Why Are So Many Young Men Against Committment These Days?

Henri Christophe

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If a breh is well off then a woman doesn’t really offer much except p*ssy, and having a variety of ass > just one piece of ass

:francis:

Married brehs will hate but

:yeshrug:


After touching a certain amount of money... You can pretty much get anything you want.... Including multiple cooperative women.


Committment becomes pointless (unless youre that committment/cuffin type of guy)

Even women understand this.

Thats why as soon as women start making more than 75k+ - they start talkin that "I dont need a man" shyt :mjlol:
 

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Regular pusse and less risk of STDs (assuming both parties are faithful). Also, having a cool azz chick who really is loyal, trustworthy, and really has ur best interest and not a burden on u is mos def a benefit. But finding that chick can be like finding a needle in a haystack.

:mjlol:
 

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Idk Im running into more and more dudes either just keeping it fun/smashin....

Or saying “whats the point of marriage?”

Maybe its just my circle.

Its not always guys who have access to women...its dudes who was struggling anyways ....

This is especially true with white dudes.....

Hence “incel”...
Man even the white cats I run into are like marriage :whoa: :whoa: :whoa:


I've heard some horror stories. The disdain they had, tells me that they felt duped by the entire process....
 

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:shaq2: pick a better girl breh :mjlol:

shyt is only stressful if y'all ain't doing something right...something is off.

It's not all roses, but no relationship is. A dog pissing on your carpet can stress you out...

Folk need a crash course in having a friendship within relationship :francis:


G I've done it 4 times all great women cook clean do anything types but eventually I get bored it happens
 

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Most of them don't require their women to know how to cook, clean, nurse, sew, massage, etc. Stuff that people used to consider basic back in the day.

This is false

Plenty men want these things

Plenty men were raised around true WOMEN.

Women in 2018 dont give a damn bout cooking and cleaning for your ass :russ:


"We 50/50 equal partners"


Man... Until I find that woman.... I'll be out here living my best life.


And dont encourage brehs to co-habitate with a woman.

If youre a self sufficient man... There's no reason to enter a co-habitation situation with a woman unless she bossing you up in a major way
 

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Regular pusse and less risk of STDs (assuming both parties are faithful). Also, having a cool azz chick who really is loyal, trustworthy, and really has ur best interest and not a burden on u is mos def a benefit. But finding that chick can be like finding a needle in a haystack.
^^^
 

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Bro you one of them why are you asking this? :russ:
I got a girl

I like relationships

Just ones where I’m in full control and can enjoy something on the side:DenzelWhatever: 1 or 2 girls that she dont know about

I like having feminine energy around granted she’s a good woman to me:DenzelWhatever:

Now marriage, is a no no.
 

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Man dont get me started

They dont mind cheating with u

I made a thread on how I wore a wedding band & had a made up story about my wife and I going thru it....they ate it up

Them hoes didnt even care if I was married they just saw competition

They really thought they was cheating with a married man:Denzelcrackinup:
Man you hell
 

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Just found out last night my side chick has a dude.

After I fukked her to sleep her phone went off. Saw a message "GN baby. Sweet dreams. Hit me when you wake up."

I was like :damn:
shyt like this is why entertaining relationships is scary. I'm the nikka who would text that.
So many cats grew up without fathers, so honestly, they don't understand the benefit of being with a woman outside of sex. They don't even understand how much less stress there is in having a girlfriend, especially if she lives with you. A lot of them would rather just aimlessly go out into the dating game and deal with the lowest common denominator of women.

They see men out here in the dating game having sex with women left and right, and they don't see the point in being with one woman sexually, when you can have multiple. However, this also stems from the low standards men have in the women that they date. Most of them don't require their women to know how to cook, clean, nurse, sew, massage, etc. Stuff that people used to consider basic back in the day.
It was basic 50 years ago because that was taught, women decided to abandon domestic/nurturing duties, at best they best they're able but hold out and refer to them as "husband privileges". If men require women to do all that that we'd be seeing real population control.
It's better to be a basic nikka then an extra ass nikka. Real talk.
No the hell it isn't :heh:
 

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Man dont get me started

They dont mind cheating with u

I made a thread on how I wore a wedding band & had a made up story about my wife and I going thru it....they ate it up

Them hoes didnt even care if I was married they just saw competition

They really thought they was cheating with a married man:Denzelcrackinup:

Bro... Im telling you.

Women are like money.

If you got money.... You can make MORE.

If you aint got none.... Its hard as fukk to get a dollar.
 
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