Why do black men have more smoke for "simps" than irresponsible or deadbeat men?

Originalman

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Also weirdos have changed the meaning of a simp. A simp was never a dude who married a woman with a child or who had a wife that was a stay at home mom while he paid all the bills.

A simp was and is a man that lets women take advantage of him, walk over him and use him up and throw him away when they are done.

So for example I know a brotha who wife is a stay at home mother. He rules that house with an iron fist. Whatever he says goes and basically she agrees with every decision he makes. He expects his meals to be ready when he gets home, the house be clean and the kids be quiet when he gets home so he can relax. Best believe all that shyt is done by her before he gets home cause he doesn't play and his wife will tell you that to your face. So I don't know how this dude would be considered a simp.

Second brotha I know married a single mom. They ended up having 2 kids together and she is a big time scientist. She makes damn near 4 times him salary. He is a kept man and can quit his job whenever he wants and buy whatever he wants with his money. His wife basically pays all the bills. I can count on two hands how many times he bought shyt that she got stuck paying for.

So I don't know how this dude would be considered a simp either.

Kats online now a days have taken their own hang ups from relationships and twisted this into renaming every male and female relationship that doesn't fit their concept into the man being a simp.
 

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It is a bit weird to hate the "fatherless" then criticize those are trying to stop all these kids from being "fatherless"
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Majority of the ones who have so much to say about men saving single mothers/raising another man's child would've benefited from a man doing just that for their own mama. A lot of single mother raised bitter broken joints projecting. :sas2:
 

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Nick Cannon is starting to get the smoke too now

Real talk even that is silly. Cause Nick isn't deadbeat. Folks might not agree with him having kids by multiples women. But you have never heard stories of women having to beg him to see his kids or pay child support.

So only thing similar to Nick and Future is they have kids by multiple women. After that the similarities end.
 

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Because SIMPs help to empower the deadbeat men in the first place. Why would a woman choose to procreate with a responsible man when she knows that she’ll be able to find some simp to help her raise the deadbeat’s kids?
This is it point blank. Simps stop accountability, with no consequences no lessons are learned and the poor spousal selection continues because there's a safety net. Remove the net, people tend to figure out how to stay on their ps ans qs more
 

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Nah.. Each individual is the gatekeepers of sex.. You need two to make a kid. KS turned y'all into followers.. :russ:
Women are the gatekeepers of sex.
If they weren't every man would be getting p*ssy.
Women are responsible for what enters and what comes out of their womb.
shyt has nothing to do with Kevin samuels.
 
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Majority of the ones who have so much to say about men saving single mothers/raising another man's child would've benefited from a man doing just that for their own mama. A lot of single mother raised bitter broken joints projecting. :sas2:

Real talk... It was step fathers in my community that were excellent role models and just flat out real men... they helped a lot of young brothers coming up too, not just their step kids
 
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