Let me be blunt. A brother should never spank his buddy's girl, and a sister should never hoe out her body (not even once), especially with somebody close to her man, just because he was a hoe...I don't care how many times he was a hoe. How is that getting back at him, if she kept it a secret. If she did it, and made sure he found out, then that would be revenge, but there would have never been a wedding most likely, and that relationship would have been over a long time ago. That's real life. She will always be the one who will have to answer for what she did with her body. She bit her nose to spite her face.
Every time I've seen something happen like this in real life, it never ended well at all. Either you're gonna lose your significant other, or you're gonna lose your best friend, or worst. I remember back in the day, especially coming out of high school, it was almost seen as justified, when women slept with somebody close to her man, because he cheated on her. I remember my next door neighbor gave his baby's mother an STD while she was pregnant. Not only did she sleep with everybody close to him, but she gave them all that STD. Coming from the block, a lot of people still felt she was justified, just because she was very pretty. I hope they don't still think that way.
I had a married cousin who tapped his friends wife, and my cousin had to take his wife, and leave town behind it, because his friend was coming for him. We all probably dreamed we did something like this before, with somebody that we had no business even looking at that way, and regretted it in that dream, or worst yet, got caught! Then you be wishing it was a dream, and you wake up so glad it was. Just a dream like that is enough to f*** your head up. My cousin sorta looked and acted like my close friend's buddy, the same close friend I talked about in my last post. I had said his buddy slept with his girlfriend when they were about to break up. What was different was, his buddy kept sleeping with his old girlfriend, and they became a new couple, at least for a while...smh. But sometimes, I think my close friend gave his buddy the impression that he would have been cool with it. But to hear it actually played out, surprisingly snapped him. That's probably why his buddy came knocking on his door that evening, to explain that he thought everything was gonna still be cool. Why else would you be the one approaching your friend, after you tapped his girl. But he should have known better not to really go thru with it. My cousin, and my close friend's buddy always joked around about things like this, but you never thought they'd go through with it.
I have this other friend whose been married for about 40 years. He always told me his wife liked me, but he never told me exactly how. One time I saw her opening her legs at me. She was wearing a dress, and I could see everything. It looked gross. As loose as she was, and as bad as they use to argue in front of me, I would never sleep with her. But sometimes, I think he believes I did, even though I live way down here in Atlanta. I guess that comes with the turf, when you marry somebody knowing they're cable of something like that. Me, I would never wanna be in that kinda love again.
