Why do females get angry with you if they show interest in you but you don’t show the same interest?

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This thread kinda goofy considering we all know the depths of depravity some men pivot to when turned down.

Rejection sucks for everyone and it's perfectly normal to be embarrassed or even a little upset, but for the most part when rejected, women 'lash out' in relatively harmless ways. Even in your own examples the "angry" woman you rejected made her displeasure known by ignoring you and no longer doing special favors. All of that is extremely tame. She didn't aggressively get in your face and say you're broke and don't look that good anyway, nor did she spread rumors at your job or threaten your life/livelihood. She did exactly what I would suggest any sane, rational person do and moved tf on.

You SAY you're not bothered, but the fact that you ignored years, decades, CENTURIES of data showing that when compared side by side, "females getting angry" at rejection is a whole lot less dangerous than when shyt happens in reverse, and in fact made a whole thread about it tells me you just might be bothered....
 

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This thread kinda goofy considering we all know the depths of depravity some men pivot to when turned down.

Rejection sucks for everyone and it's perfectly normal to be embarrassed or even a little upset, but for the most part when rejected, women 'lash out' in relatively harmless ways. Even in your own examples the "angry" woman you rejected made her displeasure known by ignoring you and no longer doing special favors. All of that is extremely tame. She didn't aggressively get in your face and say you're broke and don't look that good anyway, nor did she spread rumors at your job or threaten your life/livelihood. She did exactly what I would suggest any sane, rational person do and moved tf on.

You SAY you're not bothered, but the fact that you ignored years, decades, CENTURIES of data showing that when compared side by side, "females getting angry" at rejection is a whole lot less dangerous than when shyt happens in reverse, and in fact made a whole thread about it tells me you just might be bothered....
But he wasn’t talking bout men tho. It’s a 10000 different threads on how bad men react to rejection

can we have one without a captain save a hoe coming in to keep men more. Some of you dudes are fukking faggits
 

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:duck::duck::duck:


That don't sound realistic at all. Dude never showed any hostility when you turned him down but all of a sudden you getting strangled?

Nah you probably said or did something slick and dude strangled you and your oxygen deprived brain didn't remember what you did leading up to it or something :russ:

Yikes
 

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a lot of shyt has to do with self-esteem
if a woman shows me she's not interested in me like that, but is still a cool person, i got no problem with still being friends.
at the end of da day, she's a stranger and doesn't owe me anything.
but i do think women need to be respectful about it, and men at da same time need to not puah So hard.

With women its different, because there's a perception amongst a lot of women that men((especially single men) never turn down vagina and that shyt isnt true:mjlol:
so if they get turned down, they take it personal. fukk a friendship, you da ops:francis:
 

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People hate rejection. The reason men get called out for it more is because men use more physical means when rejected.

women hate rejection just as much if not more but they aren’t physical. Instead a woman will not approach a man she is interested if he isn’t paying her any attention or will just result to calling a man gay if he does reject her.


But they won’t throw bottles or shoot at you which is where men fukk it all up and give men the bad end of the stick in the rejection convos
 

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Men have literally killed women with the roles reversed

Facts lol. Now thats no excuse, this shyt is lame behaviour. But like, the entire incel MOVEMENT is an extreme version of this same exact shyt OP.

You are right about the shyt being laughable, but that's just how some pathetic men and women are unfortunately. That rejection be having them in their feelings.
 

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Sorry to hear that. Please tell me he's locked up

He is, he attacked another girl like 2 years later. Made me really wish I said something but I was scared of people not believing me and blaming me. Like the people in this thread negging me and laughing. I don’t care about people not believing me now but when I was younger it bothered me a lot more.
 

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One of the weirdest things that ever happened to me was when I was on vacation in the Cayman Islands, few years ago. I was walking from the beach back to the hotel and passed a black chick I could tell was American too. I glanced at her for a second when I first saw her from far away, but as we got closer I was just looking at the shore not paying attention to her at all. I came with a lady friend, who was back at the hotel, and the chick on the beach wasn’t attractive so I wasn’t looking. Didn’t think anything of it.

Fast forward hours later. Back on the beach, this time I’m in a beach chair just chilling. I hear someone say “excuse me I’m sorry but I need to talk to you.” It’s the girl from earlier. I took my sunglasses off and asked if I knew her. She then proceeded to tell me how by not looking at her earlier as I passed by, she felt “dehumanized” and ignored, and how many men disrespect her by pretending she doesn’t exist and she wanted me to know I hurt her feelings.
:gucci:

I’m listening and can tell she’s a little drunk. Since I don’t want a scene I apologized and said “I’m here with my girlfriend [a lie], I’m not looking at other women.” Then she was like oh I was hoping you’d ask me to get drinks to apologize, and btw having a girl doesn’t excuse you ignoring women lmao.

I’m no 10/10 but I’m tall and look good pause. I guess me not going out my way to stare down a flabby chick crushed her entire spirit.


Handsome brotha problems :dame:


Yeah women project all kinds of shyt on you when you are a good looking black man that is t thirsty
 
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