A little situation just happened right now at work and I wanted to get you guys take on it
There's this female coworker of mines that has been giving me heavy "choosing signals" for a while now
I don't like talking to girls that I work with so I never decided to act upon her choosing signals
But I try to put myself in other people's shoes and I started to feel a bit sorry for her because perhaps she was shy and insecure and was too scared to approach me.
So just a few hours ago, I approached her and told her to meet me at the main entrance when she got off work
The interesting thing however though is that when I asked her what time she was leaving, she said 4 but I already knew she was leaving at 3, so that's interesting
So at around 3, she actually already left, so at 4pm, I didn't see her at the main entrance.
So what do yall think is going on here, is this just a classical case of a girl wanting your validation?
For context, not too sound arrogant, but I'm a tall good looking dude, and there is a tendency for girls to give me choosing signals at work
I also dont really talk to people, and dont really pay attention to girls at work
So I think that in some of these cases, these girls just want my attention because they might
be wondering why I dont pay attention to them like the other guys at work
There's this female coworker of mines that has been giving me heavy "choosing signals" for a while now
I don't like talking to girls that I work with so I never decided to act upon her choosing signals
But I try to put myself in other people's shoes and I started to feel a bit sorry for her because perhaps she was shy and insecure and was too scared to approach me.
So just a few hours ago, I approached her and told her to meet me at the main entrance when she got off work
The interesting thing however though is that when I asked her what time she was leaving, she said 4 but I already knew she was leaving at 3, so that's interesting
So at around 3, she actually already left, so at 4pm, I didn't see her at the main entrance.
So what do yall think is going on here, is this just a classical case of a girl wanting your validation?
For context, not too sound arrogant, but I'm a tall good looking dude, and there is a tendency for girls to give me choosing signals at work
I also dont really talk to people, and dont really pay attention to girls at work
So I think that in some of these cases, these girls just want my attention because they might
be wondering why I dont pay attention to them like the other guys at work