Why do females get angry with you if they show interest in you but you don’t show the same interest?

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You are dealing with an insecure gender… any rejection hits them much harder than us. If these women were emotionally mature they wouldn’t act that way. Consider every time this happens as a bullet dodged.


I mean men are even worse.

You see @Ashley Banks story.


Strangling someone over rejection is peak insecurity
 
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i would get more upset if you show interest in me and i turn you down but still want to be cool and you don't want to be my friend :what:
that's usually how it goes lol

i get over it though :yeshrug:
 

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For the same reason men do it, they’re embarrassed/angry. They put themselves out there and you’re saying they aren’t good enough/you don’t want them. Some people can just let it go while some people lash out. :yeshrug:

I had a guy literally try to rape and kill me because I turned him down. His friends had to save me. Turned him down then got put on a group project with him for school, one second I’m reading out of the book next thing I know I’m being strangled on the floor while he’s shouting that I think I’m better than him. :francis: Life comes at you fast.
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i would get more upset if you show interest in me and i turn you down but still want to be cool and you don't want to be my friend :what:
that's usually how it goes lol

i get over it though :yeshrug:

Now this has always confused me.
Why would you want some guy that has feelings for you lurking around with those feelings simmering beneath? You don’t find that creepy?
Unless you’re putting bro on the back burner or you get off on knowing he wants you.
 
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Now this has always confused me.
Why would you want some guy that has feelings for you lurking around with those feelings simmering beneath? You don’t find that creepy?
Unless you’re putting bro on the back burner or you get off on knowing he wants you.

because i like their personality? i be thinking people can be grown and still kick it even if sex isn't involved. shyt, a lot of them will tell me they have woman friends but they aren't attracted to them. so i get the short end of the stick just because i'm cute or whatever :what: it's supposed to work in my favor :hubie: lolol
 

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because i like their personality? i be thinking people can be grown and still kick it even if sex isn't involved. shyt, a lot of them will tell me they have woman friends but they aren't attracted to them. so i get the short end of the stick just because i'm cute or whatever :what: it's supposed to work in my favor :hubie: lolol

I have women friends that are attractive, the difference is that our first interactions didn’t consist of me trying to fukk them. So we actually established a real friendship.
If a man is interested in you, he doesn’t want to be your friend, he’s just biding his time. Which is lame and creepy.:francis:
 

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It’s all in who it is. Both genders can be weird as fukk once rejected. I’m married and in the past I had a female coworker want me so bad she knew my situation and came to me wanting to be the side chick while my wife was the main and all that. I straight up dubbed it and she fortunately was cool about it and didn’t make it weird after.. But it don’t always work that way tho.
 
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