Why Are So Many Young Men Against Committment These Days?

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Bc too many are: Conniving liars, cheaters, deceivers, money grubbers,manipulators, abusers, attention whores, emotional wrecks, who should be institutionalized, let alone in a 'relationship':damn:
We outchea :myman:
 

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Big FACTS... Societal pressure... Female shaming... Etc

One thing I've learned... Women tolerate alot of shyt based on who you are & how they see you.

One man might have to committ to her with no compromise - while the next man could have his way and have a house full of women if he wanted to.

Same way how one man gotta wine & dine, while the next nikka just shows up, smash & dip....
I said the same thing in that thread that got bushed and I got hit with the bitter label.
 

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According to you, you’re still with your high school sweetheart so when was all this happening?:mjpls:


Oooh I like that nikkas checking my history. Makes me feel like I matter in this Coli world lol

Naw me and my nikka got a bit of a non traditional relationship, since we started so young.

He know nikkas be talkin to me. I know he be talkin to females. But he a promoter, so it's part of the game. And I'm a female, so nikkas will never not try to holla. Sometimes we check each other DMs to see how corny nikkas/bytches get.

He done had old hoes throw it at him heavy too because he's a young black man with no kids and no serious record.
 

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Even just a boyfriend girlfriend thing?

in 2018, women ain't feeling that bf/gf sh*t unless it's leading towards a long term commitment. Especially if you are a quality dude (good looking, successful, top notch stroke game).

They can't handle that in-between zone. Either jumpoff or wife.

Now if you broke, unreliable, average in bed, etc. then maybe they cool with it.
 

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Wtf living with your girl is Hella stressful man what are you talking about

Once again, when we're looking for women, we're looking for the wrong things. If you're talking to a female, and she's always complaining about work, other people, Etc, you know what you're getting yourself into if y'all live together. I used to live with this mixed chick from Portland. She had all the skills that I was looking for in a woman, and she wasn't too much of a talker.

Only issue I had when I was younger is that I was trying to sleep with other females
 

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If a breh is well off then a woman doesn’t really offer much except p*ssy, and having a variety of ass > just one piece of ass

:francis:

Married brehs will hate but

:yeshrug:

Unfortunately it's true. Also I can cook better than any woman I've ever met so...

But if you do find one of those rare women who's professional, loyal, kind, can cook, AND knows how much talking is too much... sheeeeeeeeeeit.... do NOT pass that up, brehs.
 

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Because there are so few great woman out there.

Commitment is the male vagina :ehh:, and we ain't whores.

Even the bible states It is better to live in a corner of the roof Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.

Only 1 chick has had my commitment is the past 9 years and that was my ex fiance.
 

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Then you got to choose the right one of the limited market for you. That's difficult. I had to a nationwide search to find my wife. Something like indeed.com

Exactly.

Hell I'm even doing worldwide o :heh:

the worst thing you can do is commit to the wrong person. I did that when I was younger in my early twenties and ended up with treatable stds, bad credit, stress and a mountain of debt never again
 
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