nikkaz is locked into their bitterness, it's truly a sad sight. 
Why Are Men Who Claim "Good/Nice" Hated Sohh?
- Thread starter Dirty_Jerz
- Start date
I will never understand the female vitriol towards "nice guys." They are labeled that because they are actually nice. Culture Clinger @biscuitsnbangers up on the first page talking about "honest a$$holes with swagger." Since when was a$$hole a term of endearment? That darned female logic. 
Also, sociopaths like Elliot Rodgers were never "nice guys." Good people aren't sociopaths that rant on FB and kill several people.
Also, sociopaths like Elliot Rodgers were never "nice guys." Good people aren't sociopaths that rant on FB and kill several people.
Honestly I just wish women would own up to the fact that they prefer the excitement they feel potentially emotional and physically abusive men can provide. I also wish dudes who were just doing favors to get p*ssy would own up to that as well. That's a$$hole behavior and a lot of women love a$$holes. Problem solved. Then the "truly" nice people get could get together. All 28 of them.
As I browse the thread I notice something; a bunch of realizations. Me, I'm not a nice guy. I used to be nice. I did nice things and I expected gratitude for them beyond thank you. We all do. We all do things for some sort of reward. It is how humans are wired. So why is this any different? But back to that later. Anywhoodles, as time went on I just did things that might only benefit Liggins and no one else. I stopped listening. I stopped caring. I stopped doing. I didn't write up dissertations for daps talking about "I woke up now! 
It was ME, me all along!" Yeah, go coach an MLM sucker with all that talk. Change doesn't come overnight. It's a gradual process. And personally I find it weak to blame yourself for everything. I mean shyt, we see how women behave everyday. And you are willing to put all the blame on YOURSELF? That's some nice guy shyt. But it ain't none of my business though. :kermit:
To touch on something earlier; these women are shooting themselves in the foot pushing "nice guys" to the fringes of society because they have that dreaded human need for gratification. The purpose of these walking shells was to provide whatever need her man or actual attraction wasn't. Is the anger directed at the nice guys or are women just angry they must defend life choices that turned out not so great? I'll just leave you with this quote here....
"So one day I just asked her, why you always giving ass up? These other hoes get paid, all you do is get laid that shyt don't add up.
" 
It was ME, me all along!" Yeah, go coach an MLM sucker with all that talk. Change doesn't come overnight. It's a gradual process. And personally I find it weak to blame yourself for everything. I mean shyt, we see how women behave everyday. And you are willing to put all the blame on YOURSELF? That's some nice guy shyt. But it ain't none of my business though. :kermit:To touch on something earlier; these women are shooting themselves in the foot pushing "nice guys" to the fringes of society because they have that dreaded human need for gratification. The purpose of these walking shells was to provide whatever need her man or actual attraction wasn't. Is the anger directed at the nice guys or are women just angry they must defend life choices that turned out not so great? I'll just leave you with this quote here....
"So one day I just asked her, why you always giving ass up? These other hoes get paid, all you do is get laid that shyt don't add up.
"
Last edited:
I just have to keep coming back to this thread because there's just so many holes in some of the arguments and testimonials displayed here.
In a lot of those "it was me" confessions, you all state that it was the type of girls you were attracting or would go after as part of or totally the problem. So, instead of you know, trying to attract women that actually would like you, you know nice girls....and hold up for a second let me say this now; there are nice women out there. I know one now, she is very beautiful inside and out. A creature of near perfection.
And she's not a unicorn either, you just have to put in work. Stop going to Wal-Mart and after hours clubs trolling for women, if you are "nice" you are out of your element there anyway. You already lost, should have never left the house. Aaaaaaaaaaaanyway, back to the beat. So, instead of attracting nice girls to match your nice guy, you consciously switch up your whole game to attract the same type of girls that didn't give a fukk about you unless it was pay day in the first place on some Revenge of the Nerds shyt. 
I don't know brehs, sounds like hustling backwards to me. 
I mean, okay, say I'm fukking with a certain type of girl, okay. And eight out of ten girls I'm fukking with are only giving me three days of attention per month, then I'm not gonna be fukking with them. See what I'm saying? / @Shugg Ross
In a lot of those "it was me" confessions, you all state that it was the type of girls you were attracting or would go after as part of or totally the problem. So, instead of you know, trying to attract women that actually would like you, you know nice girls....and hold up for a second let me say this now; there are nice women out there. I know one now, she is very beautiful inside and out. A creature of near perfection.
And she's not a unicorn either, you just have to put in work. Stop going to Wal-Mart and after hours clubs trolling for women, if you are "nice" you are out of your element there anyway. You already lost, should have never left the house. Aaaaaaaaaaaanyway, back to the beat. So, instead of attracting nice girls to match your nice guy, you consciously switch up your whole game to attract the same type of girls that didn't give a fukk about you unless it was pay day in the first place on some Revenge of the Nerds shyt. I don't know brehs, sounds like hustling backwards to me. I mean, okay, say I'm fukking with a certain type of girl, okay. And eight out of ten girls I'm fukking with are only giving me three days of attention per month, then I'm not gonna be fukking with them. See what I'm saying? / @Shugg Ross
As I browse the thread I notice something; a bunch of realizations. Me, I'm not a nice guy. I used to be nice. I did nice things and I expected gratitude for them beyond thank you. We all do. We all do things for some sort of reward. It is how humans are wired. So why is this any different? But back to that later. Anywhoodles, as time went on I just did things that might only benefit Liggins and no one else. I stopped listening. I stopped caring. I stopped doing. I didn't write up dissertations for daps talking about "I woke up now!
So what you sayin is under no circumstances can you be the problem in this situation? I dunno about you but I'm actually a nice person, but I also know that doing nice things don't gain favors nor should you look for it. Nice to see you started to worry more for yourself but brehs is in here tryna help these fools get on the right path it's not that serious to call it a dissertation. You haven't seen how these dudes been in here blaming the whole world and complaining to the ends of the Earth over this shyt?
"So one day I just asked her, why you always giving ass up? These other hoes get paid, all you do is get laid that shyt don't add up.
Breh, you can keep talkin about how women are wrong for what they look for. Hell, I don't think so called "nice guys" should get shafted but the fact is they do. What good does it do bytchin about the irrationality of it all, we know it's irrational but that's the game. Step your shyt up or keep cryin.
I just have to keep coming back to this thread because there's just so many holes in some of the arguments and testimonials displayed here.
In a lot of those "it was me" confessions, you all state that it was the type of girls you were attracting or would go after as part of or totally the problem. So, instead of you know, trying to attract women that actually would like you, you know nice girls....and hold up for a second let me say this now; there are nice women out there. I know one now, she is very beautiful inside and out. A creature of near perfection.
I mean, okay, say I'm fukking with a certain type of girl, okay. And eight out of ten girls I'm fukking with are only giving me three days of attention per month, then I'm not gonna be fukking with them. See what I'm saying? / @Shugg Ross
Actually a lot of brehs made the point that those dudes should go after women more their speed or get at the same pace of the chicks they want to attract. But acting like an emotional manbytch over it won't get you nowhere that's what nikkaz been sayin. Also, I'm pretty sure dudes never said you have to switch your game up but rather get your game up. If your convo game ain't shyt step it up, if you don't have a decent appearance step it up, etc etc. The mistake a lot of dudes make is that entitlement shyt, that's what locks them away. Dudes that are sayin "it was me" just tryna point out the reasons why dudes keep slippin, they giving way too much of afukk in all the wrong places. If your 5 primary concerns aren't Me, Myself, I, *your name here*, and what you want then you ain't livin right.
Never said it was ALL the woman's fault. But a dude in here fell for the old "what is the common denominator" trap. What was the common denominator for getting sent to Nazi extermination camps? Is it their fault? Yeah, I mentioned Nazis, come and get me! 
Bra was that quote that memorable
Bra was that quote that memorable
nikka yes. You may as well have played Ether over it. Dude was stuttering like Jay at that point.
Hood Critic
The Power Circle
LOL @ "Nice"
Never said it was ALL the woman's fault. But a dude in here fell for the old "what is the common denominator" trap. What was the common denominator for getting sent to Nazi extermination camps? Is it their fault? Yeah, I mentioned Nazis, come and get me!
Compare being a pushover to being a Jew in Nazi Germany brehs.
Dirty_Jerz
Ethiop
@thoushallhustle stop lurking and drop some gems 
please ma'am
please ma'amnikkaz is locked into their bitterness, it's truly a sad sight.
How is pointing out the pattern of how women have more respect for men who don't give a fukk about anything (the reason they do all kinds of fukked up shyt) than the men who have decent values indicate bitterness? Again, I am not knocking women. But my overall point is that men need to adapt to the dating game in order to succeed, which starts with abandoning the idea being decent individuals and adopting the moral character of the a$$hole, bad boy, thug and the like. But if any man insists on being a decent man then he needs to accept the fact that he will not be respected. If he does not want to open himself up to the bullshyt, then he should get out of the game.