in all fairness, he's sorta right. black people
put an invisible barrier on themselves. why do a lot of black children think they're only way out the hood is rapping or sports, and not studying? which is almost a for chance of getting out. you study hard, get to college and graduate top of your class, no one can deny you, esp with affirmative action in place....yet we dont even use our affirmative action laws. its crazy. white women and asians are the number 1 users of AA.
I personally breezed through the largest medical insurance company in america, on just a H.S diploma, cleaning up my act, coming in on time and busting my ass and learning how to move politically. I started off as a customer service rep, ended up becoming an outsource trainer, traveling around the world...all within 3-4 years.
you know whats funny? initially I got hated on by some black people that had been there for yrs and were much older, they were saying I was a 'safe negro', they mistakened dressing in a suit and tie and talking to VPs and being a sell out wtf lol. well guess what, safe negro moved to north hollywood, and bought a z28 camaro on 19s, and just vacationed in venezuela, you been there 10 yrs, I been there 4 and doubled your salary. but then something happened...ghetto ass bytches that used to be loud in the cafeteria, started dressing professionally, working over time, and making moves, befriending important cacs just like I did. I even had one lady specifically tell me I was her motivation.
I would train new hires, and black people would be the primary people surprised when a 24 year old me would walk in with a suit and tie. it was crazy. I had young brothas asking me "how I did it", and that "they wanted to follow my footsteps" and you know what? I would lay a blue print on how I did. I always shared my knowledge with young black men. now, im not saying there's no discrimination, I saw some, but it's exaggerated for sure bruh. I always moved professionally as if 'these barriers' didn't exist, and I was able to go to college and become professional without any real barriers. I have a clean record, and just did what I had to do. I did everything by the book, just like a suburban kid would, and it worked.
Sorry to stereotype but a lot of black peoples work ethics are horrible, coming in late, being loud at the job, taking longer breaks, I should know, I had to train black people, and even fire a few (its either them or me, fukk that you aint fukking up my paper, corporate is a shark tank learn quick or drown)
Some of the things I heard as a trainer saddened me. It's almost like we're in our own mental prison. Older black women I trained would ask me things like "do you date black women?", "you got any kids"..mind you I'm only 24-25 at the time. and they were shocked when I said, yes I date black women and no I aint got no kids.

look at the kind of inferiority complex we have. we expect ourselves to be bottom feeders.
Even today, I live abroad and people still ask me crazy things like "how are you treated as a black man?", "do them females fukk with nikkas?" "tf you doing abroad". I never once asked myself these questions. I always thought to myself, I'm Tommy, course these people are going to fukk with me. I'm articulate, intelligent, witty, funny. I'm me, and I'm fukking brilliant. how in the world am I going to think my skin color is going to give me an unfair advantage? I haven't been denied anything because the color of my skin and the majority of you nikkas havent either. (if at all you even tried)
We as a community lack confidence, and it's saddening. Just look at the thread title.
Nobody caught it, but a few pages ago, I wrote one simple line. "I'm not at the bottom of any list"
and that should be the entire communities mentality. if every indiv thought that way, collectively it would come together that way.
lets not even get into, how nikkas dont want to follow their path because of how their image or blackness might come across. a black kid in the hood thats 15 could go up to the class and say he wants to be an astronaut and nikkas would prolly clown him. yet we have over a dozen astronauts that work for NASA right now. *sigh*