Why do guys take everything a girl says so seriously?

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This may be another difference between men and women;
But as a person, shouldn't you have the integrity to tell the truth? I'm sure you've heard "you don't owe him shyt and therefore have no reason to lie".
I'm also sure a man has lied to you having you wondering why he didn't just say what he meant, and he's somewhere wondering why ms. Elaine takes everything so seriously.
 
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If you were more decisive, had a modicum of eloquence and knew how to articulate yourself better this wouldn't be happening to you.

Women need to STFU in this country, they already know how Men communicate and are supposedly communications maestras (Isn't that why PR is 90% Women?:why:) Stop being lazy and spineless be a strong independent Woman like yall claim yall are and stand your ground clearly and concisely.:rudy:

"I appreciate the gesture but I am not currently entertaining any sexual or romantic pursuers at this particular time" would suffice. If he persists, simply sternly shake your head with a deadpan look and say "No, not interested :martin:"

If he continues politely mention you'll be contacting Male relatives or the authorities if he proveeds.

This is NOT rocket science.:dame:
 

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So he's a simp because you guys had a conversation and he said "You should cook for me. Give me your number and I'll come over. "




...then you proceeded to give him your number and act retarded because he sent you text some time later saying he's looking forward to the dinner.



Dumb shyt like this is why some women get smutted out and men don't consider anything you say as something of substance or value.

Eh. I agree with OP being a jackass but...men don't take women seriously because a lot of them don't actually offer and substance or value.
 

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Guys, listen up, 9 times out of 10, a girl is not into you - she's just trying to be nice and she doesn't mean half the things she said. Learn to read between the lines and understand body language. Our mouths may be saying one thing but best believe our body language is saying something else.

"Girls 9 times out of 10, a guy is not into you, he just wants to fukk - he's just trying to be nice so that he can fukk. He doesn't mean any of the things he says. Learn to read between the lines and understand body language."


But all jokes aside, your man lost if lifting box is all it takes to get your number.

If you don't know how to move correct in a relationship, you shouldn't be in one :yeshrug:
 

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If you were more decisive, had a modicum of eloquence and knew how to articulate yourself better this wouldn't be happening to you.

Women need to STFU in this country, they already know how Men communicate and are supposedly communications maestras (Isn't that why PR is 90% Women?:why:) Stop being lazy and spineless be a strong independent Woman like yall claim yall are and stand your ground clearly and concisely.:rudy:

"I appreciate the gesture but I am not currently entertaining any sexual or romantic pursuers at this particular time" would suffice. If he persists, simply sternly shake your head with a deadpan look and say "No, not interested :martin:"

If he continues politely mention you'll be contacting Male relatives or the authorities if he proveeds.

This is NOT rocket science.:dame:

Funny thing, she didn't even have to take it there. She claims she has a boyfriend. That's LITERALLY all she needs to say.

Breh: "Can I have your number?"
Brehette: "Sorry, I have a boyfriend"

How do you make it to adulthood without any common sense? :dahell:
 

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About a month ago, I met some guy while I was running some errands and this dude was helping me out so I humored him with some conversation. It was all friendly at first but then he started to simp.:martin:


Anyway, long story short, the convo turned to healthy eating and I was talking about how I cook most of the shyt I eat. Anyway, this dude ends up inviting himself over to my place for a date. :wtf:


He was like, "you should cook for me sometime, I'd like to learn" and I was like :rudy: "sure". Then he asked to exchange numbers and I was like :dame: "yeah, whatever". I was trying to say and do everything that I could to remove myself from this situation.

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You confirmed interest ....and gave him your number ???


Then ignored him and got annoyed because he's supposed to know ???



Guys, listen up, 9 times out of 10, a girl is not into you - she's just trying to be nice and she doesn't mean half the things she said. Learn to read between the lines and understand body language. Our mouths may be saying one thing but best believe our body language is saying something else.

Our mouths may be saying one thing but best believe our body language is saying something else.

Our mouths may be saying one thing but best believe our body language is saying something else.


Our mouths may be saying one thing but best believe our body language is saying something else









































































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