Why Are So Many Young Men Against Committment These Days?

[Henri Christophe]

Wtf living with your girl is Hella stressful man what are you talking about

 

[Shadow King]

I got a girl

I like relationships

Just ones where I’m in full control and can enjoy something on the side:DenzelWhatever: 1 or 2 girls that she dont know about

I like having feminine energy around granted she’s a good woman to me:DenzelWhatever:

Now marriage, is a no no.

To me that's not committing then, especially if you're hiding your extracurriculars from your girl. If she knew and didn't care that's different.

 

[1thouwow]

Man dont get me started

They dont mind cheating with u

I made a thread on how I wore a wedding band & had a made up story about my wife and I going thru it....they ate it up

Them hoes didnt even care if I was married they just saw competition

They really thought they was cheating with a married man:Denzelcrackinup:

 

[skeetsinternal]

I did away with it because I got a different chic for every need. No one chic is capable of being your all and all or even know how to be or want to be. All of them giving me p*ssy but it might be a chic who cooks good, road trip chic, or even something as simple as chic who "back of her head smells good" when we spooning.

 

[Henri Christophe]

I like relationships

Just ones where I’m in full control and can enjoy something on the side:DenzelWhatever: 1 or 2 girls that she dont know about

I like having feminine energy around granted she’s a good woman to me:DenzelWhatever:

Now marriage, is a no no.

Real nikka.

But I'll take it even further.

I want all my women to know about each other.



Thats the top level of the game.


When all your women know about each other & still ride


In ancient times... This was regular shyt for men.

 

[AsTheWorldBurns]

No the hell it isn't

It is when you come from a bussin ass area. You might not get attention as a basic nikka. But being extra can get you killed.

I know an extra ass nikka doing a bid for a murder I'm pretty sure he didn't commit, but he was so extra. Wearing fake jewels toting broken guns just to flex. Always got in his in something trying to always be in the mix. Got caught up and got a case thrown on his goof ass.

This was also a nikka that was begging to be with me, and ready to throw his BM and kids away to start over with me, to bring the convo full circle.

 

[T'krm]

After touching a certain amount of money... You can pretty much get anything you want.... Including multiple cooperative women.


Committment becomes pointless (unless youre that committment/cuffin type of guy)

Even women understand this.

Thats why as soon as women start making more than 75k+ - they start talkin that "I dont need a man" shyt

Know what x it is if they know you got options.
Actually (small) ppl of women who could be seen as 'desirable' tho, who might still feel forced into accepting being a sisterwife



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[No Hook]

I know too many people that were married but are now divorced. TOO MANY. ALL of them ended because of infidelity

Men love variety. No matter what it is

Some of these young bouls know that the majority of these women nowadays ain't shyt and have agendas. Or they look to their parents who aren't married anymore or never were and see conflict. Women are finessing men more than ever now so sticking and moving is probably the best way to go for them so their feelings won't get caught up

I know shyt happens but I'm not getting married only for it to end in a divorce. fukk that

Never propose to a chick if you haven't been with her at least 2-3 years. That way you can see all the ups and downs and know what you can deal with and what you can't. Even then the shyt can still be difficult

 

[Henri Christophe]

I know too many people that were married but are now divorced. TOO MANY. ALL of them ended because of infidelity

Men love variety. No matter what it is

Some of these young bouls know that the majority of these women nowadays ain't shyt and have agendas. Or they look to their parents who aren't married anymore or never were and see conflict. Women are finessing men more than ever now so sticking and moving is probably the best way to go for them so their feelings won't get caught up

Plus men always try to conform to something that most of us AREN'T

We TRY to be these faithful men... But deep down... Most of us arent built like that...... Like breh said earlier, most men cuff out of fear, necessity, or convenience

The problem is, most men are simply too afraid to be honest bout wanting to enjoy variety.... Men try to FORCE themsevles to be a certain way and then crumble under the pressure of temptation

Just keep it real with these broads....

Some gon leave, some gon stay......

 

[Aceofspades404]

You right. I can only confirm that they wanted me to commit to them. They coulda had hoes from Harlem to Houston for all I know.

But it's fukked up. Some girls be trying to hard to get with a nikka. And some girls gotta stay batting nikkas off because they feel they wifey material.

nikkas find out I have no kids and try and give me the damn world. Talking bout marriage and kids off bat like a desperate old woman. It's a big turn off.

According to you, you’re still with your high school sweetheart so when was all this happening?

 

[Jasonmask]

As a young boy, damn there all my god are in a miserable marriage like they bytch fr cheating on they ass. Some try to cheat back but can’t keep up with the pace the cheating wife does. Others have been in multiple marriages and gave up but all of them tell me you’re putting one foot in the grave when you decide to do that shyt.

I’m not an ugly cat so I got options fukk being committed to one that shyt sounds mad boring. 90% girls know I got options too just part of the game

 

[El negrito de tejas]

What for?

I get everything I want from a multitude of women without having to commit.

I got a woman I can travel with
Women that I can go out and have a good time with.
Multiple Women that come over to just chill & fukk.
Women that will cook for me when I come over.
Women that will pay for breakfast/lunch/dinner
Women that will let me stay at their place when I'm visiting their city/state/country
Women that will pass me on to their friends
Women who will buy me things because they were thinking of me.

So let me ask you a question....

Why should I give all that up for one woman when I have my piece of mind of dealing with multiple women when I want to.

 

[All Women Are Queens]

I just want the box.

 

[Henri Christophe]

I did away with it because I got a different chic for every need. No one chic is capable of being your all and all or even know how to be or want to be. All of them giving me p*ssy but it might be a chic who cooks good, road trip chic, or even something as simple as chic who "back of her head smells good" when we spooning.

Gospel.


Repped.

 

[1thouwow]

I was just watching Divorce Court this afternoon. Y’all need to watch that before y’all THINK about committing