Why Are So Many Young Men Against Committment These Days?

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Women don't need men anymore. All that stuff you got with old time women you won't get the majority of the time because...why? I'm not working full time to come home and cook, clean, nurse, and tend to the kids while I service you and wash your feet. :mjlol:

Don't act like women at most ages can't go find some dikk or attention. Senior homes have soaring STD rates so all the talk of old women not getting ass is false. If I want kids I can go on down to the sperm bank and find a PRIME candidate without dealing with someone else and their BS. I can make my own money, clean my own house, do what I want when I want, etc.

If you don't add anything positive in my life I don't need or want you :yeshrug:.

This is the same for men and women now. Times have changed. A lot women don't really want a relationship (as evidenced by the many cheaters you all talk about) it's just societal and pressure from other people. Women like variety too, and let's not start on natural urges and animalistic drives because that would require women date and fukk around to find the biggest mate with the most resources (since we're animals and all :rudy:). There are just too many options for people -- a gift and a curse.
Tater, you don't want a man anymore?
 

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Yup :wow:



If we really took it back to NATURE..... All the top tier men would have several acres of land that all 100 of their girlfriends live on, with all 65 of their children.

The top tier men would eat EVEN MORE.


In my opinion, women have no problem sharing a man :yeshrug:



Even in 2018, you can have a house full of women.... A real man always gon eat regardless of what women saying or whatever society standards:yeshrug:


If you a real boss... You can always have a team of women down for you.


No need for committment

This is true, but society would crumble. It's not possible this day and age anymore...
 

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Yup :wow:



If we really took it back to NATURE..... All the top tier men would have several acres of land that all 100 of their girlfriends live on, with all 65 of their children.

The top tier men would eat EVEN MORE.


In my opinion, women have no problem sharing a man :yeshrug:



Even in 2018, you can have a house full of women.... A real man always gon eat regardless of what women saying or whatever society standards:yeshrug:


If you a real boss... You can always have a team of women down for you.


No need for committment

I've actually heard that women are more fluid in their sexuality because biologically we got use to living with each other in harems.

And when the man was away, sometimes the girls would entertain themselves with each other.
 

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What for?

I get everything I want from a multitude of women without having to commit.

I got a woman I can travel with
Women that I can go out and have a good time with.
Multiple Women that come over to just chill & fukk.
Women that will cook for me when I come over.
Women that will pay for breakfast/lunch/dinner
Women that will let me stay at their place when I'm visiting their city/state/country
Women that will pass me on to their friends
Women who will buy me things because they were thinking of me.

So let me ask you a question....

Why should I give all that up for one woman when I have my piece of mind of dealing with multiple women when I want to.
:wow: you’re living the good life breh
 

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You should be building a team... Not running around.


Thats where u fukked up.

U know whats better than 1 loyal woman? Two. Three. Four.
You know breh, the worse thing I did was have a roster. It's best you just try to find a star. We are known what a star look like but find one that got a lot in common with you. Knowing your background, I know you no scrub. You gotta find stars. Once you find one, you lach in. A roster is too hard to maintain if you want a wife. You will just find bullpen arms. You need an ace.
 

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Not particularly. I'm 90% sure I don't want kids (the feeling gets stronger everyday, but who knows) so I don't see the point in getting married anymore. I also don't like dating. I don't mind being alone and actually prefer it sometimes.
I feel you. What is it that you would like in a man?
 

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Never really been the case with me. I've had as of this year, two exes that proposed and one who is on the verge but he know I'm not on stable ground right now.


I'm the one on the :whoa:, b/c they had shyt to work out and I got growing to do.

I have a lot to lose getting married and not a lot to gain. If I'm going to be completely honest, marriage in the only way I know it to be is terrifying to me. Just trying to ensure I don't get taken advantage of and will be able to look at one dude for the rest of my life and not want to strangle him.

All the peer pressure and societal shyt never really worked on me as a female to get married. I've seen 44+ year marriages and if I do, it has to be the long haul. Nobody in our immediate family on either mom or dad's side has ever been divorced. No OOW babies. No homosexuality. No rape or domestic violence or abuse.
A lot of the energy dudes be putting out these days is completely foreign to me. I've had dudes try to "insult" me on some
"You a goody two-shoe" "you sheltered"
I don't give two flying fukks. I'm not gonna be the one grandchild to bring some fukked up shyt into our family and have to deal with them talking shyt for the rest of my life.

I would rather get married two days before I croak at 107 to somebody that is right for me, than to spend an entire lifetime with somebody I'm secretly tired of, who I resent, whose dikk I don't want near me, who cheats on me or tries to live off me, or beats my ass but I married just to do what other people wanted me to do.

Men are usually the ones with cold feet but a lot of women are starting to wake up to being more cautious about the institution. We can debate it but women have more to lose than men do when it comes to marriage IMO.:hubie:
 

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You know breh, the worse thing I did was have a roster. It's best you just try to find a star. We are known what a star look like but find one that got a lot in common with you. Knowing your background, I know you no scrub. You gotta find stars. Once you find one, you lach in. A roster is too hard to maintain if you want a wife. You will just find bullpen arms. You need an ace.

Always something missing breh.

Like brehs said earlier... You're never going to find that "one" woman thats checks all boxes.

Some men may be blessed enough - but they snatch up those women early and take them out the game

Something always gonna be missing.... Like she cooks and cleans and caters but too emotional and too needy.

Shes smart and got money but shes combative and thinks she got a dikk just like you - so she wants to own you.

Sex is amazing but she has no intelligent convo.

I never met that "star" yet... Just a bunch of role players that play their role very well...

Maybe one day tho.....
 
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