Why do black folks that only date white have the same origin story?

[The_Truth]

She's full of shyt.

Ain't no way you grew up in a majority black environment and EVERYBODY treated you the same way. Everybody did not make fun of your looks. Everybody did not make fun of your clothes. Everybody did not make fun of your glasses. Everybody did not say you talked "white." Because you were not the only black person in the environment to have those features! If you were raised in a predominantly black environment then you are gonna encounter all types of black people. You're gonna encounter nerds, jocks, dorks, thugs, pretty girls, awkward girls, pretty boys, dope boys, players, squares, etc. Ain't no way you had bad experiences with ALL these people. She's saying all black people are the same. fukk the bullshyt!

 

[The Fade]

ayoooo

is this a white person

 

[JLova]

Then how come white kids who were bullied by other white kids don't swear off all white people when they grow up? I have never in life heard a white person say they date IR because they were teased by other white kids in school.

The dynamics are completely different.

 

[The Plug]

is this a white person

Nah, go back the last page. She's on video saying fukk MLK.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Because really, deep down inside, they want attention from the opposite sex in their own race. That’s all a lot of c00ning is.

The justifications for dating out make people sound stupid. It should be a simple answer. They asked me out and they were cute. We met in a coffee shop.
But nope. They gotta attach something drama to it. “The evil blacks tried to hold me down and the whites were the only ones who appreciated me for me.”

GTFOHI’ll never understand the pedestal some put non-blks on. Like they gon save you from every guy/chick that didn’t want you in grade school.

 

[The D-List Vet]

I may get some negs for this but as a dark skin man I honestly sympathize with my dark skin sisters. What many sisters don't understand is that this colorism shyt effects males too and it is all a byproduct of white supremacy. I know plenty of dark skin boys who were tarnished, myself included. And this ridicule wasn't jusr at the hands of other kids. I was tarnished by adults too. I grew up having a chip on my shoulder and a resentment towards the black community. In fact the first person to ever compliment me on my skin tone was a white girl.
It wasn't until I started educating myself on the effects that white supremacy has had on the mindsets of our people that I began to see things in a different light.

The bold is key a lot of young kids don't understand the effect of white supremacy.. some may not even believe it until later on in their life.. etc etc.. we need to teach our kids young about this.

 

[Insensitive]

Then how come white kids who were bullied by other white kids don't swear off all white people when they grow up? I have never in life heard a white person say they date IR because they were teased by other white kids in school.

You're asking the right questions now.

I have yet to encounter the white equivalent of
Typically it's for the opposite reason, they get teased or disparaged for dating or hanging around
Black people, this is why the term "Wigger" even exists.
However, I've yet to meet someone bullied so much and so thoroughly that they give up their whiteness altogether.
Black folks on the other hand happens enough that we have as a thing.

 

[Ahadi]

I was about to say this. I got roasted by both white and black kids growing up . It wasn't till I started hanging with other nerds, both black and white, that I felt sorta accepted. Lames and cornballs are looked down upon by every race.

That’s all it comes down too.

Once you realized you’ve outclassed your environment and the people around you, you need to move into an environment were you are accepted.

Now, it doesn’t excuse her cop out behavior to just to hop to the other side, but we as black ppl need to be more understanding and not completely shun out everyone. Black boys go through the same and I believe this will take us further.

 

[Ya?]

What’s the end goal for these people? All end up married with white/non-black men?

On social media they front like they’re all about and for the interests of black women, specifically dark skinned black women, but surely marrying and reproducing with non-black men is counter-intuitive and counter-productive to anything pertaining the advancement and existence of black women, no?

Is it? Do people choose partners solely to reproduce black people or they choose their partners based on companionship. I don’t understand when men say this about Black women who choose nonblack men as partners.

 

[Mindfield333]

Is it? Do people choose partners solely to reproduce black people or they choose their partners based on companionship. I don’t understand when men say this about Black women who choose nonblack men as partners.

When it comes to this divest situation, these women are labeling themselves “pro-black women” & “pro dark skinned black women” and they are against the Prevalence of color struck individuals within our community ... which isn’t a problem until you note their hatred for black men and preference for non black men... which will potentially create an offspring of nonblack women

 

[Uchiha God]

Is it? Do people choose partners solely to reproduce black people or they choose their partners based on companionship. I don’t understand when men say this about Black women who choose nonblack men as partners.

“Is it?” What? I made no assertions, and merely questioned this because any person with minimal comprehension skills can see that for many of these women the mission statement and the mission are blatantly conflicting.

read below:

When it comes to this divest situation, these women are labeling themselves “pro-black women” & “pro dark skinned black women” and they are against the Prevalence of color struck individuals within our community ... which isn’t a problem until you note their hatred for black men and preference for non black men... which will potentially create an offspring of nonblack women

 

[Ahadi]

When it comes to this divest situation, these women are labeling themselves “pro-black women” & “pro dark skinned black women” and they are against the Prevalence of color struck individuals within our community ... which isn’t a problem until you note their hatred for black men and preference for non black men... which will potentially create an offspring of nonblack women

A little louder. They aren’t hearing you.

 

[Ya?]

When it comes to this divest situation, these women are labeling themselves “pro-black women” & “pro dark skinned black women” and they are against the Prevalence of color struck individuals within our community ... which isn’t a problem until you note their hatred for black men and preference for non black men... which will potentially create an offspring of nonblack women

what is the difference between these women and men who consider themselves problack but marry nonblack or extremely light skinned women.

To me it’s not mutually exclusive to be pro dark skinned women and have non black partners if you consider the issues that dark skin women face with finding dark skin partners who don’t prefer light skinned or non black women as wives.

The divest women you are speaking of have lost interest in having black kids or continuing black children, they are more so interested in having suitable partners/husbands and having families with men who will cherish them as women.

this is no different than coli saying that BW have no interest in select black men until other nonblack broken pay attention to them.

 

[Alvin]

Because it's true, that or they grew up around white people.

 

[Alvin]

I've never dated a cac and never will.

But Chicago and Milwaukee nikkas who are PAWGing here in Minneapolis say it's because there are literally no white women in their neighborhoods where they're from, so when they meet one they gotta have em. Like it's a special treat or some shyt

They not Pokemon, I'm sure they will bytch.