Why do people talk like black women are in last place for being wanted?

[Cadillac]

They're not getting *married* as much as other groups of women

No group of women is getting married much. And marriage is not a that great barometer of to scale Black peoples relationship to.

Altho it is likely the only way to know, all I'm saying is it don't tell the full story

 

[UncleTomFord15]

I remember some ok Cupid "stat" that stated black men prefer Asian women the most out of all the races of women and black women the least. I can count on one hand the amount of attractive Asian women I've ever seen in real life...

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

I remember some ok Cupid "stat" that stated black men prefer Asian women the most out of all the races of women and black women the least. I can count on one hand the amount of attractive Asian women I've ever seen in real life...

Ol girl was serious bout that ok cupid stat

 

[LurkMoar]

Black men value black women number 1, its every other race that values black women last.

 

[Cadillac]

black women are in last place when polling other races
most black relationships are not interracial....
white, mexican and asian women attract more men when you poll all races of men
surely the ranking among black men, black women would be at the top because they are the ones we date/marry the most

If you pole Black people in general on these studies their gonna be rated low including BM.

One survey on OKC showed that Indian men got better responses than black.

But in real life Brothas do way better. And BW have no trouble getting a nonblack man's attention.

I know you're not talking about all black men but I was literally on okcupid just now and ONLY hit up and liked the black women profiles.... HUNDREDS

Only ONE matched with me and wrote back.

...And she only did it to ask me a question about another dude

I don't know why I even bothered responding. But she did end up giving me her number........ But never answered my text

, OKC is EXTREMELY white washed as with sites like this.

Dealing with people on there, your dealing with 90% of the accounts being white washed and whiteified as fukk.

Even the black people

 

[Cadillac]

I remember some ok Cupid "stat" that stated black men prefer Asian women the most out of all the races of women and black women the least. I can count on one hand the amount of attractive Asian women I've ever seen in real life...

The stats they show will also show we do poorer than even some Asian men

OKC is a different world than reality . I don't doubt their results.

But what functions over there don't match reality 1:1

 

[I Really Mean It]

A lot of in this thread.

 

[JT-Money]

Issa raye

Lisa raye

it's because black men date and marry out at such high rates, and don't marry b lack women and maintain families with them. Black men love telling us how undesirable we are to other races of men

I don't know about that. There are tons of successful black women who flat out refuse to get married. Just to name a few Oprah, Mya, Elise Neil, Sanaa Lathan, etc. And I doubt it's due to a lack of suitors.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

A lot of in this thread.

who name names

 

[D.C Young]

I'm also starting to believe that the whole "Black men love white women" is a myth too

I think allot of time people are quick to believe myths through propaganda

In order to like someone, you kind of have to be in their proximity,

and Black men are not really in proximity to White women like that as apposed to being in proximity to Black women

And you develop a taste for what you are in proximity too

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

I'm also starting to believe that the whole "Black men love white women" is a myth too

I think allot of time people are quick to believe myths through propaganda

In order to like someone, you kind of have to be in their proximity,

and Black men are not really in proximity to White women like that as apposed to being in proximity to Black women

And you develop a taste for what you are in proximity too

it's just big on the coli and jbo

alot of nikkaz on here can only get a woman who non black cause they low hanging fruit

but reg black dudes in everyday life have no problem getting black women

 

[filial_piety]

The same media that BW use to call out BM is controlled by the very same people who call them the least desirable.

Whenever the media talks about BM being in jail, unemployed, deadbeat dads, uneducated with all types of problems...BW collectively, and vocally agree with em.

The same media calls them "last place" and "undesirable" in looks and personality and then suddenly they want everyone to defend them...nah

THis isn't about everyone btw...but those on lipstick alley know exactly who i'm talking to

 

[Cadillac]

All in all, those OkCupid stats don't mean much to us in the real world.

to negros on there it's a L, they gotta hold. But I see BM/BW having no issues in dating/attracting people black or nonblack.

But most importantly, they seek each other more times than the other way. Ain't no hoards of Brothas out here chasing after Asian bytches

 

[O.T.I.S.]

It’s the internet... I’ve never met a black woman that had an issue dating unless she had a very strict preference.

This

They're number one for me by a mile.

But this means nothing if I'm not their number one

This as well. I don’t hang where I’m not wanted.

 

[Benefited]

Bullshyt.

I have years of experience witnessing this to where I can say its not bullshyt. Unless you think I meant all,which should be pretty obvious I didn't. But its a large enough number where "Aren't most black men marrying black women?" is a useless stat too.