you are bound to be in a shythole situation when a women decided to take power and lead 
in a society, based on women not winning. Unless you can find the level headed woman like some in here have. 
You are always gonna have a combative bytch... and you will have to bend to her insecurities and power struggles forever 
add kids, finances etc... kiss the game goodbye 
most people have no actual lives and just be doing shyt 
but then they realize, now they are stuck digging a hole forever 
or they need to go 50/50 to survive, so it seems like it makes sense...traditionally 
life is what you make it 
either you got the time for this 
or you got the time for that 
if most people had an actual life... they wouldnt have been put in that position in the first place. So most men have to admit, they are half of the problem for not making better choices, regardless of if the woman changes over time or not. Stupid games, stupid prizes. 
If you got enough bread to provide for a family... why dont you have shyt in your name and have your family live with YOU 
if your girl or wife is in control of everything... then maybe you are the wife in the relationship ... have some foundation and backbone 
the mistake from the jump is that you are capable of owning and leading, but you step into a contract... hoping to own and lead afterwards... instead of before.