Why do guys take everything a girl says so seriously?

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About a month ago, I met some guy while I was running some errands and this dude was helping me out so I humored him with some conversation. It was all friendly at first but then he started to simp.:martin:


Anyway, long story short, the convo turned to healthy eating and I was talking about how I cook most of the shyt I eat. Anyway, this dude ends up inviting himself over to my place for a date. :wtf:


He was like, "you should cook for me sometime, I'd like to learn" and I was like :rudy: "sure". Then he asked to exchange numbers and I was like :dame: "yeah, whatever". I was trying to say and do everything that I could to remove myself from this situation.

On Valentine's Day this dude sends me a creepy ass text with a kissing emoticon and I just about died. :dame::huhldup: I ignored that shyt, obviously.




Anyway, this week this dude sends me a text talking about, "I can't wait for that dinner. :shaq:"

:merchant:

:scust: UGH. I'm about to have my number changed.



Guys, listen up, 9 times out of 10, a girl is not into you - she's just trying to be nice and she doesn't mean half the things she said. Learn to read between the lines and understand body language. Our mouths may be saying one thing but best believe our body language is saying something else.
Give your number and attention to a guy you already knew you didn't like brehettes. I swear females will deal with guys just to talk to them knowing they have no chemistry or vibe. Then cry at night that they can't get their dream guy:martin:
 

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About a month ago, I met some guy while I was running some errands and this dude was helping me out so I humored him with some conversation. It was all friendly at first but then he started to simp.:martin:


Anyway, long story short, the convo turned to healthy eating and I was talking about how I cook most of the shyt I eat. Anyway, this dude ends up inviting himself over to my place for a date. :wtf:


He was like, "you should cook for me sometime, I'd like to learn" and I was like :rudy: "sure". Then he asked to exchange numbers and I was like :dame: "yeah, whatever". I was trying to say and do everything that I could to remove myself from this situation.

On Valentine's Day this dude sends me a creepy ass text with a kissing emoticon and I just about died. :dame::huhldup: I ignored that shyt, obviously.




Anyway, this week this dude sends me a text talking about, "I can't wait for that dinner. :shaq:"

:merchant:

:scust: UGH. I'm about to have my number changed.



Guys, listen up, 9 times out of 10, a girl is not into you - she's just trying to be nice and she doesn't mean half the things she said. Learn to read between the lines and understand body language. Our mouths may be saying one thing but best believe our body language is saying something else.

Just ignore the dudes all together... sorry to say majority of dudes take kind and nice words as :noah: im about to get those draws doggggggg
 

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Guys, listen up, 9 times out of 10, a girl is not into you - she's just trying to be nice and she doesn't mean half the things she said. Learn to read between the lines and understand body language. Our mouths may be saying one thing but best believe our body language is saying something else.

just continue to say no, even if it takes 15 minutes, i just keep saying no. im too scary to be mean, but if you can handle that, it supposedly works well.
 

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This is obviously an attention thread but I'll entertain it. Why give out ur # if u arent interested? Why entertain the convo to begin with if u know where it might go? Dude is interested in u. Why a n1gga gotta be thirsty for showint interest? Its the questions yall.
 

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Interpret body language? Read between the lines?

Women need to say what it is and have their action match that....and men need temper that thirst.

Try curving these women for a bit. It's fun.

...They call me Curvey Puckett :russ:
 
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About a month ago, I met some guy while I was running some errands and this dude was helping me out so I humored him with some conversation. It was all friendly at first but then he started to simp.:martin:


Anyway, long story short, the convo turned to healthy eating and I was talking about how I cook most of the shyt I eat. Anyway, this dude ends up inviting himself over to my place for a date. :wtf:


He was like, "you should cook for me sometime, I'd like to learn" and I was like :rudy: "sure". Then he asked to exchange numbers and I was like :dame: "yeah, whatever". I was trying to say and do everything that I could to remove myself from this situation.

On Valentine's Day this dude sends me a creepy ass text with a kissing emoticon and I just about died. :dame::huhldup: I ignored that shyt, obviously.




Anyway, this week this dude sends me a text talking about, "I can't wait for that dinner. :shaq:"

:merchant:

:scust: UGH. I'm about to have my number changed.



Guys, listen up, 9 times out of 10, a girl is not into you - she's just trying to be nice and she doesn't mean half the things she said. Learn to read between the lines and understand body language. Our mouths may be saying one thing but best believe our body language is saying something else.


Why do women take 1 thing that happens with 1 loser they chose and apply it to all men??

Thats like men asking why are all women IG thots-- oh wait :mjlol:
 
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Why didn't you just tell him you weren't interested? If he would have gotten mad, that's on him and you avoided a lame. But instead you entertained his conversation and gave him your number.

Now, he is weired for texting and saying things like that early; but you deserve it for not " adulting" up and saying you weren't interested.

You lost :yeshrug:
 
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