I never cared too much for the friendzone argument, boo fukking who if a bytch doesn't return your feelings, dudes get too hung up on the "allure" of women and superficial simp shyt that they completely ignore what type of woman she is, if a woman doesn't have the sense to pick a decent man, then she's ultimately useless to you as a man, these women should be thrown in the non-marriage category, she's doing you a favor by revealing her true intentions. I'd rather a bytch not want me because I'm not her type, I can deal with that. What I can't stand is when a woman associates with a man she otherwise wouldn't even think about dating only because she sees a potential benefit out of the association . I can get this motherfukker to pay my bills, i bet I can get him to raise my Demarcus. That manipulation angle shyt infuriates me.
The only thing that really bothers me is when guys like me who are single, childless are blamed for things another type of man does and are shamed into taking on some sort of surrogate mentorship role. Fukk outta here, your childrens father should be the mentor. I'm tired of this black man burden bullshyt. If your son fell off, well it's your fault for raising another ain't shyt nikka.