nice guys' aren't nice. They are just thinking they will win a woman over by doing stuff for her and letting her run him. They won't give a homeless man 5 dollars, but they'll jump out of a window and beat their momma for a broad they just met.

A lot of women DO like criminal types, but oh well... when they get impregnated and their baby daddy ain't around and he ain't paying the bills, that'll be on them. Just steer clear of those types of women and never let them turn you into a provider role. If you got to pay to play, you're on the losing end. Simple as that.

Coli had a discussion about that in the past, dudes will lie their way into the p*ssy. Talking about how they're making money, or going to school, or how they're not a criminal.

I can't place the blame entirely on "those" kinds of women, it could just be they're gullible or delusional.

 

[kevm3]

Coli had a discussion about that in the past, dudes will lie their way into the p*ssy. Talking about how they're making money, or going to school, or how they're not a criminal.

I can't place the blame entirely on "those" kinds of women, it could just be they're gullible or delusional.

I don't have any blame for women that fell for a dude lying about 'having it together', but there are literally types who gravitate towards criminals. Look at what is happening with a lot of those female correctional officers at prisons. There was a story a while back how one dude impregnated 4 of them and slept with like 11.

http://newsone.com/2671435/tavon-white/

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I'm sayin, why are nikkaz so against stepping their game up? That's essentially what's being told to you if you not successful when it comes to dating. Don't trip on chicks that want to date guys that you can't be, make yourself the best you possible and show that off with confidence to whatever girl catches your eye. In due time you won't be talkin bout some "playas" this and "nice guys" that you gon be too busy gettin in the game tryna get your dikk wet. Gotta stop blaming women for your shortcomings, just make yourself better and build a strong foundation of confidence within yourself. It's like nice guys are in a tangle web of self loathing towards themselves and bitterness towards women their attracted to and the men that succeed with them. Spend less energy throwing salt and more energy seasoning your own game cuz it's no excuse if the majority of men can get with women why the hell can't you?

Thats the thing... there are so many women out there, it really doesn't make sense to spend any time thinking about the ones who aren't interested in you. 1 chick wants a "player" instead of you? Who fukking cares? There are 6 billion other ones to choose from. But you know how nice guys are. They will fixate on one chick and watch her date a hundred other guys before getting the nerve to make a move, get rejected, and then cry about chicks only dating a$$holes. shyt is comedy

Success and happiness in life is about focusing on what you can control and not even tripping on shyt you can't. Women like handsome, rich, charismatic, confident, influential dudes. It's how they are wired. Dudes will have an easier becoming those attributes than trying to reconfigure human biology with simp shaming. shyt is embarrassing, nikkas should be ashamed of themselves.

 

[Blackout]

Your dad deserves props for taking care of you and fam, and being faithful to your mom. But, having a 3 level house with a big lawn has nothing to do with not being a bitter "nice guy" simp. Donald Sterling is a billionaire and look at how his women played him. If u think material shyt can overcome lacking attraction/ confidence/ self-worth you're mistaken.

Donald Sterling isnt a nice guy and I doubt his judgement in women is great either so he is irrelevant to this conversation.

Yea, but every dude with confidence is not a "player".

I never said that.

You couldn't "go the player route" if you wanted to. You're not built for that life, your posts show it. You're telling chicks who you're not fukking what to do with their vaginas because you don't want to see another man win. You take pride in basic shyt like being an employed adult with your own place who is faithful to women he dates. You want props for that? That is like patting yourself on the back for not being a criminal. That's what you're supposed to be doing

Its funny as you talk like being a player is a good thing in the sentence. It really does expose how much you support the players.

Yea, I could go the player route if I liked fukking new p*ssy. One thing about me is that I do what I gotta do to get what I want.

The only thing stopping me is that I dont find joy in having multiple sexual partners.

I only tell the chicks I care for about players because I dont want to see them get hurt. Stop putting words in my mouth lol. I dont be out there trying to save every chick I can.

I have cousins and friends who are players and I dont tell the chicks they play nothing because Im not friends with those chicks so you fail with your assumptions.

Yes I do what Im supposed to do yet that is also a big part of what the qualities of a good man is regardless whether you like it or not.

But shy/low confidence dudes should not be defended. I understand their plight, but I refuse to enable their victimhood. The only solution for shyness/low confidence is to overcome that shyt, get confidence and stop being shy. The world, and more specifically women, should not have to change to adapt to those dudes. Anything worth having in life is earned.

The truth about no players being shy should be heard. Why not let shy guys and low confidence dudes have a chance at having a girl if that means the girl gets a faithful man?

It just looks like you rather the players get the women than the shy guys because you have expressed ZERO dislike for players.

 

[VICVALLIN]

Thats the thing... there are so many women out there, it really doesn't make sense to spend any time thinking about the ones who aren't interested in you. 1 chick wants a "player" instead of you? Who fukking cares? There are 6 billion other ones to choose from. But you know how nice guys are. They will fixate on one chick and watch her date a hundred other guys before getting the nerve to make a move, get rejected, and then cry about chicks only dating a$$holes. shyt is comedy

Success and happiness in life is about focusing on what you can control and not even tripping on shyt you can't. Women like handsome, rich, charismatic, confident, influential dudes. It's how they are wired. Dudes will have an easier becoming those attributes than trying to reconfigure human biology with simp shaming. shyt is embarrassing, nikkas should be ashamed of themselves.

that's the shyt right there that be having me like nikkas out here fighting against biology and human nature, wondering why the stay on the losing end. shyt is straight comedy.

 

[Neil Tyson]

Thats the thing... there are so many women out there, it really doesn't make sense to spend any time thinking about the ones who aren't interested in you. 1 chick wants a "player" instead of you? Who fukking cares? There are 6 billion other ones to choose from. But you know how nice guys are. They will fixate on one chick and watch her date a hundred other guys before getting the nerve to make a move, get rejected, and then cry about chicks only dating a$$holes. shyt is comedy

Success and happiness in life is about focusing on what you can control and not even tripping on shyt you can't. Women like handsome, rich, charismatic, confident, influential dudes. It's how they are wired. Dudes will have an easier becoming those attributes than trying to reconfigure human biology with simp shaming. shyt is embarrassing, nikkas should be ashamed of themselves.

We reconfigure human nature all the time, that's what to be monogamous is. That's a reconfiguration, that's not natural at all. But obviously someone powerful told us that's not the way to live, so they made us marry and keep ourselves contained within clans. Might've been a smart thing to do.

Just like, dating intelligent, hard-working people is a smart thing to do. Rather than fixating on men with the silver tongue and suffering over and over because of it.

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

Thats the thing... there are so many women out there, it really doesn't make sense to spend any time thinking about the ones who aren't interested in you. 1 chick wants a "player" instead of you? Who fukking cares? There are 6 billion other ones to choose from. But you know how nice guys are. They will fixate on one chick and watch her date a hundred other guys before getting the nerve to make a move, get rejected, and then cry about chicks only dating a$$holes. shyt is comedy

Success and happiness in life is about focusing on what you can control and not even tripping on shyt you can't. Women like handsome, rich, charismatic, confident, influential dudes. It's how they are wired. Dudes will have an easier becoming those attributes than trying to reconfigure human biology with simp shaming. shyt is embarrassing, nikkas should be ashamed of themselves.

shyt is ridiculous. Who made you so special that you don't gotta do the same shyt every other guy has done in order to get laid? It's like I feel bad for em cuz for a lot of them the confusion is real but unless they see it for themselves they fukked out here.

 

[Jason B]

the only women NOT checking for confident, respectful, and respectable gentlemen are women you shouldn't want to date anyway, so why are you guys bytchin about stupid chicks with fukked up mentalities, questionable decision-making skills, and obvious character flaws not finding you attractive??

If you look at an earlier post I made, I talked about women who were taught to value decency and they act in accordance to that yet too they still get involve with men who are not about shyt in terms of character. That speaks to what all women value. For men to get around that is to become the type of men whose actions say 'fukk decency and respectfulness'.

 

[Neil Tyson]

shyt is ridiculous. Who made you so special that you don't gotta do the same shyt every other guy has done in order to get laid? It's like I feel bad for em cuz for a lot of them the confusion is real but unless they see it for themselves they fukked out here.

Because it's stupid. That's why.