Why are most women terrible at conversation?

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

But they already know that you're not interested, which is my point.

Or maybe they have good conversational skills. You all are confusing willingness to converse with ability to converse.

 

[AlainLocke]

A lot women adopt the role of the pursued.

A man is supposed to carry a relationship...

You are supposed to give her hobbies and interests...

You are supposed to give her passion...

You are supposed to give her a lifestyle...

A woman may have all that shyt..but then you see...when you get in a relationship her...or engage with her...since she sees you as a suitor...she adopts a blank slate

I bet a lot of bytches out here are fukking political scientists and shyt and turn into a bimbo when they come across a man...

 

[Critical Distance]

why can't people admit they're boring and bad at conversation?

i'm boring and bad at conversation.

see how easy that was?

 

[Broke Wave]

OP finally dropped his first dud

This thread is absolutely horrible

I didn't even think such a good poster could come with this trash.


I think I'm alone at the top of the HL poster of the year rankings

 

[JahFocus CS]

OP finally dropped his first dud

This thread is absolutely horrible

I didn't even think such a good poster could come with this trash.


I think I'm alone at the top of the HL poster of the year rankings

How is it a dud thread is doing numbers

Also this isn't HL so it doesn't count

 

[Collateral]

Young women have no conversation skills whats so ever. I don't mind carrying the convo, but at least give me some feedback, give me your input, debate with me. It's like pulling teeth with these chicks. It's mostly young chicks though.

 

[Still Benefited]

A lot women adopt the role of the pursued.

A man is supposed to carry a relationship...

You are supposed to give her hobbies and interests...

You are supposed to give her passion...

You are supposed to give her a lifestyle...

A woman may have all that shyt..but then you see...when you get in a relationship her...or engage with her...since she sees you as a suitor...she adopts a blank slate

I bet a lot of bytches out here are fukking political scientists and shyt and turn into a bimbo when they come across a man...

This man got it

"A day wit Dre,ill have her on robot"-Mac Dre

Women are the recievers,men are the programmers....lotta men today just aint builders,they dont have the minds for it.

And how 75% of the coli supposedly introverts AND great conversationalist

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I don't think you have been around enough women. Some women can very loquacious around you, that doesn't mean they're feeling you - it just means you're saying what they want to hear and they're comfortable around you. Or it could just mean that they're naturally loquacious like that.

Conversely, a chick might be so into you, but be too uncomfortable to talk too much around you, so as not to misspeak, is naturally shy, a tad intimidated, or just doesn't speak that much.

Don't get it twisted and start thinking every woman that's loquacious around you likes you before you end up with your heart broken and rejection with a smirk.

I can't relate
never suffered heartbreak



I'll take YOUR word about it

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

"nawalt"

 

[filial_piety]

The OP is just stating facts when you think about it

A lot of women have been catered to to the point that they're use to guys doing all the talking to get their attention or to impress them....men have to develop "game" to keep women interested and to pique their curiosity...women don't really have to say or do anything...they either born with a fat azz and some t*ts or they aint :manni:

Or if they do have good conversation skills they're just parroting what they've read/heard in their feminist studies college classes

 

[cam>]

You're a loser talking to other losers about loser shyt.

YOU CHANGE.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Threads like this just beg the question "what exactly you talk about?"

If the only convo topics you can provide are social media fukkery, what you did at school/work, vh1 reality shows and how you stacking paper, that shyt boring as fukk to me regardless of gender.

I'm gonna need some actual hobbies and shyt to get this convo sparking.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

It seems like a majority of chicks have no real interests, hobbies, or passions.

It's almost as if they just do the bare minimum in life and see themselves as a pair of boobs and an ass... but then they act like its disrespectful when all you can think of talking about is smashing it's not like you're interesting enough to give a nikka anything else to talk about

A bunch of reasons. I'm fond of bullet points and lists so bear with me...

-most men don't hold them to that expectation- Men scream constantly about ass and titties, can't be friends with a chick...and so on. So some who are primarily motivated by male attention only cultivate the physical.
-they are shallow- Some chicks don't have a lot going for them. It is what it is.
-ur interests don't match-They've got stuff to talk about but ur just not interested in it. That's not on them.
-not well-rounded-nuff said
-socially-awkward-Oh u didn't think the age of technology only negatively impacted male communication skills did u? There's a LOT of blk Hinatas out there seething and sad that nobody saw them or that they were obscured by the Cardi Bs of the world. But they can't blame men for not seeking them out when they were nowhere to be found or displayed crippling lack of communication skills when engaged. I gotta homegirl who makes me do play by play text conversations before talking to a guy she likes. WTF?!
-not used to opening up to talking to men out of fear of not being interesting- A lot of women have entire secret worlds they keep from men that they only show to women because they are afraid of irritating or boring men.
-the mentality that the man is there for entertainment- I call it the "court jester" mentality. These chicks initiate dry ass texts then complain when dudes don't want to engage further.
-too goal oriented- Some chicks are too driven to where they allow themselves to be defined by their hustle. That's all they can talk about because it's all they do.
-can't be themselves- Men make women just as uncomfortable as women make men. And our generation's penchant for hiding behind technology has only compounded this shyt.

On the flip side, a lot of dudes online who complain about this have very singular interests which leads me to believe that this is less about conversation skills and more about wanting to find a geeky partner in crime. Which is fine, but not everybody is going to wanna deconstruct religious themes of human autonomy and faith in Berserk on a Saturday night.
Just my 2 cents.

 

[AAKing23]

I'm sorry but OP told no lies, Its true. Most (Not all) women are bad at conversation



I'll let all the offended people pretend like its not true but...

 

[CarbonBraddock]

yeah man, i get more mileage from an encyclopedia but i can't have sex with one though. on the real, if i could put some bewbs n ass on wikipedia, then i would be good to go.