Why are single moms the devil again?

[MikelArteta]

Let's be real they make poor choices, their children are more than likely raised in poverty, they canoodle and cavort with the scum of society for the most part. Prisons and brothels and psych wards worldwide are littered with a high percentage of b*stards.

 

[Paradise50]

have no issue w/ single mothers. I do think 3 young children by 2-3 men and all 3 is ghost is indicative of you being an idiot.

But your typical single mother w/ one child? nahh, they cool in my book.

 

[HellRell804]

This thread is hyperbolic. Single mothers aren't the devil, but, statistically they are bad at their job. The vitriol is coming from men who expect women to act like men and admit fault and take steps to correct the problem.

This will never happen!

The only way to end the single mother epidemic is to publically shame them and make it undesirable to be one. There will always be dusty deadbeats around to knock women up.

Your grandfathers already knew this information....

 

[Action Mike]

i suppose i would like to see just a little nuance in the discussion as it relates to

tawana who has 1 six year old from an ex fiancee she was with for 4 years
and
tamika who has 5 kids and 6 baby daddies

thats just me though

this is fair

...but tawana better bring 130% and make our relationship joint number 1 with that six year old

 

[wickedsm]

this is fair

...but tawana better bring 130% and make our relationship joint number 1 with that six year old

 

[( ິΦᆺΦ)ິ°˚(✿ *҉ manko｡✧)]

let them, i dont care.

but for those who have standards, standards will remain especially when half end in divorce if where taking it to marriage.

and being a single mother is a con

multiple tattoos a con

double digit partners is a con

I mean that's great for you and all but it's huge buzzkill listening to navel gazing people talk about things like marriage and standards when people are just looking at pictures on the internet or talking about women and all.

It just seems pointless. I personally don't care what the next chicks pros and cons for who they want to marry. I don't care if they want to get married. I don't care what yours are either. I do however have respect for people, so hearing internet dwellers talk down on single mothers unprovoked or just any group in general that doesn't deserve it over some standards I super do not give a shyt about, I get annoyed. Not that people have to stop because I find it reprehensible.

 

[richaveli83]

This thread is hyperbolic. Single mothers aren't the devil, but, statistically they are bad at their job. The vitriol is coming from men who expect women to act like men and admit fault and take steps to correct the problem.

This will never happen!

The only way to end the single mother epidemic is to publically shame them and make it undesirable to be one. There will always be dusty deadbeats around to knock women up.

Your grandfathers already knew this information....

I understand where you're coming from but are we leaving men out of the equation? Unless he raped her men should be held accountable for making b*stard children just as much as women. If the baby mama is trifling now that means she was trifling before she had the baby but dudes only think with their dikk. If the baby daddy is a deadbeat now that means he was trifling before she had the baby but all she cared about was his swag, his car/money,etc.

 

[agpxknt]

ahhh the good ole single mothers topic

 

[O.T.I.S.]

i suppose i would like to see just a little nuance in the discussion as it relates to

tawana who has 1 six year old from an ex fiancee she was with for 4 years
and
tamika who has 5 kids and 6 baby daddies

thats just me though

That's why I said they're not bad. Especially those that were married, engaged, or in a committed relationship for a lengthy period of time.

 

[wickedsm]

That's why I said they're not bad. Especially those that were married, engaged, or in a committed relationship for a lengthy period of time.

i should have clarified i wasnt at all directing my comment to you specifically, just used your post as a starting point for my comment.

 

[86\*/98]

What single successful man with no kids of his own wants an instant family?

 

[Sterling Archer]

I don't think they are the devil. I just choose not to date them. Personal preference basically. Nothing existential. I don't like baggage and I can afford to cater to my likes.

 

[Vice Queen]

I've got a cousin. 5 kids by 5 different men, never married. She was trifiling before the kids, during the kids and to this very day. She gets all the virtrol from me and the family because of what she put them kids through and how she conducts her life. Most of her kids still love her though but I will never accept that dudes fukked her raggedy ass. She is an example that dudes need to stop thinking with their dikks.

So I'll leave with this. If it's a case like that then yeah, it makes me feel a certain way. But if it's women with one kid or they were married when they had their kids and got divorced, then I can't get mad. I'd rather you get knocked up or married to a bum dude and it falls apart (as it should when you deal with bum ass people) then you consistently getting pregnant by bum ass dudes. Same with men. Get one bum broad pregnant, not a shyt load of bum women. It's still not the ideal situation but this is life and life is never ideal, even when it looks like it is.

 

[HellRell804]

I understand where you're coming from but are we leaving men out of the equation? Unless he raped her men should be held accountable for making b*stard children just as much as women. If the baby mama is trifling now that means she was trifling before she had the baby but dudes only think with their dikk. If the baby daddy is a deadbeat now that means he was trifling before she had the baby but all she cared about was his swag, his car/money,etc.

Lol this is where u have some growing up to do. People aren't equal. Men and women aren't equal and all men aren't equal. These "deadbeats" you speak of have always existed all throughout history. They're degenerates and beyond saving. They have no shame and will proudly live off of a woman.

So how do you correct someone with absolutely no shame?

Without the social stigma of being a single mom, a woman can gamble on one of these degenerates. Worst case scenario uncle Sam helps her raise the kid. The deadbeat doesn't care either way. If he did have honor, integrity, and a work ethic, he would be in a better position with more to lose and probably refrain from knocking up any and everything

 

[CN793]

I mean....it takes 2 people to create a kid. A lot of times the guy is around and later on down the line disappears and does nothing for the kid. Yet SHE'S the bad person here? lol What? If you're the child of a single mother and you agree with this logic are you suggesting you would have rather been aborted? I mean....if you think this way about single moms I definitely won't disagree, she should have aborted you, 'cause you're kind of an awful human being.