Why do men give up on love so fast?

[Formerly known as...]

We don't...We give up on side pieces and fukk buddies easy..Love we don't!

We just don't fall in Love easily typically.

 

[Strawberry]

Interessingly I've always heard the opposite : Women say men are dogs/a$$holes/immature/whatever/machos all the time, and men will mostly say stuff like "Women don't know what they want/love to complain/are hard to understand/etc". Maybe it's the company I keep. I don't know any man in my environment who really thinks that all women are "bytches", while I know women who really think that all men are a$$holes. Even though both have been played. And most men I know have no problem admitting that they are attracted to other women even when they're in a relationship, while I only have ONE female friend who is honest enough to admit the same thing (even though she tells me that all her female friends are exactly the same, but would never admit it to any man)

Ton anglais est cute

Quand je suis vraiment avec qqn je ne regarde pas d'autres gars

 

[richaveli83]

Sorry breh. Why did y'all break up?

It a lot of things contributed to it. The main thing I think was her immaturity. She felt marriage was like on some Disney movie BS but I was more realistic about. It seemed like she was more focused on the wedding itself whereas I was focusing on the marriage as a whole. She was basically on some:

Me I was like . I just want to get married. I would have been ok with just a court house wedding to be honest. Plus she had some daddy issues to she refused to acknowledge. Her dad abandoned the family when she was a baby. Her mom was basically the patriarch of the family. Her step dad was a joke and her mom basically bossed him around. A lot of other issues but I don't want to go any further.

 

[IVS]

(1) "Love"? Love doesn't exist. Women don't love men, they lust men. there's a difference. A woman only stays with a man as long as she can benefit from him. Whether that be great sex or financial security. That's why she only chases after pretty boys or successful men with money. If you're not in one of those categories then you're invisible to them.

/ Thread

Utter Truth. Love is a figment of your imagination. Im not sold on the idea. Theres just relationships. I look at marriage as a business relationship as it has always been. If I enjoy the relationship enough and can see future benefits in staying with that person, I may be willing enter into a legally binding contract between them, myself and the state.

No love involved. And that relationship last as long as both parties are satisfied with the benefits. No Love involved. It's just a word and an idea somebody been selling me since my inception into this world. I don't believe in it.

 

[mbewane]

Ton anglais est cute

Quand je suis vraiment avec qqn je ne regarde pas d'autres gars

Merci!

 

[Sleepy Walker]

We give up on love fast because we don't know love all we do is reciprocate what we are given. Some men go overboard because they want to love but are unsure how to do it correctly. Some of us pick the wrong one to love so now we are jaded when it comes to love.

 

[Jahmal]

It's kinda like this.

Most, not all, but most men were raised to believe women were these angelic, flawless creatures. And we believed we had to be on top of our shyt, basically be the best man we could be in order to attract the best woman.
When that first inevitable betrayal comes, it literally shakes the foundation of a man. You learn that everything you thought women were is a lie. You learn how selfish and cold and callous a woman can be when you no longer have her favor.
Then, the rules change.
You learn that you don't have to be the best man or really even be a good man. All you have to do is be a little bit more exciting and a little bit flashier than the dude she's with now. That's it. There's no honor or depth to it.
You learn that women are as simple as we are.
So we adapt.
We stop giving our all, because it wasn't going to matter anyway.
We stop being honest, because we learn that ya'll don't covet honesty.
We look out for ourselves, because it's what you would do in our situation.

That one woman who got the best of us, well she'll never know, nor would she care.

 

[Jahmal]

When youre in some good p*ssy and down the line, she cheats on you, it'd rip your heart out and have you considering men, or trannies at the very least.

Back me up on this, brehs

I've thought about it once or twice but that lifestyle is not for me...atleast not yet

@Tuaminator

 

[Buckeye Fever]

I've thought about it once or twice but that lifestyle is not for me...atleast not yet

@Tuaminator

I hear ya. They can be intriguing tho

 

[richaveli83]

I've thought about it once or twice but that lifestyle is not for me...atleast not yet

@Tuaminator

I hear ya. They can be intriguing tho

 

[Black Hans]

The humiliation affects our egos so much that we don't want to experience it again. Plus, most men are driven by their loins when it pertains to women so if all he primarily wants is the cooch and he sees it can be obtained w/o all the lovey-dovey stuff which led to him being humiliated in the end, that's what he's going to pursue. If that means treating women like trash, then so be it

 

[UnoVon]

Because I dont wanna go to jail over some mistakes that bytch is most definitely gonna make..and i dont wanna wake up seeing that bytches face in my mind no matter where she is every damn day i need to be free.. that shyt be having a nikka all stressed and shyt, fukk that.

 

[resurrection]

Well let's see.. men are primarily motivated by 3 different things:
1) Ego
2) Sex
3) Money

-Getting your heart broken is real bad for the ego. Getting attention from lots of women is great for the ego. Advantage: Being a player
-Sex always wanes in relationships over time, whereas dealing with lots of women, it never gets old. Advantage: Being a player
-Girlfriends and wives always want a significant portion of your bank account and maybe even some say over how to spend. Advantage: Being a player

Any other questions?

 

[Atlrocafella]

Well let's see.. men are primarily motivated by 3 different things:
1) Ego
2) Sex
3) Money

-Getting your heart broken is real bad for the ego. Getting attention from lots of women is great for the ego. Advantage: Being a player
-Sex always wanes in relationships over time, whereas dealing with lots of women, it never gets old. Advantage: Being a player
-Girlfriends and wives always want a significant portion of your bank account and maybe even some say over how to spend. Advantage: Being a player

Any other questions?

 

[Atlrocafella]

This is a tough topic for me. It's been a year since my engagement with my ex-fiance. I'm 32 and she was the first woman I really loved. I've dated women in the past and liked a lot and had feelings but love? Nope. She was the woman I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. Have my children. My mother loved her and called her her daughter. Her family loved me. Then the breakup happened. Whenever I feel like I moved on it hits. I even tried to jump on #HOH and #GMB but I can't commit like that

Come to the GMB family breh.