Why do people with kids get so mad when I say I don't want to have kids?

[Thavoiceofthevoiceless]

Its because they're going to judge you for it. They'll think youre gay or irresponsible.

Exactly. They will give you this weird look or make assumptions about it. Not everybody cares about having children

 

[Columbo]

Perhaps if you mentioned that your a flaming faggit they would be more understanding

 

[Ahadi]

No rush. These people want you to be like them. Miserable.

Enjoy your the time you’ll spend for yourself & without the extra responsibility.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

When u get old and lonely in your twilight years, u will wish u had someone that cared about u the way a good son or daughter would

I have a child but this is a fallacy..
My daughter stays glued to me but I know as she ages and matures..
She will have her own life and problems to deal with..
Plus she may have her own children to care for..
I’m hopeful that in the future..
Our relationship remains strong but you can never tell what will happen..
Maybe i will fall to a severe illness and have to be placed in hospice..
Where she can’t care for me or it’s too hard to see me in that condition..
It’s so many hypotheticals that can happen between now and then..
People really have to start facing what death is..
Yes I have people who care for me but don’t depend on this idea of marriage/having kids..
As your savior for possible loneliness in your old age..
Putting faith/expectations in man(woman)..
Will leave you disappointed every time..
I know people who were close as hell to their parents until fukkery happened..
And both sides are too stubborn to reconcile..
Life is just too complicated and unpredictable..
Take your time in having one..
Your children will always be yours..
Even when they turn 18..
You are still responsible for them..
Don’t let “old age” be the deciding factor into a life long commitment..
Do it because you really want to and are prepared to nurture, teach, sacrifice, prepare another being for the joy and pain of life..