Why are you single?

[Vashti]

I put good dudes in the friendzone, then look sad when I hit em up and find out they're in a relationship.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

If I were meant to be in a relationship, I'd be in one.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I'm single because I'm working on me.

However I also have an issue. I'm being treated too well by a male friend to be interested in investing in another man right now. If there is a man willing to cook for u, invites u over for liquor and video games and movies, talks with u until 3am in the morning, works out at the gym with u, and isn't obnoxiously pressing u for sex, it's hard to leave that type of comfort friendzone to engage in dating fukkery. If he wasn't an emo wreck from his past relationship with a chick that really tore him down, and I didn't need some time to work on me, I'd be all over that.
Otherwise, it's hard to date other men when ur comparing dating fukkery to that type of comfort which is a type of intimacy of its own.

So I'll just continue to enjoy the benefits of being friendzoned by a dude, work on me and fukk looking for a relationship right now.

 

[:-)]

I'm telling you I interacted with hundreds of yall females with the same mindset as yall. And you're never gonna be able to get the Man you want the way you currently are.

So just give up and enjoy other things in life. I see a lot of felines in yall future.

Oh shut up you idiot. If a woman is not attracted to someone she is not. Get over it

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I'm telling you I interacted with hundreds of yall females with the same mindset as yall. And you're never gonna be able to get the Man you want the way you currently are.

So just give up and enjoy other things in life. I see a lot of felines in yall future.

That kitten is pretty adorable... lol!

Elaborate bruh

 

[Menelik II]

I'm recently single from a long term relationship , but not even remotely interested in dating broads for now. I'm not interested in getting them through social media as I'm and I don't live in a great spot either . Will probably be dolo for life.

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

I have issues.

Don't we all

They dont want me man.

I feel you

I travel too much. . . I'm only home 2-3 times a month. I can attract them but I can't keep em.

That's my issue too. A guy and can talk and hit the shyt off and then he'll loose interest. What's crazy is that I don't have to duck to make them loose Intrest breh. shyt makes me more jaded in the head

-Don't go out like I used to. In fact, I don't go out anymore. My Saturdays consist of chilling after a day of errands.
-Only women I come in contact with are at work and I don't dip my pen in company ink.
-Confidence. I overthink it.

Same here. People suggest I go on meetup but I'm stuck in my ways

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

I cheat and I can't keep hurting these women Breh. I'm done for good this time.

At least your honest. I suggest smashing hos on backpage or POF

Don't be jaded ...

We had this conversation

I'm self absorbed and self centered at the moment.....But, I got out of a relationship just last year so, this will likely just be for a little while.

I was like that years ago. Best of luck. My optimism went down the drain awhile ago

 

[1thouwow]

Damn y'all nikkas are weird

 

[DaHNIC82]

Bytches out here in Raleigh NC be on some game shyt. They would literally agree with going out with you and at the same time be already in a committed relationship. She'll try to get chaperoned on another nikka paper while taking dyck from her main dude.

And you try going into the dating market They either takened off the market by marriage, engagement or relationship. If not, They out there kitty licking and undercover dyking. Then you have the ones whom are single and have been burned on that "I'm all about me fukk a nikka" type bullshyt. Either that or they have a slew of kids from different dust nikkas.

This is why like @Ronnie Lott said you have to travel out of your district and I found myself doing that more and getting more cooperation from different women in different places.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

-tbh, the small talk stage of finding someone is boring
-My life is pretty much work, gym, work, gym. Its a routine.
-I'm usually out alone and not with a "team" Im in clubs, casinos, movies, sporting events by my lonesome like a loner
-I have a type face on 24/7 and I sound uninterested in what women say to me. They're pretty much scared of my tall 6'4 darkskin with dreads self. I look like a hoodlum.
-I'm not a bubbly person. Im a pessimist

Have you tried the shea butter/bohemian/dread demographic? The dreads alone would have them chicks looking your way.

 

[Swirv]

At least your honest. I suggest smashing hos on backpage or POF

I can't bring myself to pay for something people want to give me for "free". I'm just trying to be celibate at this time tbh.

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

Why aren't you single? Being single is goat

You may have a point. But when I say single, no fwb included. Im over it

#UglyGang

Lies

I'm introverted When people first meet me they think I'm the type of dude who get all the hoes......little do they know

That too but Im like no Im single af. Then men justify NOT talking to me because they assume Im 19 or 20 but Im damn near 30

After I Nut, I Like To Be Alone

1. I CAN'T BE WITH JUST ONE CHICK.

MEN IN 2016 ARE ON SOME BULLshyt I

Correction, men are

 

[Arishok]

I'm telling you I interacted with hundreds of yall females with the same mindset as yall. And you're never gonna be able to get the Man you want the way you currently are.

So just give up and enjoy other things in life. I see a lot of felines in yall future.

Nah I like dogs better

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

I'm introverted and boring

You know whats interesting? I changed so the men that I did date previously was really upset that I am boring. I simply wont fight you, I will walk away if I catch some foul shyt. Sure, Ill go out or if I am passionate, Ill speak my mind but Im boring. They wanted the ratchet, long nails, lip smackin chick but I changed...alot and they wanted "low level shyt" as @ByAnyMeans would say

Not happy with the options presented to me.

Touche'

see for me it's because I'm too picky.

But really it isn't picky if I'm to be honest with myself. I bag shorties that are beautiful and all that, but lack the vision, the drive, the ambition I desire by my side. In fact, lately the beautiful ladies I have been talking to see me as having it all because of the school I go to and the success I've had academically. And while from the outside I may be winning, I still haven't made it yet. But they don't understand it. This one girl I was feeling was good until a month in, where every time we stepped out in SF she wanted me to rock a Stanford medicine shirt...to show me off as her man who goes to Stanford. But that didn't bother me, it was the fact that she doesn't understand my goals. I need someone who understands my dreams and goals.Sounds cute and typical but waiting for a but....

I have shyt I wanna accomplish outside of medicine and I need someone to match my hustle. I have startups I have in mind, investments I wanna make

Are you familiar with this app? I think I want to get into this but nervous it may be a scam!

Get Stash | Stash Invest

Other stuff I wanna create and When I mentioned it to her she said "why?

With your Stanford degree you'll be good and get a job!"

Smh girl I wanna be more than that! But at the end it takes so much to level up people that I end up deciding that it's best I stay alone. Idk man, it sucks.

Makes sense...