Why do people talk like black women are in last place for being wanted?

[Savvir]

Black men love telling us how undesirable we are to other races of men

This is some fake ass shyt.
The majority of black relationships are not interracial. So who is this mythical population of black men who go around saying this? What city are you in where this is the norm? I think my sig speaks on generalizations like this.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

The same media that BW use to call out BM is controlled by the very same people who call them the least desirable.

Whenever the media talks about BM being in jail, unemployed, deadbeat dads, uneducated with all types of problems...BW collectively, and vocally agree with em.

The same media calls them "last place" and "undesirable" in looks and personality and then suddenly they want everyone to defend them...nah

THis isn't about everyone btw...but those on lipstick alley know exactly who i'm talking to

They'll do both, shyt on black men and get shytted on by the white media, in the same TV segment, and many of them are so delusional that they don't even realize it. For an example of this, just look at that ABC special with steve Harvey, from like 10 years ago, where they talked about how black women can't find a good man.

 

[filial_piety]

I have years of experience witnessing this to where I can say its not bullshyt. Unless you think I meant all,which should be pretty obvious I didn't. But its a large enough number where "Aren't most black men marrying black women?" is a useless stat too.

It's compounded by a lot of things though.

There's evidence from every angle that supports it. Whether it's OK Cupid or "preference tests", empirical marriage data and surveys, the "eyeball test"...even...a highly trained Asian sociologist years ago around 2009 or 2010 from "Psychology Now" said that he had proven that BW were the "least desirable" and started an uproar.

 

[Foxtrot]

* Inserts the obligatory flippant "This just means more BW for me" comment *

 

[Problematic Pat]

I also think most non-black men werent interested in black women because of stereotypes and because they assumed black women were not interested in them but that is quickly changing.

Only the 2020 census will determine that.
Black women have been swirling and publicly thirsty for white men way before Loving vs Virginia.

 

[Taadow]

it's because black men date and marry out at such high rates, and don't marry b lack women and maintain families with them. Black men love telling us how undesirable we are to other races of men

No.
See? This is that bullchit the OP is talmbat, right here.

It ain't Black men saying this chit, it's Black women telling us ad nauseum that we "love" saying this chit.
Just like @Gold said, women be throwing this out unprovoked...and usually it's a nice topping to some other chit about us like "Y'all supposed to love us, but you don't even know the difference between Issa Rae and Lisa Raye..."

...and niccas will just sit down and eat that chit, like they got a cogent point.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

99% of white women are unattractive. Don't let the bullshyt you read fool u. Even in college most of them were lookin like stick figures

 

[Cadillac]

It's compounded by a lot of things though.

There's evidence from every angle that supports it. Whether it's OK Cupid or "preference tests", empirical marriage data and surveys, the "eyeball test"...even...a highly trained Asian sociologist years ago around 2009 or 2010 from "Psychology Now" said that he had proven that BW were the "least desirable" and started an uproar.

Ok, stats like these almost always result in Black people not fairing well. And that includes BM being rated low. But it does not rule us.

"preference test" are no big of a deal IMO, considering everyone's going to prefer their features. And that's what some of those test are, features based
Ex: like one posted here on the coli a while ago, of BM/WM and results of what faces they preferred black or white
Spoiler: black men preferred black women faces, Cacs preferred Cac. Lol

Plus races are going to prefer even others that come close to theirs(skin color, hair etc). Our Black features are rather unique compared to other races and obviously some are not gonna favor our feats. As we are not gonna favor theirs. So you have that to consider

So yeah some stats may have some merit, but they also don't. Eye testing will show despite how many stats will say "you can't get anyone Nonblk" there are black men and women everyday with someone Nonblk people

Not defending or praising IR with nonblacks(I don't care what anyone does) just saying.

 

[HarlemHottie]

No.
See? This is that bullchit the OP is talmbat, right here.

It ain't Black men saying this chit, it's Black women telling us ad nauseum that we "love" saying this chit.

I've seen it on the coli often enough. Usually in the context of, "We bm have options and you don't. "

 

[Cadillac]

I've seen it on the coli often enough. Usually in the context of, "We bm have options and you don't. "

Tbf you can hear this on both sides.

Lame nikkas and bytches bragging on who is liked more by a Cac, spic and cheese nk. And bashing the other for not being as liked

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

I've seen it on the coli often enough. Usually in the context of, "We bm have options and you don't. "

this true pawgset nikkas stay saying this

 

[Balla]

I used the "." many times... On tinder not sending your matches a message lowers your score... So I used to send a dot to all the girls I wasn't interested in but matched

Yo! That’s why I had mad matches then out of no where I couldn’t get none for shyt, I was like wtf. Talking to these chicks and having to deal with them playing games takes a toll, but I know now.

 

[Balla]

I know you're not talking about all black men but I was literally on okcupid just now and ONLY hit up and liked the black women profiles.... HUNDREDS

Only ONE matched with me and wrote back.

...And she only did it to ask me a question about another dude

I don't know why I even bothered responding. But she did end up giving me her number........ But never answered my text

Can you show a pic of her? She looks beat from here

 

[African Peasant]

Tbf you can hear this on both sides.

Lame nikkas and bytches bragging on who is liked more by a Cac, spic and cheese nk. And bashing the other for not being as liked

TBH on TheColi at least it came from men. "Black women are jealous because we have options".

 

[paperbag]

This is some fake ass shyt.
The majority of black relationships are not interracial. So who is this mythical population of black men who go around saying this? What city are you in where this is the norm? I think my sig speaks on generalizations like this.

Black men Coli brehs love telling us how undesirable we are to other races of men

Fixed okay