Why do men find it odd when a man enjoys female company?

[jackswstd]

Some dudes are just insecure about shyt like that. Other males will look at them as weird if they ain't out there trying to fukk every women with a pulse.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Even chicks I'm not attracted too, if I'm hanging out with them for a while and we vibe, thoughts of sleeping with them will start happening eventually. It's happened on one occasion.

 

[Xane Vic]

u called me a bytch because?

and breh and brehs are classic coli/sohh terms.

I can tell youre a dry dikk nikka that get ignored by bytches on a daily.

I don't know you personally, I'm from South Texas...there's a litany of reasons...

"bytch" is a classic term for a woman.

I'd have to try to get noticed to be ignored and I don't put forth effort into shyt, so...

Y'all nikkas notice "she" ain't say shyt 'bout patronizin' y'all...

Negged for posting the truth. People talk 'bout "real nikkas" but get mad when the real show up.

 

[Ooh Marty]

Even chicks I'm not attracted too, if I'm hanging out with them for a while and we vibe, thoughts of sleeping with them will start happening eventually. It's happened on one occasion.

u shouldnt have female friends then

 

[Neil Tyson]

That happens sometimes, have I thought about it (smashing) I did, today. But the relationship that we have is good enough to the point where I just decide to look elsewhere for that. The dynamic always changes when you get to that point or when you bring that up.

Plus she's got like three kids and a man. That's the kind of excuse to convince myself not to smash.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

u shouldnt have female friends then

Never said I should.

 

[The Maverick]

I've got a couple of female friends, but I'm not kicking it with them all the time. Enjoy the company when it's around. I don't trust dudes that prefer to be surrounded by the opposite gender. Same goes for women. I guess I just can't understand it.

 

[Spectre]

it's odd cuz it's like frowned upon. I like hanging with women. Some of them happen to be really attractive.

It's this culture we live in that if ur into a girl u can't possibly be ok with just being friends. I can. I did it all the time. Doesn't mean I didn't get laid. Most hookups are through friends of friends. A lot of relationships start out as friends.

If she's cool to hang with why not? Oh I'm gonna be petty n tell her to screw herself because she's not into me like that totally ignoring how beneficial she is compared to others

 

[J-Nice]

I've got female friends that I hang with and are cool as hell, but they aren't on the same level as my male friends. That's just the way it is for me.

 

[Redeem87]

I grew up around all females and I think I was almost gay because of it so I kind of think it's weak and feminine

 

[Sterling Archer]

A lot of no attractive p*ssy getting dudes feel this way. Ive always had attractive women so Im not p*ssy hungry or thirsty to fukk like its my last chance. I have quite a few women as friends. I used to work 75hr weeks when I was getting my business off the ground. I had my homegirls coming to my office dropping lunch off, doing my laundry cooking me dinner etc. I remember I was sick as hell with the flu (that turned out to be pneumonia) and my homegirl came and crashed at my place just to take care of me. This is all while I was single. Im not having one of my boys do any of that shyt. I hang with women that have the same interests as me and my guys mostly anyway so its really no difference. My homegirls have had my back just as much as my brehs did, if not more (b/c my bros are not gonna come cook for me and shyt).

Yall nikkas just weird. Talking about you were almost gay because you hung out with women. Nah nikka, you just gay.

 

[Music Fiend]

I know that the real nikkas of the coli only need good head,p*ssy, food and a back massage from a bytch and nothing more but why do the men that actually enjoy being around females get such a bad rep?

If a nikka enjoy being around a bunch of soft, sweet smelling, warm, chill females all the time why is there a problem?

Why is he called a simp/soft etc?

@Willstyles i need ur input breh.

I have no qualms with a man who prefers women company. Actually it sounds like me tbh. I have women friends.

I do have qualms about it if you can't be with other dudes. Preference isn't the same as comfort.

My last roommate was a great guy, very ambitious, smart, charming nice cat. 90% of his friends are women.

If you have less aggressive energy as a man, you'll prolly have women friends. Masculine energy for women, men friends.

 

[LadySimone]

Its this misogynistic attitude that women are only good for sex, and that supposedly prohibits a man from actually being able to have a legitimate friendship with a woman. But thats bullshyt. I've had fiends who were women, and I see men and women hanging out all the time just as friends. Any well adjusted dude should have the ability to form a genuine friendship with a women.

This is the coli.

 

[At30wecashout]

I respect other guys wanting to befriend women, but i dont do it myself anymore. No matter how tight me and my dudes are, im never going to want to fukk them

A woman, on the other hand, given enough time can go from sisterly and playful to that one moment where you booth fooling with each other on the couch while watching The Walking Dead and she makes the dikk move. Any woman i want to be around for a significant amount of time will spur romantic feelings and thoughts. Even if im not actively pursuing, why wouldnt i want to date the woman who screams corny shania twain songs in the car with me, ice skates well, shares the same love for autumn, etc. thats LITERALLY the dream right there for a guy. Shes your best friend and your lover. If she cant be both, she cant be in my life.

 

[At30wecashout]

I've never met a man who just enjoyed my company without any sexual or romantic thoughts attached.

Every single last one eventually confessed something. The last one threw me for a loop because I actually thought we friends. Everybody else might have been on some other stuff, but not my boy. I had no idea that he had a crush on me since high school. I was shocked.

Men do not want to be friends with me. They might be friendly but they are thinking something else.

Sounds like you bad as hell and havent noticed it, queen. Nd men can want to be friends, but if you are a truly dope woman, of course they will catch feelings.