Why do bytches cheat

JOHN.KOOL

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Women can cheat for several different reasons...

Most of the time women cheat because she is not being cared for emotionally,her man is cheating and she figured she can too, or she is looking for an exit plan and hoping she can find an upgrade.

Don't believe this, not being cared for emotionally is a cheating females number 1 excuse for her ways but is not the reason for her cheating. Most women cheat again because of options. They get their self esteem from the male attention they get and still invite that attention during a relationship. All it takes is curiosity one day. Girls are just as much dogs as men are, maybe even worse because of the lengths they will go to hide it when you are catching on.

Women nowadays cheat just as much and for the same reasons that men cheat
 

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If a person is cheating, male or female, I strongly believe it's because it's who they are. Whether due to lust, lack of willpower or plain old narcissism, they just can't help themselves. The good news then is that it's fairly easy to minimize your odds of being a victim of infidelity. Check out a potential partner's past and digest the information as objectively as possible. People will give you their life story if they feel that you're not judging them. But inside do judge them. This is where a lot of people slip up. Every time they tell you about some shady / petty / slutty shyt they did they will always attach extenuating circumstance to it as if that was a special case. But in truth it was not special. You are not special. You like them so you'll want to believe their bullshyt despite you being smart enough to know better. Past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior and you can't change a person nor make them desire change. "Good" guys and gals would do well to heed that fact.

Well informed post and I agree with most of it; however, I've never been an advocate of judging someone based off what they'd committed in the past. Or rather, for every person you talk to, I believe they should be given the benefit of a clean, untainted evaluation. I'm a strong believer in every man or woman should be judged on the merit of who they are now, not who they were then. Hear me out.

The truth is, people actually do change. A traumatic event, significant experience of some sort can transform a person. So I always hold the door open to evaluate a woman based on what I see in front of me; the past gives you a well rounded idea of who she was, and can be utilized as a baseline for observing if she truly has changed, or if she's carrying old tendencies. But I personally try not to let the past influence my evaluation because doing that actually negates the validity of your objectivity.

You can't be objective towards judging a woman's character after digging in her past and deciding that means she is a cheater and probably will remain so. Cause now, you aren't even studying who you see in front of you. Not taking into account the dynamic changes a person can go through.

My point is, if a woman is a cheater, the tendencies will play out in front of you. In current time.

You may be thinking, well why don't i just search her past and save myself time?Well because, there are also women (and men) who, over time and events, are different than what they're past shows. And if your are feeling homegirl and want to be with her, you could be messing that up by not evaluating her on who she is now.

Flipside is, even if you do look into a girl's past and judge accordingly, she could be squeaky clean; not a single drop of drama in her past. Never cheated.... Then you wind up being the first nikka she ever cheated on.

Past indicators may help in some scenarios, but I'm a strong advocate for dealing with the NOW. A girl who never cheated could show tendencies by who she is right now... A girl who cheated before could now show no tendencies at all. Predicting human behavior will cost more time and energy than just sitting back and watching a person as they come to you. Watching how they move right now, studying who they are in front of you.

People change like the seasons. Going to the past for help can be a two edged sword.
 

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Don't believe this, not being cared for emotionally is a cheating females number 1 excuse for her ways but is not the reason for her cheating. Most women cheat again because of options. They get their self esteem from the male attention they get and still invite that attention during a relationship. All it takes is curiosity one day. Girls are just as much dogs as men are, maybe even worse because of the lengths they will go to hide it when you are catching on.

Women nowadays cheat just as much and for the same reasons that men cheat
People ( male or female) will always find an excuse to justify their actions... And it's true women can be just as low down and doggish as some men. I was just giving examples of why some women say they cheat.
 

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homebodies be the worst



So your going to throw away you relationship just because you got bored ?

Sounds like a child or just a severe lack of respect for your significant other.

But what if she's claiming a whole man takes her out everything is straight, he's not square' finacial responsible and they still toss thier seemingly perfect realtionship out of the window

Again, haven't you heard of men cheating on great women for stupid reasons?

That's life. People do dumb things for stupid reasons
 

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This is some sinister shyt tho. Financially, emotionally, sexually, recreationally, is her dude responsible for ALL of these? In return for just sex?

You should not be in a relationship with a woman "just for sex". If that's all she has to offer you or all you expect, why not just be fukk buddies...
 

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Again, haven't you heard of men cheating on great women for stupid reasons?

That's life. People do dumb things for stupid reasons
That's the equivalent to a bytch

Because they're human

And like I said before humans are inherently selfish by nature

Lol bytches really don't know what hey want its mind boggling
 

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Don't believe this, not being cared for emotionally is a cheating females number 1 excuse for her ways but is not the reason for her cheating. Most women cheat again because of options. They get their self esteem from the male attention they get and still invite that attention during a relationship. All it takes is curiosity one day. Girls are just as much dogs as men are, maybe even worse because of the lengths they will go to hide it when you are catching on.

Women nowadays cheat just as much and for the same reasons that men cheat
:salute: A man hitting it right and she'll still go on a fukk other nikkas its just some diabolical creatures out here
 

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I ain't shyt and I don't claim to be. nikkas get mad when that ho word don't work on all chicks. I'm open and honest with my so-called aint shyt ness and it bothers some. Not me problemo
 
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