Why do black folks that only date white have the same origin story?

[Mindfield333]

This is a twitter thread from one of those divest women but online you’ll hear people male or female make the same excuses

Trope 1. claims they were teased/ bullied by other black ppl because of their looks/financial status:



Trope 2. The desperation to fit in:


Trope 3 self hatred:


Trope 4. Change of scenery


Fully Divested

 

[Bumblebreh]

Mental illness

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Kids can be cruel.

 

[Shadow King]

So you expect people who grew up in areas 80-95% black and didn't struggle socially as adolescents to exclusively date another race, particularly one seen as their literal opposite?

 

[Rozay Oro]

I’ve only been with one brehette and others girls have been other races. I don’t c00n or make excuses tho. Can she have trauma, sure but this is ridiculous. Move on. I understand being fukked from fam but mf’ers you haven’t seen in years or decade(s) and it wasn’t molesters not rape. Shut up, I don’t think of mf’ers that roasted me in middle school lol.

 

[GhostBreh]

Their garbage causes?

Dumbass bytch.


Wanting your back blown out by white men is cool. But her acting like black activism for equal rights has nothing to do with her is the most delusional thing ever.


You're still black. And you get discriminated against for being black just like the rest of us, even if you're in relationships with white men.

There's no "divesting" from that.

 

[SATAN]

I've never dated a cac and never will.

But Chicago and Milwaukee nikkas who are PAWGing here in Minneapolis say it's because there are literally no white women in their neighborhoods where they're from, so when they meet one they gotta have em. Like it's a special treat or some shyt

 

[King]

Mental slavery.

 

[WhatsGoodTy]

Kids can be cruel, but man if you can deal getting flamed or joked on by our people your skin should be like iron man Man, you can’t tell me shyt to hurt me that I ain’t already heard when I was younger that’s not gonna force me to date no cac. Them “PAWGS” either crazy or crazy.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

"Divested from the black community"


I have heard it all

 

[Serious]

This mindset is dumb and short sighted. I’ve dated mainly black women and have issues with them, as individuals but I wouldn’t be dumb enough to collectively lump, all of the bad experiences I’ve had with black women, into some trope all bw are problematic, smh.

Heck I was teased and passed over for dates when I was younger, As I got older I learned to take care of myself better , so now I don’t struggle in that department, but I don’t sit back and blame bw for my early dating woes.

 

[Action Mike]

everybody was teased at some point in school on literally everything, and at some point most learnt to give it back.

Compared to what was said at my school that shyt is LIGHT.

She should go to therapy, it still bothers her this much to cast out her community and join a fringe online group as an adult.

Sad.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Op said "origin story"



But I just can't understand why black ppl would have sex with a white person.

I can only imagine that the whole time, I'd be thinking about the past 400 years in my head like

The thought of being with a white woman literally repulses me.

 

[GreenGhxst]

Orgin story

 

[Hey_zeus]

"This is why wench"