Why did my female coworker do this?

D.C Young

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A little situation just happened right now at work and I wanted to get you guys take on it

There's this female coworker of mines that has been giving me heavy "choosing signals" for a while now

I don't like talking to girls that I work with so I never decided to act upon her choosing signals

But I try to put myself in other people's shoes and I started to feel a bit sorry for her because perhaps she was shy and insecure and was too scared to approach me.

So just a few hours ago, I approached her and told her to meet me at the main entrance when she got off work

The interesting thing however though is that when I asked her what time she was leaving, she said 4 but I already knew she was leaving at 3, so that's interesting

So at around 3, she actually already left, so at 4pm, I didn't see her at the main entrance.

So what do yall think is going on here, is this just a classical case of a girl wanting your validation?

For context, not too sound arrogant, but I'm a tall good looking dude, and there is a tendency for girls to give me choosing signals at work

I also dont really talk to people, and dont really pay attention to girls at work

So I think that in some of these cases, these girls just want my attention because they might

be wondering why I dont pay attention to them like the other guys at work
 

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Just step back homie and let things play out over the next few days,should be able to read her


All i get from that now is because you just asked her what time she dippin she musta got some sort of vibes from you


Again just let things play out man youll be fine:ehh:


















You might lose ya job but dont panic:obama:
 

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Stay away from female coworkers your not friends with there either really bytchy and talk to much or they will get you caught up.


Yeah I feel you on that

but the only reason why I made a exception for her

is because physically, she's exactly my tape

I'm very attracted to her but she doesnt know this
 

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You niggss weird. Meet me by the entrance while everybody trying to leave and go home dummy. Game her in the breakroom, you idiot.


I don't like having people in my business

And I also dont like interrupting people while they

are working and especially on their lunch

Me telling her to meet me when she is done with everything is actually very convenient for her

unless she had somewhere to go though which is cool
 

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I don't like having people in my business

And I also dont like interrupting people while they

are working and especially on their lunch

Me telling her to meet me when she is done with everything is actually very convenient for her

unless she had somewhere to go though which is cool

I feel. Breakroom your best shot. Not at the end of the day when people tired and ready to get the fukk out of the building lol. Breakroom action is unfukkablewith.
 

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Yeah I feel you on that

but the only reason why I made a exception for her

is because physically, she's exactly my tape

I'm very attracted to her but she doesnt know this

There's plenty of women outside of work your just bringing yourself more drama never mix business and pleasure
 

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I don't like having people in my business

And I also dont like interrupting people while they

are working and especially on their lunch

Me telling her to meet me when she is done with everything is actually very convenient for her

unless she had somewhere to go though which is cool

Maybe YOU misinterpreted the signals

Since you've already gone there why not find out from HER what the deal is next time you see her, Coli can't help you with this.
 
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