That's because some people like things to fit in clear categories but sexuality is fluid. Especially for women who go through hormonal cycles.
There are actually a lot of factors that go into attraction.
That's the name of the game folks,
Attraction. As in the Laws of Attraction. Nature's laws are inescapable, yet some override others.
Now consider how magnetic attractions and
sexual polarity come into play. Those primal urges you may or may not be in touch with, women feel in a much more heightened fashion.
Don't try to comprehend it if your a man, masculine, hard, angular. Aspire to appreciate the soft feminine energy next time you get the chance, almost like sunlight.
The thing is some women also like that soft feminine energy, some preferring it to everything the male represents to her body, penetration, invasion, suffocation, this poking and prodding conversation.
As men we try to see the logic in everything, thinking in angles and squares, certain things don't add up. Women don't need to quantify, their bodies and minds need to feel. They are sponges for energy.
Check what type of masculine energy you give off, brother, protector, friend, father, predator, leech, fiend, stalker, creep, etc. If we were walking in a forest a women could spot your type a mile away.