Why do people say, "if a woman isn't married, she can do whatever she wants"?

[jadillac]

I see this all the time nowadays, and that clown DaChumpIsHere said it in another thread. Really? I cant believe men are co-signing this BS now.

So we don't value faithfulness in relationships anymore unless the woman has a ring? So we can date for 2 years and a woman should be excused for sleeping around just b/c she doesn't "have a ring on her finger"? Damn, what if the dude is savign up to buy the ring for a month....in his heart you(the woman) already have the ring, but she can still cheat b/c she doesnt have the ring on her finger?

A relationship between two people is what it is....marriage is nothing more than a ceremony.

WTH kinda logic is it that you can date for 999 days, and then day 1000 you get married and now "everything changes"? You're gonna be the same person you were before.

If you aint sh*t before you got married then guess what....

 

[MeachTheMonster]

I think it goes for both males and females. In my opinion you're not in a real relationship unless you are married or engaged. Any thing else and you're just fukkin. Boyfriend/girlfreind means nothing, in reality you are still single.

 

[Tres Chic]

I don't necessarily have an opinion on this but I must say I'm thoroughly enjoying men losing their shyt because women are now adopting their morals. It's quite amusing to watch.

 

[HookersandIceCream]

I think it goes for both males and females. In my opinion you're not in a real relationship unless you are married or engaged. Any thing else and you're just fukkin. Boyfriend/girlfreind means nothing, in reality you are still single.

How does one get to the engaged stage wit that mindset

 

[DaChampIsHere]

p*ssyless fakkit.

 

[jadillac]

I don't necessarily have an opinion on this but I must say I'm thoroughly enjoying men losing their shyt because women are now adopting their morals. It's quite amusing to watch.

This is an awful logic b/c not every man is a cheater.

You're lost if you believe that.

My parents didnt teach me sh*t like sleeping around on ppl is acceptable just b/c you're not married. And I dont do it.

I think it goes for both males and females. In my opinion you're not in a real relationship unless you are married or engaged. Any thing else and you're just fukkin. Boyfriend/girlfreind means nothing, in reality you are still single.

Marriage is nothing but a ceremony. Divorce is the same thing in a sense.

And there's some people who don't have sex until they're married, so what's ur excuse for that?

 

[SouthernBelle]

When I say that I don't mean cheating. I mean that as an adult, I don't need anyone's permission to go out and do the things/activities that I want to do. My parents don't even tell me what to do anymore. I be damned if a boyfriend will. If I want to go to a concert with my cousin and friends, I don't have to ask anyone. Relationships are built between two consenting adults. No one as authority over the other. No one can control the other. It is sick to even want to do it.

Also, you have referenced in many threads that you want to see women in the US treated like women in repressive Middle Eastern countries. Are you a control freak who wants to rule women?

 

[Chris.B]

afraid your girl will get her back blown out?

 

[MeachTheMonster]

How does one get to the engaged stage wit that mindset

Getting engaged is what means you are serious about the relationship. If you don't want to marry him/her then you are not serious about being with them.

 

[CrimsonTider]

I doubt anyone seriously believes this.

You have to be boyfriend/girlfriend before marriage.

A marriage shouldn't change a relationship one bit

 

[Malta]

When I say that I don't mean cheating. I mean that as an adult, I don't need anyone's permission to go out and do the things/activities that I want to do. My parents don't even tell me what to do anymore. I be damned if a boyfriend will. If I want to go to a concert with my cousin and friends, I don't have to ask anyone. Relationships are built between two consenting adults. No one as authority over the other. No one can control the other. It is sick to even want to do it.

Also, you have referenced in many threads that you want to see women in the US treated like women in repressive Middle Eastern countries. Are you a control freak who wants to rule women?

Just curious, would you be ok with your man having a female friend that very obviously likes him? Whether you trust him or not, I'm sure it would annoy you that he would keep a chick around that clearly wants him, would it not?

 

[CrimsonTider]

Getting engaged is what means you are serious about the relationship. If you don't want to marry him/her then you are not serious about being with them.

you can't be serious

 

[Ooh Marty]

you actually take what dachamp says seriously on here?

Hes not a man, hes a ken doll in drag.

 

[concise]

When I say that I don't mean cheating. I mean that as an adult, I don't need anyone's permission to go out and do the things/activities that I want to do. My parents don't even tell me what to do anymore. I be damned if a boyfriend will. If I want to go to a concert with my cousin and friends, I don't have to ask anyone. Relationships are built between two consenting adults. No one as authority over the other. No one can control the other. It is sick to even want to do it.

Also, you have referenced in many threads that you want to see women in the US treated like women in repressive Middle Eastern countries. Are you a control freak who wants to rule women?

 

[jadillac]

When I say that I don't mean cheating. I mean that as an adult, I don't need anyone's permission to go out and do the things/activities that I want to do. My parents don't even tell me what to do anymore. I be damned if a boyfriend will. If I want to go to a concert with my cousin and friends, I don't have to ask anyone. Relationships are built between two consenting adults. No one as authority over the other. No one can control the other. It is sick to even want to do it.

Also, you have referenced in many threads that you want to see women in the US treated like women in repressive Middle Eastern countries. Are you a control freak who wants to rule women?

No, I'm not a control freak. Far from it.

I just dont see any point in dating soemone if you have no real intentions of being faithful.

And if you're gonna cheat, then why do it in secret? Why hide it?
What's to be ashamed of?



Unfaithful, dishonest, cheater, etc....these are all negative traits. Since when did we begin openly embracing negative traits?