Why do all brehs want to be a bad boy?

[#1 pick]

I see it all the time on here. Man, my homie got...

out of my group of friends (five in total) I got the least amount of chicks. Some of my nikkas got chicks every weekend. One guy was funnier, another more dominant/aggressive/a lil street, another more handsome, another a ladies man girls could relate to. So they all pulled more. But I had girls tell me I was a good guy. Future husband material. That they should've dated a guy like me (but, fukked my homies instead ). Every one of my girls parents except one LOVED me because they said I was a good dude. Even had one ex's mother tell me I was too good for her daughter and to find someone else

So why do all dudes want to be bad boys? Body catching nikkas. The rude boi!

What's wrong with being a dude who looks for Ayesha Curry's. You know, that chick that's ready at 18. Or is it that you aren't ready but you want to live the live that you friends live as male thots. You do realize that shyt comes with consequences. Women keying your shyt. Them trying to get you locked up. Them getting mad and fighting among each other but De'Veon gets to hit this and this so shyt, I wanna be him.

You don't realize you a part of the problem. There is a lot of girls who ain't about that life but you so much want to live his live, live your own life.

Breh, I seen so many girls who were ready to settle down when I was in college. So many if the right man came to them and no, he didn't need to be 6'5 and look like Kobe either.

If the male thots wanna be thots, let em but don't play yourself and fukk up your own self esteem for what another nikka is doing. Sorry but GMB is only relevant because nikkas ain't picking the right spouses. Right right, eat healthy and you shall flourish.

 

[onelastdeath]

Because we have more fun.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

You do realize that shyt comes with consequences.

Exactly. The bigger the catch the bigger the loss.

 

[Perpetual Beast]

Great thread and to answer the question: simply because that's what easiest.

I don't necessarily "choose" to be the bad boy/ rude boy, but I feel like it's what allows me to be happy...don't have to worry about too much.

It'll be way too hard for me to change now, but this is a good message for the younger guys who have decisions to make:

 

[Inspect Her Deck]

My favourite all time basketball player was a Bad Boy

 

[VegasCAC]

Being in the top 20%

Hypergamy, Coli nerds

 

[Worthless Loser]

The temptation to do bad is a much higher adrenaline rush than the temptation to do good. Doing good is normal and to some degree, boring depending on who you are. Plus you are remembered more for your " bad" (bad does not mean "bad" in this case. You know what I mean though) deeds than your good deeds. Being remembered more causes a higher chance of attraction. That's part of the reason why some people think positive music is wack.

 

[#1 pick]

My favourite all time basketball player was a Bad Boy

I want be a Hot Boy -The the the coli.com

 

[semtex]

When you courting one of those Ayesha curry types and you unlock her freaky side

Seeing nutt all over that innocent face nutt all in that non-cursing mouth

Sorry brehs having flashbacks

 

[Elle Driver]

Because we have more fun.

You sure?

 

[SirReginald]

I'm a bad boy For real, I'm not a bad boy at all. TBH, I'm one of those gentlemen types that the father-in-law would like. Basically, I'm too awkward to ever be a bad boy.

P.S. I understand what you meant. Some guys just wanna impress chicks so much that they would fake a persona.

 

[dc007]

Because they feel thats what they need to be to have a roster of females they can have sex with

But those chicks you are referring to who are ready at 18 are usually gone by sophomore year.

 

[Black]

I'd put Jennifer freeman whole butt in my mouth.

 

[全能の神]

What does being a "bad" boy entail?

 

[onelastdeath]

You sure?

Absolutely. I'm a one woman man right now, doing the whole family thing and this is the happiest I've ever been. But the alternative is More feasible. Not everyone will be so lucky to find a great girl who wants to build with you. It's easier to juggle women and work on yourself.

And the day you learn that balance, those limits, and just how to move while keeping a bunch of women. There's honestly not a better feeling/mode in the world, outside of being a family man with a great girl.

I wouldn't even call it a bad boy lifestyle. It's more of a bachelor's lifestyle. Casual Sex, casual conversation, little to no stress if you know how to manage circumstance and situations.

It's easy cake.