Voice of Reason
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Again, I don't advocate dating single moms but at the same time I don't blame simps I blame the deadbeats that are polluting the pool of childless women and the women themselves for have a kid with a deadbeat.
Why do black men have more smoke for "simps" than irresponsible or deadbeat men?
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Again, I don't advocate dating single moms but at the same time I don't blame simps I blame the deadbeats that are polluting the pool of childless women and the women themselves for have a kid with a deadbeat.
Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
In a lot of ways simps are actually victims. They are men who have very low self esteem and don't think they deserve better. They're terrified of being alone and will put up with all manner of disrespect to alleviate this fear.
The problem is that women know that there are men who would do whatever they want and would keep them comfortable no matter what for no reason other than the woman keeps him company. These men have nothing that the woman can fix. Theyre boring.
The deadbeat is interesting in that there's a chance she can change him. Women are taught to value significant change more than existing stability. Look at the things where women are the main consumers of: makeover shows, drag shows, house renovation shows, talent shows, reality shows. All things where a person or thing undergoes significant change. The best we can do is to tell the simp to not be the cleanup man for a woman who has made irresponsible dating decisions because then it only facilitates an environment where women aren't responsible when it comes to who they choose.
People are harsh towards simps but they're doing what they were taught by their single mothers and the simp culture of the 70s-90s.
The problem is that women know that there are men who would do whatever they want and would keep them comfortable no matter what for no reason other than the woman keeps him company. These men have nothing that the woman can fix. Theyre boring.
The deadbeat is interesting in that there's a chance she can change him. Women are taught to value significant change more than existing stability. Look at the things where women are the main consumers of: makeover shows, drag shows, house renovation shows, talent shows, reality shows. All things where a person or thing undergoes significant change. The best we can do is to tell the simp to not be the cleanup man for a woman who has made irresponsible dating decisions because then it only facilitates an environment where women aren't responsible when it comes to who they choose.
People are harsh towards simps but they're doing what they were taught by their single mothers and the simp culture of the 70s-90s.
BmoreGorilla
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You make it seem like women have a well thought out scheme to get some thug to impregnate her so she can trap some simp down the line
Yep real talk breh. I been out by myself and with my family. Never did I stop while at the grocery store, in line at the DMV, driving to work, in the doctor office, dropping my kids off at school (or the other 50 million things I have done over the years) and look at a dude or dudes with a woman and kids...and think to myself is that his kids or did he wife up a single mother.
shyt has never ever ever ever crossed my mind in real life.
OP..
People who hate on Russell and Boyce have unresolved personal issues. No reasonable mentally stable person has the time or energy to waste on people they don't know personally.
Next, deadbeat dads do get criticized. They been criticized and shamed for decades. In addition, they also face repercussions through the court system. Some end up losing their DLs, wage garnished and even jailed.
On top of all of that, men who don't be active in their child's life end up being resented once the child reaches adulthood.
I don't knock men who choose to get with single mothers. That is their business. Not all single mothers are bad people nor are they all undesirable. They get into relationships and marriages all the time, especially the attractive ones. Even the average to below average looking ones end up with someone at some point.
Simping has more to do with how a man values himself as well as how he interacts with women. Men who have low self esteem and self worth allow women to take advantage and mistreat them. They choose to deal with this type of situation whether a woman has children or not.
Lastly, the main problem I see is that people need to really mind their own business! Focus on what you got going on in your own romantic life and stop worrying about what other people are doing!
Also, people need to stop putting their business out there! Grow up and handle your own business in private! If people need advice on their romantic situation, then going to a close friend, loved one or professional therapist are more logical options, not social media.
People who hate on Russell and Boyce have unresolved personal issues. No reasonable mentally stable person has the time or energy to waste on people they don't know personally.
Next, deadbeat dads do get criticized. They been criticized and shamed for decades. In addition, they also face repercussions through the court system. Some end up losing their DLs, wage garnished and even jailed.
On top of all of that, men who don't be active in their child's life end up being resented once the child reaches adulthood.
I don't knock men who choose to get with single mothers. That is their business. Not all single mothers are bad people nor are they all undesirable. They get into relationships and marriages all the time, especially the attractive ones. Even the average to below average looking ones end up with someone at some point.
Simping has more to do with how a man values himself as well as how he interacts with women. Men who have low self esteem and self worth allow women to take advantage and mistreat them. They choose to deal with this type of situation whether a woman has children or not.
Lastly, the main problem I see is that people need to really mind their own business! Focus on what you got going on in your own romantic life and stop worrying about what other people are doing!
Also, people need to stop putting their business out there! Grow up and handle your own business in private! If people need advice on their romantic situation, then going to a close friend, loved one or professional therapist are more logical options, not social media.
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This as well.
Mindfield333
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Wow… This is very poignant.
Dr. Narcisse
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It is a bit weird to hate the "fatherless" then criticize those are trying to stop all these kids from being "fatherless"
Premeditated
MANDE KANG
That's one way of twisting it
Lol deadbeats get made fun of. Future gets absolutely blasted in these threads for all of his kids.
BmoreGorilla
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The funniest thing is when folks say Ciara is making single mothers everywhere think they too can get a Russell Wilson
All of this. The irony is they'll condemn Ciara for dating a thug yet praise Fewcha for being a thug.
Like make it make sense
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Toe Jay Simpson
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Hate is confused admiration