Why Are So Many Dudes Scared Of Getting Rejected?

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i don't understand these nikkas that turn p*ssy when it comes to stepping to a girl and spitting game. :smh: what's the problem? so what if she says, "no." it's just a word. here's a FACT: even the best looking nikkas (no homo) get rejected. there's no man that hasn't been shot down by a chick. that's life. sometimes, a girl has a man and she's happy with that, or your game just wasn't on point when you stepped to her. so what?

i was out watching the games last night, and my boy stepped to 5 different women at this bar. he got 2 numbers and got shot down by the other 3. that's the law of averages. not every girl is going to feel you. you're going to get rejected by some of them. we all do. but there are also going to be girls out here that feel you and want to fukk with you. but if you don't make that move, you will never meet them, which is why a lot of these p*ssy nikkas get no p*ssy.

nikkas really need to man up and stop being afraid of rejection. we've all been there. the more p*ssy you hollar at, the better your game becomes. you learn what works and what doesn't. it's like being a salesman. you fine tune your pitch until you're selling like hot cakes. that's how you treat this game.

Good post.
 

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Also, another thing, a woman rejecting you because she isnt interested isnt always the case either :ld:

Women be going thru the motions a lot of times, may be feeling down on themselves, or maybe the way you a approached her was a turn off :manny:

The first time my ex approached me, I was feeling down on myself and the way he came at me turned me off :snoop: (he called me to his car while I was walking sayin some "aye ma c'mere :birdman:") I ignored him of course but i guess we were meant to be cus I was on the other side of town and ran into him again, only this time he approached me like he had some sense :smugfavre:
 
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I didn't know there were people out there scared to talk to women. :bryan:

Personally I've built up such a wall of confidence that I don't need a woman to validate it. Whether they choose to reinforce it or not is :manny:

Maybe nikkuhs don't wanna get clowned by their friends?
 

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growing up I wasn't trippin off rejection I just hated awkward moments after lol.
"oh ok"

Now I don't care. Oh u not feeling me, fine. It costs u nothin pay me no mind :manny:
 

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Girls don't want a guy that other girls dont like. So if you're in a designated area (school, work) and you get rejected by one chick, it gets alot harder as you go on.
 

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Real talk and if she rejects you it doesn't mean that you aren't "good enough" for her. All it means is that you just weren't what she was looking for. Too many guys focus on the women who don't want them as opposed to the woman who wants to make him her world.
 

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The fear is HOW they say 'no.' Back in the days when I was a simp, if a chick kindly turned me down, I would kept it moving and would have holla'd at more girls. The "Hoodrat rejection" is what I always feared, cause that is the type of rejection that is publicly embarrassing where the chick makes an ass out of you.

The High school mentality is another reason why dudes don't approach women cause, again, public humiliation destroys any form of recovery. Even if your game improves, girls still remember that shyt when you got embarrassed by.
 

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Girls don't want a guy that other girls dont like. So if you're in a designated area (school, work) and you get rejected by one chick, it gets alot harder as you go on.

exactly. Unfortunate to say, but staying confined in one area harms a lot of a man's game than anything else. Especially if he gets rejected.
 

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When I went Asian puzzy hunting one weekend...I got rejected 10 times by all of them.

Don't speak to me about being afraid of rejection...

I have 0 luck with Asian women :wow:
 

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:salute: to the op for this enlightening information

Captain obvious ass nikka no shyt
 

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I got rejected on Saturday night but a thick pawg :lolbron:

I'm glad I tried though, but I approached her all wrong, yall don't even want to know the story :snoop:

I was drunk though :manny:
 

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Women take rejection worse then men. Dime calls me at 11pm as im all cozy in the covers talkin bout *im giving you the greenlight, come over and fukk*im like uh can we do that this weekend im tryin to sleep. She was adamant about gettin me over there like what. "ur gonna say no? what are you some kinda fakkit" I hung up on that bird.

Later, she ended up going 2 prison.

She was probably tryin to set me up. :aicmon:
 
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