Why Are So Many Dudes Scared Of Getting Rejected?

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i don't understand these nikkas that turn p*ssy when it comes to stepping to a girl and spitting game. :smh: what's the problem? so what if she says, "no." it's just a word. here's a FACT: even the best looking nikkas (no homo) get rejected. there's no man that hasn't been shot down by a chick. that's life. sometimes, a girl has a man and she's happy with that, or your game just wasn't on point when you stepped to her. so what?

i was out watching the games last night, and my boy stepped to 5 different women at this bar. he got 2 numbers and got shot down by the other 3. that's the law of averages. not every girl is going to feel you. you're going to get rejected by some of them. we all do. but there are also going to be girls out here that feel you and want to fukk with you. but if you don't make that move, you will never meet them, which is why a lot of these p*ssy nikkas get no p*ssy.

nikkas really need to man up and stop being afraid of rejection. we've all been there. the more p*ssy you hollar at, the better your game becomes. you learn what works and what doesn't. it's like being a salesman. you fine tune your pitch until you're selling like hot cakes. that's how you treat this game.
 

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i don't understand these nikkas that turn p*ssy when it comes to stepping to a girl and spitting game. :smh: what's the problem? so what if she says, "no." it's just a word. here's a FACT: even the best looking nikkas (no homo) get rejected. there's no man that hasn't been shot down by a chick. that's life. sometimes, a girl has a man and she's happy with that, or your game just wasn't on point when you stepped to her. so what?

i was out watching the games last night, and my boy stepped to 5 different women at this bar. he got 2 numbers and got shot down by the other 3. that's the law of averages. not every girl is going to feel you. you're going to get rejected by some of them. we all do. but there are also going to be girls out here that feel you and want to fukk with you. but if you don't make that move, you will never meet them, which is why a lot of these p*ssy nikkas get no p*ssy.

nikkas really need to man up and stop being afraid of rejection. we've all been there. the more p*ssy you hollar at, the better your game becomes. you learn what works and what doesn't. it's like being a salesman. you fine tune your pitch until you're selling like hot cakes. that's how you treat this game.

The more one gets rejected, the better he gets at playing the game:manny:
 

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i don't understand these nikkas that turn p*ssy when it comes to stepping to a girl and spitting game. :smh: what's the problem? so what if she says, "no." it's just a word. here's a FACT: even the best looking nikkas (no homo) get rejected. there's no man that hasn't been shot down by a chick. that's life. sometimes, a girl has a man and she's happy with that, or your game just wasn't on point when you stepped to her. so what?

i was out watching the games last night, and my boy stepped to 5 different women at this bar. he got 2 numbers and got shot down by the other 3. that's the law of averages. not every girl is going to feel you. you're going to get rejected by some of them. we all do. but there are also going to be girls out here that feel you and want to fukk with you. but if you don't make that move, you will never meet them, which is why a lot of these p*ssy nikkas get no p*ssy.

nikkas really need to man up and stop being afraid of rejection. we've all been there. the more p*ssy you hollar at, the better your game becomes. you learn what works and what doesn't. it's like being a salesman. you fine tune your pitch until you're selling like hot cakes. that's how you treat this game.

Thank you. Maybe if I were single I'd give him a chance but I'm not and I'm happy. Let me live bro.

Excellent post by the way.
 

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rejection makes a real nikka stronger and even more confident.... yea u got rejected but as a man u feel good knowing u approached the broad and flashed ya smile wit no fukks given.

gotta be able to take both ends of the stick when shooting a broad down....
 

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It's embarrassing to get rejected, and a lot of times if you get rejected, you'll end up lowering your stock with the rest of the girls in the group because nobody wants to be runner up, and it might also be the case that if you get rejected by one, the others in the group will see you as unworthy also.

Now I'm with you on the whole "getting over it" thing, but that's the reason right there.
 
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Take that A.I. approach when it comes to dealing with women, keep shooting til you make one,and ain't no such thing as a bad shot either; the only bad shots are the ones you don't take.
 

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You can't avoid rejection. Instead you should embrace it. I think of rejection as me weeding out the girls that aren't right for me. Everybody's sex/dating would be a lot better if they understood the simple thing the OP said: dating is a numbers game. Not everyone is going to like you. But even without game, money or whatever else, provided you don't have a major personality or physical defect, a certain number of females are going to be attracted to you. It's all just a matter of approaching enough women until you find one of them.

Rejection is not even the worst thing. The worst thing is time wasters. Attention whores, who go to bars/clubs/etc. only to for an ego-boost. That's how they get their kicks. They'll gladly flirt with you and talk your ear off all night, but if you get too aggresive they back off. I'd rather be rejected within the first minute rather than waste 4 hours talking to a time waster and still have to jerk off at the end of the night.

Think about it: if every one of us knew for a certainty that if they approach 10 girls in one night, the 10th will definitely sleep with us. A 100% certainity. Would we still be so hung up on rejection? fukk no!
 
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I'd rather get rejected, then go home wondering what if.

Also on 2 different occasions I've stepped to chicks and been rejected only to have them come up to me at a different time/place and act like they've never seen me before and hit on me :manny:

Idk, maybe they didn't like my clothes, maybe they didn't want to deal with a guy that night. Either way, I don't give a fukk. If I see a chick I like and kinda feel thats she's looked at me and might have a chance I'm going in for the kill. I'll survive regardless. :jawalrus:
 
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