Why do black men have more smoke for "simps" than irresponsible or deadbeat men?

[The_Truth]

I attribute this to the popularity of "pimp culture" among black men. Too many black men tie their manhood to their ability to manipulate women. "Simp" has to be the most overused term in black male lexicon. Deadbeat dads don't get as much smoke because they're seen as the ones who "got over" on the woman. Meanwhile, guys who get in relationships with single mothers get more smoke because the women are seen as "getting over" on the guy.

 

[richaveli83]

 

[Gold]

imagine actually caring about either of these outside of the internet

 

[semicko82]

I attribute this to the popularity of "pimp culture" among black men. Too many black men tie their manhood to their ability to manipulate women. "Simp" has to be the most overused term in black male lexicon. Deadbeat dads don't get as much smoke because they're seen as the ones who "got over" on the woman. Meanwhile, guys who get in relationships with single mothers get more smoke because the women are seen as "getting over" on the guy.

Not true
Deadbeat dads definitely get smoke

 

[CoryMack]

Only online will you see some lame fukk deride another black man for stepping up and raising another man's child.

nah my brother told me once that he could never raise another man’s kids. I was messing with someone with a child at the time. my brother has 3 small kids, and I wonder what he’d think if he was removed from the picture. Would he want the children’s mother to continue on alone or would he hope maybe she eventually met a good man and he stepped in?

 

[Unemployed GM]

People just clown on russ but boyce is a clown.

I have no problem with Russel Wilson, but Boyce needs to stop with that shyt. Never encourage a man to take on more baggage in his life.

No offense to some of you step-fathers out there but most of you ain't cut out to do that shyt and you end in broken relationships because of it. Seen it too many times.

Alot of women keep men away from their children (especially when they are young) and resent the man because they moved on, new girl etc.

Alot of men feel that they got trapped with a child and a support order by their BM and they resent her for it.

The family dynamic in our community is horrible and it has too change. Step-fathers ain't the solution.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Because men know the deadbeat dad stereotype is exaggerated.

most times both parties were broke and that was fine until she got pregnant. Now shyt is real and she realizes they his CVS salary anit cutting it so now he's a deadbeat ?

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I have no problem with Russel Wilson, but Boyce needs to stop with that shyt. Never encourage a man to take on more baggage in his life.

No offense to some of you step-fathers out there but most of you ain't cut out to do that shyt and you end in broken relationships because of it. Seen it too many times.

Alot of women keep men away from their children (especially when they are young) and resent the man because they moved on, new girl etc.

Alot of men feel that they got trapped with a child and a support order by their BM and they resent her for it.

The family dynamic in our community is horrible and it has too change. Step-fathers ain't the solution.

This post was kind of all over the place homey

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Because men know the deadbeat dad stereotype is exaggerated.

most times both parties were broke and that was fine until she got pregnant. Now shyt is real and she realizes they his CVS salary anit cutting it so now he's a deadbeat ?

Yeah.... you’re either non black or under the age of 23

 

[Unemployed GM]

I have no problem with Russel Wilson, but Boyce needs to stop with that shyt. Never encourage a man to take on more baggage in his life.

No offense to some of you step-fathers out there but most of you ain't cut out to do that shyt and you end in broken relationships because of it. Seen it too many times.

Alot of women keep men away from their children (especially when they are young) and resent the man because they moved on, new girl etc.

Alot of men feel that they got trapped with a child and a support order by their BM.

The family dynamic in our community is horrible and it has too change. Step-father ain't going to help.

This post was kind of all over the place homey

Sorry I tried to shotgun everything in one post.

My point was step-fathers are not a real solution and being a step-father really was not a smart move on the man's part.

 

[Spectre]

Women love attention and Simps just give it away for nothing in return. It's downright pathetic.

Deadbeats get smoke all the time. It's just that the deadbeat got to smash and is no longer giving attention by being a deadbeat.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Sorry I tried to shotgun everything in one post.

My point was step-fathers are not a real solution and being a step-father really was not a smart move on the man part.

Well... Yes and No..... If you are under the age of 30 I can see your point of view so to speak... because more than likely you never saw how some real nikkas stepped in and played an integral role in not only a fatherless child’s life, but the black community in general..... Not sure that you saw women that respected and appreciated that role when you was coming up

 

[HARLEM AL]

These dudes on here look up to men leaving multiple kids everywhere. That's Alpha in their eyes. People are slow to get on the case of someone they look up to.

Worst part is a lot of them claim to be pro black. You can't be pro your race but against relationships and marriage and yet that is a long running theme on here. It's impossible. You are not building anything substantial without family units. This has been proven time and time again throughout history and dudes on here think they will be the exception.

Now a lot of you will read that and start yakking about money. It goes deeper than wealth even though that has its place in the equation. Sons still need to be raised fellas.

This whole post is bullshyt.

 

[The_Truth]

Not true
Deadbeat dads definitely get smoke

Nowhere near as much as simps. I'm actually seeing more dudes rationalize the deadbeats nowadays.

 

[HARLEM AL]

This most be a generational thing, because these young nikkas don’t give a fukk. They ain’t wifey these baby mothers. Matter of fact most young chicks I know don’t have kids. It’s those 30 plus chicks with babies.

There’s a secret hiding in plain sight. These chicks don’t want fathers. They want someone to help take care of their child.