Why do men find it odd when a man enjoys female company?

[Queen]

Why do you think that is?
You got a killer body? You a very friendly person that you unintentionally flirt?

I don't attribute it to myself. I assume that is how men are. I don't think men want to be friends with women. They can be cool but they are always thinking something else.

I don't think friendly is a word that most people would use to describe me.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I know that the real nikkas of the coli only need good head,p*ssy, food and a back massage from a bytch and nothing more but why do the men that actually enjoy being around females get such a bad rep?

If a nikka enjoy being around a bunch of soft, sweet smelling, warm, chill females all the time why is there a problem?

Why is he called a simp/soft etc?

@Willstyles i need ur input breh.

This phenomenon only exists online..... Female companionship can be even if yall aren't intimate.... Problems typically occur because one party or both are going to be sexually attracted to the other...

You can be platonic within reason of course.....

 

[Coli Bot]

Because women tend to be horrible human beings when your not smashing them.

 

[YeLovesBoston]

I like a pretty girl with a good sense of humor around to admire her beauty and laugh together with, preferrably.

I like the company of anybody with a good sense of humor tbh. Even girls i don't find attractive.

 

[Unknown Poster]

It's their internet Coli persona. If you're hetero, and mature, then you'll appreciate a woman's company without any physical needs. Anybody else is just poppin sh!t online. Six Figgy Nikkyz, International Players, IT Geniuses, and n!ggaz that only need a woman's mouth.....welcome to the Coli.

This.

Friends of mine straight up have gotten mad at me for having women as friends and enjoying conversation with them...theyd be like "you aint trying to smash?" "Whatchu doing man, you gay?"

And id be like...nah. sometimes i just wanna rap about things i like to whoever wants to hear it and enjoys the conversation.

Like fukk...im that type of dude that will talk to a lady and ill be all gentlemanly then once i know her well flip on it and go into the illuminati and conspiracy theories with them in conversation

Some dudes just cant think about things outside of a sexual context.

 

[Just like bruddas]

I know that the real nikkas of the coli only need good head,p*ssy, food and a back massage from a bytch and nothing more but why do the men that actually enjoy being around females get such a bad rep?

If a nikka enjoy being around a bunch of soft, sweet smelling, warm, chill females all the time why is there a problem?

Why is he called a simp/soft etc?

@Willstyles i need ur input breh.

Many reasons but here are a few
nikkas are jealous that they can't achieve that of bond with women so they hate on those that can.

Dudes only see women for one use and that's sex. They don't see any use of obtaining a friendship with them.

Due to their history of the friendzone they tend to lump everyone in the same category and just assume dudes aren't fukking their females

The list goes on

 

[Cat piss martini]

I enjoy having women around.

 

[Koba St]

I know that the real nikkas of the coli only need good head,p*ssy, food and a back massage from a bytch and nothing more but why do the men that actually enjoy being around females get such a bad rep?

If a nikka enjoy being around a bunch of soft, sweet smelling, warm, chill females all the time why is there a problem?

Why is he called a simp/soft etc?

@Willstyles i need ur input breh.

Because it's not right. It's feminine and gay.

 

[Ooh Marty]

I've never met a man who just enjoyed my company without any sexual or romantic thoughts attached.

Every single last one eventually confessed something. The last one threw me for a loop because I actually thought we friends. Everybody else might have been on some other stuff, but not my boy. I had no idea that he had a crush on me since high school. I was shocked.

Men do not want to be friends with me. They might be friendly but they are thinking something else.

with my 2 male friends, one of them tried to date me but it wasnt mutual so he was cool with just being friends and actually enjoyed my company.

My other male friend never tried anything with me and we've been friends for 5 years.

 

[Dwolf]

I don't attribute it to myself. I assume that is how men are. I don't think men want to be friends with women. They can be cool but they are always thinking something else.

I don't think friendly is a word that most people would use to describe me.

You may be unknowingly making dudes think they got a shot. Im not saying you do , I'm just saying
Generalizations are never fun btw
EDIT: I forgot you were married so nvm

 

[Queen]

If thats the case, you either give off a certain "vibe" or you're extreamly attractive.....

What kind of vibe? I am far from sleazy.

I just think that men don't see women as friends. I would love to be proved wrong but experience says otherwise.

I would love to think that my witty and engaging personality is why men are attracted to me but I was told no, that in fact the reasons are more .

I don't know, but I've never met a man who just wanted to be my friend.

I think maybe if a woman is kind of ugly then it might work. But otherwise, nope. It might taken 8 to 9 years, but eventually a crush confession is coming out.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

I enjoy male company and I have 2 good male friends. Neither have tried it with me and they both could have but they dont see me in that way.

Call me fat, ugly, unattractive etc but my male homies prefer to kick it with my crazy ass than be around their male friends most of the time

They're not gay neither. They just enjoy my company.

i have some legit female friend and we cool, and never try to make a move wit each other, but if we was in a house together and she threw the p*ssy at me I ain't turning it down and most of the time men and women like different shyt, and it's take time in a friendship to get to that medium wit them

And men know if you have female friend as soon as she gets a boyfriend she gon throw u in the bushes

I've never met a man who just enjoyed my company without any sexual or romantic thoughts attached.

Every single last one eventually confessed something. The last one threw me for a loop because I actually thought we friends. Everybody else might have been on some other stuff, but not my boy. I had no idea that he had a crush on me since high school. I was shocked.

Men do not want to be friends with me. They might be friendly but they are thinking something else.

nikkaz been wanting that p*ssy

 

[Xane Vic]

I know that the real nikkas of the coli only need good head,p*ssy, food and a back massage from a bytch and nothing more

bytch couldn't just make a thread, she had to feed into lame nikkas' egos and shyt...

You know damn well that looks shyt gay as fukk in the Money Over/Hard On Hoes era, which is ironic since homosexuality is more acceptable in these politically correct times.

ha, it's 'bout time these tranny-ass nikkas come out that closet anyway...

Be of hoes who type "breh", "brehs"...

 

[Ooh Marty]

i have some legit female friend and we cool, and never try to make a move wit each other, but if we was in a house together and she threw the p*ssy at me I ain't turning it down and most of the time men and women like different shyt, and it's take time in a friendship to get to that medium wit them

And men know if you have female friend as soon as she gets a boyfriend she gon throw u in the bushes

nikkaz been wanting that p*ssy

i tend to distance myself from my male friends when im in a relationship since most men arent cool with their woman having male friends

at least my male friends are understandable.

 

[Ooh Marty]

bytch couldn't just make a thread, she had to feed into lame nikkas' egos and shyt...

You know damn well that looks shyt gay as fukk in the Money Over/Hard On Hoes era, which is ironic since homosexuality is more acceptable in these politically correct times.

ha, it's 'bout time these tranny-ass nikkas come out that closet anyway...

Be of hoes who type "breh", "brehs"...

u called me a bytch because?

and breh and brehs are classic coli/sohh terms.

I can tell youre a dry dikk nikka that get ignored by bytches on a daily.