Why Are So Many Dudes Scared Of Getting Rejected?
- Thread starter kermit da hustla
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When I went Asian puzzy hunting one weekend...I got rejected 10 times by all of them.
Don't speak to me about being afraid of rejection...
I have 0 luck with Asian women
you know what the problem is? too many people look @ this as a game NOT understanding that it isn't. one day, you might fukk up and end up stuck with somebody or end up having a kid that you didn't plan on having. you treat people like objects and you end up getting burnt.
My cousin on the other hand doesnt take rejection well. He hit on this persian girl in the mall. Hes from new york by the way. He got shut down. He tells this broad.
"you arent goint to bl0w me up are you" referring to her being persian thus being a t3rr0w1$t. I just walked away from him. It was too embarrrassing to watch or hear another word
"you arent goint to bl0w me up are you" referring to her being persian thus being a t3rr0w1$t. I just walked away from him. It was too embarrrassing to watch or hear another word
Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam
All Star
I agree with everything you said
but what were you doing while your boy approached those 5 women?
You not one of those people who give out advice and can't follow his own right?
but what were you doing while your boy approached those 5 women?
You not one of those people who give out advice and can't follow his own right?
rejection is the inconvenient truth that if you're a regular guy probably the majority of the women in the world won't want you. you aren't their type.
you can't be everything to everybody but men typically don't want to face that. they want to maintain the facade that all women want them and find them desirable.
the men that have success with women accept that the majority of the time they'll be rejected. they instead focus on finding the women they appeal to.
you can't be everything to everybody but men typically don't want to face that. they want to maintain the facade that all women want them and find them desirable.
the men that have success with women accept that the majority of the time they'll be rejected. they instead focus on finding the women they appeal to.
one girl tol me she wasn't allowed to have boys on her phone
I said
and kept it movin. Its really not that bad.
Some dudes need to grow some blass and just ask a girl who they r interested in. If you don't hunt you don't eat
I said
and kept it movin. Its really not that bad.Some dudes need to grow some blass and just ask a girl who they r interested in. If you don't hunt you don't eat
spot on...its easier said than done to not take rejection to heart, but I agree with what the OP is sayin.
Good thing we didnt have that prob sat night tho
lol i agree with this. i understand the mindframe of the threadstarter, but in all honesty, the reason people fear rejection is what you just posted.
even as a guy, if i see another guy get shot down, i feel sorry for him. its not a good look. imagine a girl seeing the same thing. its one thing to get shot down when there aint nobody to witness it, its another to get shotdown in front of people. the walk of shame away from the spot where it happen can have souls burning hotter than the deepest regions of hell.
i don't understand these nikkas that turn p*ssy when it comes to stepping to a girl and spitting game.what's the problem? so what if she says, "no." it's just a word. here's a FACT: even the best looking nikkas (no homo) get rejected. there's no man that hasn't been shot down by a chick. that's life. sometimes, a girl has a man and she's happy with that, or your game just wasn't on point when you stepped to her. so what?
i was out watching the games last night, and my boy stepped to 5 different women at this bar. he got 2 numbers and got shot down by the other 3. that's the law of averages. not every girl is going to feel you. you're going to get rejected by some of them. we all do. but there are also going to be girls out here that feel you and want to fukk with you. but if you don't make that move, you will never meet them, which is why a lot of these p*ssy nikkas get no p*ssy.
nikkas really need to man up and stop being afraid of rejection. we've all been there. the more p*ssy you hollar at, the better your game becomes. you learn what works and what doesn't. it's like being a salesman. you fine tune your pitch until you're selling like hot cakes. that's how you treat this game.
You think it's bad for dudes ? For women it's 5 time worse
Let me guess, he asked for their numbers and they didn't take down his number ?
Dreamzeedream
Banned
i think this might be the main reason why dudes are scared to approach\ fear rejection, i think type of rejection will stay with you forever
DeuceZ
Li pitit gason
been in a relationship so long "I got no game some women just understand my story"
not sure if i would holla in the club though
would rather just 
and 
and if she wants to do it again I'll be like 
ahhh if real life worked like the coli
not sure if i would holla in the club though
would rather just and and if she wants to do it again I'll be like ahhh if real life worked like the coli
Especially with dudes that don't have a car and can't explore other places. Especially in High School where you are trapped in that yellow bus and public transportation. Its hard to get out of that mindset, even after high school.
