Why Black Love is DOOMED: We're too influenced by Celebrities and TV and model our lives and relationship after them.

[Scustin Bieburr]

A woman will compromise a lot if she's really interested in someone.

What makes her interested is the X factor

The mistake men make is that the majority of women will love them for who they are, not what they provide. The last 2-3 generations of men have been raised on a childish perspective of love (your personality, your qualities as a good person are what make you lovable) but then are having their wakeup call when they realize that shyt doesn't matter to like 75% of women.

They want you to bring something into their lives. When you stop being exciting, in decent shape, making her eyes roll back in bed or making the kind of money that impresses her and her friends then they'll give you a couple chances to get right and if you can't?

Men are easily replaceable because there are so many of us out there that are single and ready to come off the bench. You can't convince a woman to blow herself up for 72 virgin men, you can't convince a woman to work herself into an early grave to provide for a man. They know their value to men and move accordingly. They know that men perceive their attention as a scarce resource and will do whatever to not scare her off.

So many men fixate on getting they foot in the door that they don't realize how small and uncomfortable most rooms in the house are.

 

[Rell84shots]

Black love is doomed because Amerikkka is using tv to influence the next generation. We're not exaggerating when we say that every other show/commercial is a WM/BW or a gay black/interracial couple on tv.

 

[Wildhundreds]

What makes her interested is the X factor

The mistake men make is that the majority of women will love them for who they are, not what they provide. The last 2-3 generations of men have been raised on a childish perspective of love (your personality, your qualities as a good person are what make you lovable) but then are having their wakeup call when they realize that shyt doesn't matter to like 75% of women.

They want you to bring something into their lives. When you stop being exciting, in decent shape, making her eyes roll back in bed or making the kind of money that impresses her and her friends then they'll give you a couple chances to get right and if you can't?

Men are easily replaceable because there are so many of us out there that are single and ready to come off the bench. You can't convince a woman to blow herself up for 72 virgin men, you can't convince a woman to work herself into an early grave to provide for a man. They know their value to men and move accordingly. They know that men perceive their attention as a scarce resource and will do whatever to not scare her off.

So many men fixate on getting they foot in the door that they don't realize how small and uncomfortable most rooms in the house are.

Don't you have the same requirements from a woman?

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

Who the fukk is we?

 

[Yzak]

Black love is doomed because Amerikkka is using tv to influence the next generation. We're not exaggerating when we say that every other show/commercial is a WM/BW or a gay black/interracial couple on tv.

And you can't really call it out as a Black man because Black women will undermine you and claim you're jealous or don't have a job.

Our relationships went to shyt when Black women embraced CIA sponsored feminism and were convinced that Black men were dragging them down. Black women then attempted to "divorce" Black men and integrate into white liberal society, that's why they mindlessly champion every white liberal cause and are the most gender/sexually confused people in America.

Black women intentionally broke off all communal trust/love with Black men to embrace what they thought would separate them from the "losers", but it's not working out.

 

[Gloxina]

When you think about it where else do you see intricate details of a relationship but from TV and Social Media. I'm very close to my parents and brothers, 2 are married. And I don't see details of how their marriages really work. I see more on television and IG, which is only the good parts. I think we all have a very warped view of how relationship really work. I was raised with both parents, my parents are still together, but that doesn't give me any advantages in this modern dating world. I meet so many women who think we're suppose to eat out at all the restaurants and travel to all the popular destinations like celebrities. Staying home and learning to enjoy each others companies is foreign to them. Theyve never seen that on TV.. That I do about real relationships is there's a lot of just me and u at home time.

I don't know man, I think this is a major issue amongst all the other problems with have. We just don't realize or are prepare for how regular marriage life will be. The constant pressure of trying to keep thing new, thrilling and exciting is unsustainable.

Good relationships are boring and predictable.
We’re supposed to watch our married parents, and get a view of the other marriages in our families. So many of us don’t have those examples around us. We have 1-2 generations of ppl who didn’t grow up with those traditional examples, trying to figure this shyt out.

Part of the fun of being a kid was eavesdropping and listening to the adult conversations when they didn’t think you were able to comprehend. Listening to your parents fuss behind the bedroom door, hearing the gossip about aunt so-and-so and her hubby during family dinner, sneaking and listening to the private conversations happening in a corner during the big holiday dinner when your troublesome cousin comes back to town, etc. Talking to your siblings and cousins about all the adult stuff happening and trying to make sense of things. This is how we learned about relationships/marriages.

I lucked the hell out because although my folks are divorced, eeeeeeveryone else remained married, so I’ve seen it all. Including how to stay together and guide your children to success at a young age.

But you’re right. A lot of us were raised by tv and are trying to live up to fake images and storylines on reality tv and social media.

 

[Justin Nitsuj]

Didn't OP do a thread not too long ago telling black men to leave their respective community to go find happiness elsewhere where we aren't welcomed?

 

[BunchePark]

nikka black love gone be straight

We gone be GUCCI

I got 4 blk kids (3girls 1boy) they gone need to continue this legacy one day

It's other strong men out there raising they set too bruh and raising em right

Love gone defeat all the fukkery

 

[Gloxina]

Y'all be overreacting over everything. Men in demand will continue to get women in demand. Been that way since the beginning. Only losers will fall off.

That’s true too.

 

[Rawtid]

Nah, relationships are being modeled after the failed, stale and/or stagnant associations of the people we know.

No one cares if grandma was happy as long as she stuck in there for 20 years. Who cares if grandpa was miserable, cheating and had a secret second family? He paid all the bills, right?

Lol we wish we could be like celebrities and at least be miserable in luxury.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

We literally had this same thread posted two weeks ago. Black people are not the only group obsessed with celebrity couples or social media so why are you singling them out? Yet white people are still getting married despite obsessing over who Brad Pitt or J Lo are dating. Clearly media consumption isn't the issue then right?

What OP is missing is they dont realize celebs are pushed onto black people for politics. White supremacy pushes out black celebs to speak on shyt instead of our elected black politicians. They want you to blame Jay Z and Ophrah when shyt goes bad not Obama or Corey Booker.

 

[ChatGPT-5]

Who the fukk is we?

came in here to write this

 

[Stuntone]

Didn't OP do a thread not too long ago telling black men to leave their respective community to go find happiness elsewhere where we aren't welcomed?

I said any Black person with a good job lives the Black Community Fool.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Don't you have the same requirements from a woman?

Hell yeah. If a woman is coming into my life ill need her to bring more to the table than some worn out p*ssy and emotional baggage.

I ask 'if I wasn't attracted to her, what is she bringing into my life that I can't get from anyone else who will do it better or myself?'

If shes good at giving advice, funny, a better cook and even cleaner than I am, and will spend on me by reciprocating the gifts I give to her, then shes a good choice. A woman should never take more than what she gives and vice versa. I'm all about equality. If shes bringing nothing but worn out p*ssy and emotional baggage into my life I'm not interested. I wish other men were on the same wave because it would encourage more women to be self-reflective and work on themselves.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Hell yeah. If a woman is coming into my life ill need her to bring more to the table than some worn out p*ssy and emotional baggage.

I ask 'if I wasn't attracted to her, what is she bringing into my life that I can't get from anyone else who will do it better or myself?'

If shes good at giving advice, funny, a better cook and even cleaner than I am, and will spend on me by reciprocating the gifts I give to her, then shes a good choice. A woman should never take more than what she gives and vice versa. I'm all about equality. If shes bringing nothing but worn out p*ssy and emotional baggage into my life I'm not interested. I wish other men were on the same wave because it would encourage more women to be self-reflective and work on themselves.

The bold is facts like a mfer because a lot of men have lowered the bar for women, whether men want to admit this or not. Aint no way a woman should think that if she a "bad bytch" then she good. Men did this shyt, and they do it consistently on this website.