Why do a lot of married men seem so miserable?

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Damn near every older dude I run into be same way and tell me the same thing never get married now I know every situation is different but it just seems way too common.
What's worse is when I would meet dudes that were married for 15+ years they'd tell me the secret to a long marriage is to obey your wife :dahell:
These nikkas living in captivity.
 

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Poor judgement. If you're not having fun in your marriage, it's prolly your own fault. Some spouses don't know how to spend time together while also spending time doing their own things.
Can't always be up under a mf and can't always do what you wanna do when you wanna do it. Can't always expect them to do what you want them to do. Can't kill yourself tryna do everything to please them, that's more stressful than helpful. Can't get mad when you don't get your way, that's childish. Gotta realize the difference between mad and upset/sad and tired and know how to convey and receive emotions accurately. Etc.

That's only a portion of the basic things you learn about each other over time, ideally without having to talk about em. The quicker you learn how to make sacrifices and meet in the middle, the smoother it will be years down the line.
 

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What's worse is when I would meet dudes that were married for 15+ years they'd tell me the secret to a long marriage is to obey your wife :dahell:
These nikkas living in captivity.
I hear shyt like this too often.
My uncle, who is married, practically begs me not to get married :mjlol:, He knows he can’t leave her without being ruined financially, so he he gotta deal with all her bullshyt.

Stop marrying these broke women, Marry equal or up.
 
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