Why are you single?

[Kex]

Just got out of a relationship a few months ago. Noticed:
- Im only interested in people with issues so I can fix them. Stability? Nah fam

- I don't actually love people even in relationships but I like them. And I like a lot of people at once

- Selfish as hell. Detached from reality/childlike. Reckless. Rolling stone

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

I'm not but if I were to be (I'm currently receiving threats) anytime soon..itd be because I'm not emotionally invested in relationships. I'm a free woman. If I want company and companionship, I got friends. Never wanted kids plus men are WAY too needy, it's like having a child anyways. If my man broke up with me id hit the shoulder shrug and he knows it.

I was and got fukked over so Im like fukk it all

Well I'm not together Physically(don't keep myself up like I'm suppose to), Mentality and Spiritually


I don't really go out to meet new people but I'll changing that. I'm improving my social life. So everything a fall into place soon.


I don't even on the hunt like other dudes do. I thinks that's because I was rejected a lot in my teen years so I don't try as hard. but all that's being improved

men cannot live without a spiritual life

Too much of a loner

Introvert like most of us on here

For starters, I'm heavily introverted and totally lost as to where I could meet anyone.
I could hit up clubs all day long but i know damn well I wouldn't find a single chick i'm compatible with in that environment just gonna have to wait for the shyt to happen "naturally"

I understand

-tbh, the small talk stage of finding someone is boring
-My life is pretty much work, gym, work, gym. Its a routine.
-I'm usually out alone and not with a "team" Im in clubs, casinos, movies, sporting events by my lonesome like a loner
-I have a type face on 24/7 and I sound uninterested in what women say to me. They're pretty much scared of my tall 6'4 darkskin with dreads self. I look like a hoodlum.
-I'm not a bubbly person. Im a pessimist[/QUOTE]

I despised cynicism and pessimistic people but I finally get it

It's a catch 22

When I was single I was burnout from dealing with my roster and the randoms

But I'm in a relationship
And dealing with someone on a daily basis is wack
And not having space when u want it is lame

But having condom less
Sex all day everyday is
No restriction sex with someone u know is clean is

Whatever to the stalker from your gym?

If i'm smashing someone, is that count as single ?cause i don't feel i'm in a relationship

Are you using condoms?

I like variety right now but you talk about sistas wanting light skin but yoy like variety? Hmmm...

Too many quality sistas prefer lighter-skinned or white dudes

 

[Morose Polymath]

I'm not diminishing your experience. But you have to venture out into social circles/places that you don't usually meet chicks. It's a vibe that you're giving off for you to be keep attracting those type of females. And yes, you should be gettin in shape and swol, that is good for your overall health as well

Fixed.

 

[1thouwow]

@woodrat what's up

 

[JahFocus CS]

Money > heauxs and I'm focused on myself at this stage.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Whatever to the stalker from your gym?

my girl actually got them back from her


now when the white broad see me
she dont speak

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

my girl actually got them back from her


now when the white broad see me
she dont speak

Good. Who is the chick in your avi?

 

[Scoop]

24 and in law school so not much time plus I have high standards.

Most women just aren't worth it either....

 

[Hope]

I don't do relationships.

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Have you tried the shea butter/bohemian/dread demographic? The dreads alone would have them chicks looking your way.

I date nothin but the bohemian broads tbh.

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

I'm single because I'm working on me.

However I also have an issue. I'm being treated too well by a male friend to be interested in investing in another man right now. If there is a man willing to cook for u, invites u over for liquor and video games and movies, talks with u until 3am in the morning, works out at the gym with u, and isn't obnoxiously pressing u for sex, it's hard to leave that type of comfort friendzone to engage in dating fukkery. If he wasn't an emo wreck from his past relationship with a chick that really tore him down, and I didn't need some time to work on me, I'd be all over that.
Otherwise, it's hard to date other men when ur comparing dating fukkery to that type of comfort which is a type of intimacy of its own.

So I'll just continue to enjoy the benefits of being friendzoned by a dude, work on me and fukk looking for a relationship right now.

You not friendzoned by a nikka you just the sidechick

 

[Reginald Noble]

I put good dudes in the friendzone, then look sad when I hit em up and find out they're in a relationship.

This is like 99% of American females though

It's called lack of IQ

 

[Dwolf]

Just got out of a relationship a few months ago. Noticed:
- Im only interested in people with issues so I can fix them. Stability? Nah fam

- I don't actually love people even in relationships but I like them. And I like a lot of people at once

- Selfish as hell. Detached from reality/childlike. Reckless. Rolling stone

Well hello there

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Too many fukkboys and not enough men.

Fukboys: men that do not have time for yall petty hoe games

 

[Vashti]

This is like 99% of American females though

It's called lack of IQ

Such is life. I have no regrets and no shame. If they were worth keeping....they would have been kept.