Why do females get angry with you if they show interest in you but you don’t show the same interest?

[KidJSoul]

i rather be a man rejecting a woman , than a woman rejecting a man

It depends where... some women accuse you of shyt

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Nah I treat them the same way as always. I think that bothers them even more honestly. lol. They the one that has the problem not me

Yeah it probably burns more when you treat them the same, but for me I'm just petty . Give you the same heat you give me.

 

[JQ Legend]

Yea not at all. Women and men both have huge egos. No one is gonna tell me women are more used to rejection than men tho. Women HATE rejection. Lol.

You’d be surprised what women consider “rejection”

A woman will give a man signs like awkward eye contact, or pretty much anything other than straight up telling him she feeling him, thinking she’s being obvious and if he don’t holla, consider that a rejection

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

For the same reason men do it, they’re embarrassed/angry. They put themselves out there and you’re saying they aren’t good enough/you don’t want them. Some people can just let it go while some people lash out.

I had a guy literally try to rape and kill me because I turned him down. His friends had to save me. Turned him down then got put on a group project with him for school, one second I’m reading out of the book next thing I know I’m being strangled on the floor while he’s shouting that I think I’m better than him. Life comes at you fast.

Sorry to hear that. Please tell me he's locked up

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Bush this trash thread. nikka talking about he dont wanna fukk his job up by fukking with a co worker but cries and catches feelings cuz she ignoring him now.

and he tried to chastise me for doing the same at least i'm not making threads about it LOL

 

[AAKing23]

Story of my highscool years, bytches mad I ain't want them and spreading gay rumors about me

 

[Capitol]

You’d be surprised what women consider “rejection”

A woman will give a man signs like awkward eye contact, or pretty much anything other than straight up telling him she feeling him, thinking she’s being obvious and if he don’t holla, consider that a rejection

Its crazy to think there are people that think they got curved without even exchanging a single word

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

For the same reason men do it, they’re embarrassed/angry. They put themselves out there and you’re saying they aren’t good enough/you don’t want them. Some people can just let it go while some people lash out.

I had a guy literally try to rape and kill me because I turned him down. His friends had to save me. Turned him down then got put on a group project with him for school, one second I’m reading out of the book next thing I know I’m being strangled on the floor while he’s shouting that I think I’m better than him. Life comes at you fast.

This thread got ugly fast..... glad u good though.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

This the same as "why did she get mad at one comment but ignore the hundreds that praised her" ... People (not just women) feel disrespected and that hurts more than the good of the hundreds of people who love them Lol.

You have to be able to manage it.. why didn't she want me? Who cares.. there could be a millions reasons and many that have nothing to do with you.

Life is about chance. One girl i dated she was cool.. we dated for close to a year and it only happened because she just got out of a longterm relationship a few months before.

if i met her a year prior then we wouldn't have dated at all.

 

[Piff Perkins]

One of the weirdest things that ever happened to me was when I was on vacation in the Cayman Islands, few years ago. I was walking from the beach back to the hotel and passed a black chick I could tell was American too. I glanced at her for a second when I first saw her from far away, but as we got closer I was just looking at the shore not paying attention to her at all. I came with a lady friend, who was back at the hotel, and the chick on the beach wasn’t attractive so I wasn’t looking. Didn’t think anything of it.

Fast forward hours later. Back on the beach, this time I’m in a beach chair just chilling. I hear someone say “excuse me I’m sorry but I need to talk to you.” It’s the girl from earlier. I took my sunglasses off and asked if I knew her. She then proceeded to tell me how by not looking at her earlier as I passed by, she felt “dehumanized” and ignored, and how many men disrespect her by pretending she doesn’t exist and she wanted me to know I hurt her feelings.


I’m listening and can tell she’s a little drunk. Since I don’t want a scene I apologized and said “I’m here with my girlfriend [a lie], I’m not looking at other women.” Then she was like oh I was hoping you’d ask me to get drinks to apologize, and btw having a girl doesn’t excuse you ignoring women lmao.

I’m no 10/10 but I’m tall and look good pause. I guess me not going out my way to stare down a flabby chick crushed her entire spirit.

 

[Pacni99a12]

One of the weirdest things that ever happened to me was when I was on vacation in the Cayman Islands, few years ago. I was walking from the beach back to the hotel and passed a black chick I could tell was American too. I glanced at her for a second when I first saw her from far away, but as we got closer I was just looking at the shore not paying attention to her at all. I came with a lady friend, who was back at the hotel, and the chick on the beach wasn’t attractive so I wasn’t looking. Didn’t think anything of it.

Fast forward hours later. Back on the beach, this time I’m in a beach chair just chilling. I hear someone say “excuse me I’m sorry but I need to talk to you.” It’s the girl from earlier. I took my sunglasses off and asked if I knew her. She then proceeded to tell me how by not looking at her earlier as I passed by, she felt “dehumanized” and ignored, and how many men disrespect her by pretending she doesn’t exist and she wanted me to know I hurt her feelings.


I’m listening and can tell she’s a little drunk. Since I don’t want a scene I apologized and said “I’m here with my girlfriend [a lie], I’m not looking at other women.” Then she was like oh I was hoping you’d ask me to get drinks to apologize, and btw having a girl doesn’t excuse you ignoring women lmao.

I’m no 10/10 but I’m tall and look good pause. I guess me not going out my way to stare down a flabby chick crushed her entire spirit.

I like the way you handled it though. I would have apologized too and kim

 

[KickPush]

This shyt been happening to me for a while and I always find it amusing. So this one female at work who started almost a month ago and from the very jump she was on my dikk always making an excuse to talk to me, get me cookies and other shyt she got from the shops when she went to lunch asking me how my day was, complementing me etc. You know the usual.

Thing is, I have zero interest in her as I have a strict no work relationship. This is a very good job, pay is good, it’s close to my house so very little commute time and I’m actually very good at it. There aren’t that many companies in my city where they do my type of job so I’ve no interest in fukking it up, she’s also not really that attractive for me to even risk it. I’m always polite to her, never ever rude but I still maintain a cold distance.

So I’m guessing she’s now figured I’m not interested and now moved to phase two which is passive aggression. She greets everyone but not me, no longer gets me anything from the shops and basically now giving me the silent treatment

It’s all very funny to me cos I don’t really care. But this is not the first time this has happened to me. As soon they figure I’m not interested they suddenly start giving me harsh treatment. Happens at work, with female acquaintances, with waitresses who used to treat me nice in the beginning but stopped.

surely if anyone should know a person being interested in you doesn’t mean you should also be interested in them back is women. They deal with this shyt constantly so you’d think they’d understand but I guess they don’t really do logic just emotion.

Been in the same situation breh what works best is once you peep shawty is on you pull her to the side and basically tell her what you told us your post that you don’t shyt where you eat. Take her social media then pipe after one of you two leave that job.

 

[EffYou]

Its crazy to think there are people that think they got curved without even exchanging a single word

nikka never heard of flirting? Trust and believe if she really feeling you like that she coming

 

[Mowgli]

This shyt been happening to me for a while and I always find it amusing. So this one female at work who started almost a month ago and from the very jump she was on my dikk always making an excuse to talk to me, get me cookies and other shyt she got from the shops when she went to lunch asking me how my day was, complementing me etc. You know the usual.

Thing is, I have zero interest in her as I have a strict no work relationship. This is a very good job, pay is good, it’s close to my house so very little commute time and I’m actually very good at it. There aren’t that many companies in my city where they do my type of job so I’ve no interest in fukking it up, she’s also not really that attractive for me to even risk it. I’m always polite to her, never ever rude but I still maintain a cold distance.

So I’m guessing she’s now figured I’m not interested and now moved to phase two which is passive aggression. She greets everyone but not me, no longer gets me anything from the shops and basically now giving me the silent treatment

It’s all very funny to me cos I don’t really care. But this is not the first time this has happened to me. As soon they figure I’m not interested they suddenly start giving me harsh treatment. Happens at work, with female acquaintances, with waitresses who used to treat me nice in the beginning but stopped.

surely if anyone should know a person being interested in you doesn’t mean you should also be interested in them back is women. They deal with this shyt constantly so you’d think they’d understand but I guess they don’t really do logic just emotion.

These women will greenlight you to an early grave. Use caution. Use good judgement. The old ways keep men safe.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

For the same reason men do it, they’re embarrassed/angry. They put themselves out there and you’re saying they aren’t good enough/you don’t want them. Some people can just let it go while some people lash out.

I had a guy literally try to rape and kill me because I turned him down. His friends had to save me. Turned him down then got put on a group project with him for school, one second I’m reading out of the book next thing I know I’m being strangled on the floor while he’s shouting that I think I’m better than him. Life comes at you fast.

That don't sound realistic at all. Dude never showed any hostility when you turned him down but all of a sudden you getting strangled?

Nah you probably said or did something slick and dude strangled you and your oxygen deprived brain didn't remember what you did leading up to it or something