Then the black "commmunity" is mostly losers
Why Black Love is DOOMED: We're too influenced by Celebrities and TV and model our lives and relationship after them.
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MajesticLion
Veteran
woe-is-we babble 
RareHunter
All Star
RareHunter
All Star
c00ns are in here posting about welfare queens and how white supremacy isn’t the problem.
Some super shameful self hating shyt. And somehow right on brand with all of the consistently trash posts.
Some super shameful self hating shyt. And somehow right on brand with all of the consistently trash posts.
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
This right here.
All the women want to be bad bytches and model themselves after reality TV chicks...does anybody know a black woman that DOESN'T watch Tyler Perry shows or reality TV?
I don't
Antwon Mitchell
Banned
Doomed for YOU, maybe.
For me? NO
Black Love is my #1 priority and Black Women will always be #1 in my life until the day I die.
Y'all doom and gloom nikkas are something else
...everywhere y'all go it's nothing but a black cloud raining over your heads.
For me? NO
Black Love is my #1 priority and Black Women will always be #1 in my life until the day I die.
Y'all doom and gloom nikkas are something else
...everywhere y'all go it's nothing but a black cloud raining over your heads.
They're out here scattered about. But way too many women watch that shyt. And while the parents are watching, the kids are sitting right there. Thats part of the problem.
What makes her interested is the X factor
The mistake men make is that the majority of women will love them for who they are, not what they provide. The last 2-3 generations of men have been raised on a childish perspective of love (your personality, your qualities as a good person are what make you lovable) but then are having their wakeup call when they realize that shyt doesn't matter to like 75% of women.
They want you to bring something into their lives. When you stop being exciting, in decent shape, making her eyes roll back in bed or making the kind of money that impresses her and her friends then they'll give you a couple chances to get right and if you can't?
Men are easily replaceable because there are so many of us out there that are single and ready to come off the bench. You can't convince a woman to blow herself up for 72 virgin men, you can't convince a woman to work herself into an early grave to provide for a man. They know their value to men and move accordingly. They know that men perceive their attention as a scarce resource and will do whatever to not scare her off.
So many men fixate on getting they foot in the door that they don't realize how small and uncomfortable most rooms in the house are.
Thats true....until women reach a certain age. No simp dude gonna MARRY some old broad with multiple kids from previous relationships, only to smash for a short while.
It’s crazy to see how marriage obsessed men are becoming. Which is funny b/c men traditionally have complained about marriage being awful and the “old ball and chain” and glorified being eternal bachelors.
Celebrity worship isn’t the primary factor in why relationships aren’t working but overconsumption of negative internet/social media, woe is me, sensationalism is. And people are doing this in lieu of achieving other major markers of adulthood that signal readiness for real commitment. Like holding a steady career, graduating from college and high school, being in a position to be a homeowner, having good communication skills, being mentally sound, not subscribing to hateful negative rhetoric about the opposite sex, having healthy views of fulfilling roles within relationships, understanding how to work with people in relationships, having a personality and identity, systemic white supremacy.
It’s easy to blame celebrity worship for the lack of successful relationships in our community but ultimately that’s lazy thinking. There are other major factors that need to be addressed that would render stuff like overconsumption of media powerless if it was fixed.
Celebrity worship isn’t the primary factor in why relationships aren’t working but overconsumption of negative internet/social media, woe is me, sensationalism is. And people are doing this in lieu of achieving other major markers of adulthood that signal readiness for real commitment. Like holding a steady career, graduating from college and high school, being in a position to be a homeowner, having good communication skills, being mentally sound, not subscribing to hateful negative rhetoric about the opposite sex, having healthy views of fulfilling roles within relationships, understanding how to work with people in relationships, having a personality and identity, systemic white supremacy.
It’s easy to blame celebrity worship for the lack of successful relationships in our community but ultimately that’s lazy thinking. There are other major factors that need to be addressed that would render stuff like overconsumption of media powerless if it was fixed.
King
The black man is always targeted.
You have posted for years on how your six figure salary has made you a “high value” male in the dating world. Perhaps you should focus on making more money and managing your time better to accommodate those requirements of the women you seek. Or has the veil of black neoliberalism finally been lifted?
