Finally, a thread where I can empty the clip. I'm also typing on my phone, so excuse the errors.
Short ass backstory: papa was a rolling stone. So usually, half-siblings dont be close unless they was raised together. don't need to say anymore on that tidbit.
Anyways, our (my) dad passed away this year and I had to do the whole funeral (my aunt probably would've done it otherwise..but our uncle died 2 weeks before my dad's death...so naturally, it would fall on me - which was no issue since I was the closest to him).
So, I went out of my way to get everyone's thoughts and what not on the funeral, what dad's wishes was, and so forth.
Long ass story short (as I can get it): my aunt made a statement in thengroup chat saying "Sassy shouldn't have to fork in the cash for the funeral bill alone." Mind you, my aunt's tone wasn't rude in anyway. My sister for some reason took offense to this and basically popped some shyt about how my aunt and dad's side of the family should pay for dad's funeral...nevermind our uncle died 2 weeks before him!
So I'm cool on the chat cause I was already stressed. a few weeks later, hit up my sister and asked her personally if she was going to help pay or not (she said yes when I asked her before). And then she basically said no (also said no on bros behalf) and repeated what she had stated to our aunt in the group chat.
And that's when I started to side eye her and her brother...cause why tf you didn't just say so from the beginning instead of flip flopping like a fukking magikarp?
That nail in the coffin was when neither her nor our (her) brother showed up to his vet funeral...which wouldn't have been a problem except...they never gave me a heads up stating as such. and I was the only one there at the vet funeral (aunt couldn't make it for obvious reasons, my oldest brother had to have surgery on his foot).
And you know what makes it so fukking bad? The funeral was literally 4 hours away in the next city from where they live...like yall couldn't even spare 4 fukking HOURS to see him IN THE SAME DAMN STATE. I literally had to fly from another state to attend and do the funeral..but you couldn't even spare 4 hours...
So with all of that said, I don't care to have a relationship with these 2 cowards. Or if I ever talk to them again. I made peace and amends with the one person I needed to (my father) and honestly? I'm happy and grateful I was able to before he passed.
Sorry yall, had to get this shyt off my chest.