Why Are So Many Young Men Against Committment These Days?

[Neuromancer]

I couldn't believe it either. I was then for ol boy. She only likes us tall dudes but I was at the height next to the dudes name.

I had to take a pic and send it to my boy like "look at these hoes"

Sounds like fetish.

 

[Entropy Fan]

I couldn't believe it either. I was then for ol boy. She only likes us tall dudes but I was at the height next to the dudes name.

I had to take a pic and send it to my boy like "look at these hoes"

They play these games when they are young and appealing but when they get older and the tables turn they wanna cry foul when they get dogged out

 

[Astroslik]

The quality in the market is trash. No point buying, you'll most likely will get ripped off with the current terms being used.

There needs to be a market adjustment.

In America, there is a bear market right now.

The 60’s and 70’s was on a god tier bull status .


This is why it’s best to get a non westernized woman to minimize losing everything financially and mentally

@Cynic @Serious


#importgang

 

[EARFQUAKE]

Self serving bs. That's the selfishness guys in here talking about

Instead of addressing men's complaints you try shaming them. Not gonna work

Are you familiar with a social media star named Amber Rose?

Marriage ≠ "Strengthening the black community"

Marriage, aka building functional healthy families,is a way to strengthen it, but it isn't the way.

We got a load of issues to fix before we declare that, especially with the rate sistas get divorced;

I see you posted the stats above and I have to ask, this isn't a priority problem? It would appear that it's rooted in financial instability plaqued in the bc, that in itself being a major issue bp suffer from. Are these issues so isolated that we say it's ok to further damage our dating culture because it's too far gone?

 

[Easy-E]

Marriage, aka building functional healthy families,is a way to strengthen it, but it isn't the way.

I see you posted the stats above and I have to ask, this isn't a priority problem? It would appear that it's rooted in financial instability plaqued in the bc, that in itself being a major issue bp suffer from. Are these issues so isolated that we say it's ok to further damage our dating culture because it's too far gone?

Simply put; we need to prioritize our social issues before coming together as families.

No reason for 200 brothers and sisters to marry when 150 will divorce because they realize life isn't easier as husband/wife and that regardless we can't get what white folk have in the present state of America.

My issue is never with what marriage is, but, the reality of getting married ignorant of the issues that face us and is tearing marriages apart.

 

[T'krm]

Because there are so few great woman out there.

Commitment is the male vagina , and we ain't whores.

Even the bible states It is better to live in a corner of the roof Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.

Only 1 chick has had my commitment is the past 9 years and that was my ex fiance.

What happened? She do you dirty?

 

[EARFQUAKE]

Simply put; we need to prioritize our social issues before coming together as families.

No reason for 200 brothers and sisters to marry when 150 will divorce because they realize life isn't easier as husband/wife and that regardless we can't get what white folk have in the present state of America.

My issue is never with what marriage is, but, the reality of getting married ignorant of the issues that face us and is tearing marriages apart.

I don't think pointing out marriage (because I don't believe most people are ready under 30 in this generation) is the issue but the fact that we promote and feed into the lack of commitment with no regards of fixing it is the kicker. This thread isn't to understand the cause or to reform it, it's to justify it. That's all I was saying in my first post

 

[Exlurkernegro]

I keep meeting older guys that tell me to stay single. Even my dad says the same and he's been married for 27 years.

 

[Nikki_04]

Women call for 70% of divorces. So, we've got questions to ask about the sustainability of black marriage.

Meanwhile, most young men aren't even married nowadays.

Bachelor Nation: 70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not Married

Bachelor Nation: 70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not Married

Thanks for the data. I wonder what the reasons behind the divorces are.

 

[Easy-E]

I don't think pointing out marriage (because I don't believe most people are ready under 30 in this generation) is the issue but the fact that we promote and feed into the lack of commitment with no regards of fixing it is the kicker. This thread isn't to understand the cause or to reform it, it's to justify it. That's all I was saying in my first post

What exactly do we have to "commit" to, nowadays?

What is exactly "commitment" to a woman mean? She's the only one you can have sex with?

 

[T'krm]

All this Red Pill trash has roots in and leads to homosexuality. I said it before and I'm saying it again. Viewing women as some kind of major hassle right out of the gate. What do you guys think the end game of that has to be? Really ask yourself that question.

Being with a down ass woman who worships the ground you walk on and caters to your ass is a thousand times better than fooling with a bunch of snakes in the streets. And most of aren't even doing that much but have all these opinions.

Discnt, start w/purple

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

if every man was to tell the truth it'd be no cuffs automatic

cats cuff up out of fear

if you could clap every female you feel like with no pressure from any of them you would too

*

Nah I wouldn’t
I just want 1

 

[EARFQUAKE]

What exactly do we have to "commit" to, nowadays?

What is exactly "commitment" to a woman mean? She's the only one you can have sex with?

There's only one definition of commitment, asking a individual's "idea" on words will only give you a subjective answer, in other words an opinion.

This thread is about why people aren't committing anymore, the context regards to stable and healthy relationships. Healthy, based on ideas projected ITT, is a subjective concept to certain people. One can think having multiple partners is normal whereas another individual may find them run through.

 

[T'krm]

I couldn't believe it either. I was then for ol boy. She only likes us tall dudes but I was at the height next to the dudes name.

I had to take a pic and send it to my boy like "look at these hoes"

Usually boo's are labelled honey, bae ect. not height. Sure this ain't just another fucbuddy tryin to set somethin up? 'Baby' is also kinda neutral..

 

[supertrekker]

CAUSE THEY ALL KNOW THAT YOU CAN'T TURN A HOE INTO A HOUSE WIFE