Why do so many men have low self esteem?

[DaHNIC82]

This whole thread sounds like

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

This whole thread sounds like

I heard this before

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I don’t understand the only fans nor buying farts and bathwater. I was outcasted in middle school for not being able to pull bytches.

I still suck with women as an adult (more strike outs than success) but yeah it’s part of why I struggle and don’t like to make friends too.

When people make you feel like a loser (even family) for struggling with women. That shyt don’t ever completely go away even after fukking multiple women.

My fam be like
"Damn I heard you got a good job.
Benefits and all that"

Me: "Man I'm alright. Can't complain"

Family: "So you still single? You ain't got you a female yet?"
Me:

 

[Rozay Oro]

My fam be like
"Damn I heard you got a good job.
Benefits and all that"

Me: "Man I'm alright. Can't complain"

Family: "So you still single? You ain't got you a female yet?"
Me:

fukk family

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Because most of us have been told our entire lives that we ain't shyt. At some point you start to believe it.

 

[wongzini]

Ted Bundy used to blame porn for why he raped and murdered all those women. nikkas need to stop acting like porn is the worst thing ever. shyt, it's the reason I've learned new things and figured out things I like and don't like.

Ted Bundy reference to prove your point…

 

[The Plug]

Life sucks bro.

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

If 2020 has not made you realize how worthless people are, you will always have low self esteem

Going through the public education system into college, and seeing how people behave in general, should make you realize you are an idiot if you make people completely influence your decisions since people are stupid and evil as hell I mean you have to be actually stupid to still follow that high school shyt
Want to have higher self esteem? Stop surrounding yourself with people who make you feel like shyt
If you end up alone, you were already alone with those people too bad people are too stupid to realize that
Anyone who thinks otherwise is probably stupid and willfully evil and will always suffer because of their stupidity
The average person is not someone you would even want to be around they are retarded Who gives a fukk about them?

I can't understand how people would want to willfully be around people so dumb and evil but then you are reminded of how people act in real life superficial, lack of depth, stupid, and evil
and then it makes sense

There will be two people in your life outside of family
1) Associates
2) Pawns

Anyone who makes you feel like shyt should immediately become a pawn, otherwise they are an associate
Friend is a rare thing so I didn't include it since "friends" are so full of shyt

People are too eager to be around others who don't value them, because of fear of being alone and FOMO.
Care WAY TOO MUCH about what other people think

Think about how little care about you and ask yourself why do you care about people who care so little? Because of your fear of being alone and being a loser. Everyone loses in the end because everyone is a loser, because we all die.

Too bad it took 2020 for people to realize you can also be alone around other people, hence showing how worthless people are if they are not
1) making you feel good inside
2) making you money or acting as a means to an end

Love yourself and the rest will follow. If you can't love yourself punish others for making you feel that way to remind you people ain't shyt

 

[Mike the Executioner]

High school demons they can't seem to let go

Doesn't help when you used to have a close HS circle, and within three years or so, the whole circle's moved on from you.

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

Doesn't help when you used to have a close HS circle, and within three years or so, the whole circle's moved on from you.

Stop trying to be part of a group, or you will always be miserable

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

Seems like everyone is a soldier in self esteem wars
Luckily I don't give a fukk about any of that shyt knowing how stupid and manipulative people are
If people make you have low self esteem, cut them off
People stuck in the I want to be the cool kid or hang with the popular kids mode as grown ass people
You're a lame, that's lame,
Who are you trying to impress?
Who gives a fukk?

 

[semicko82]

My fam be like
"Damn I heard you got a good job.
Benefits and all that"

Me: "Man I'm alright. Can't complain"

Family: "So you still single? You ain't got you a female yet?"
Me:

 

[semicko82]

Stop trying to be part of a group, or you will always be miserable

You have people on the coli tell you being a loner is some loser shyt

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

You have people on the coli tell you being a loner is some loser shyt

Being around people who you're not supposed to be around is still being alone
The point is to be around people who provide the right energy during the right times of your life at least that's what I've learned
Based on what I have seen in real life, majority of people are loners whether they realize it or not people or no people
The average person is a proud selfish scumbag this is not an exaggeration
If you also have a gifted/high/above average IQ the stupidity of the average person is going to become unbearable and push you towards being introverted
I'm around people as long as the energy is right
Once the energy changes it's time to move on

 

[semicko82]

Being around people who you're not supposed to be around is still being alone
The point is to be around people who provide the right energy during the right times of your life at least that's what I've learned
Based on what I have seen in real life, majority of people are loners whether they realize it or not people or no people
The average person is a proud selfish scumbag this is not an exaggeration
If you also have a gifted/high/above average IQ the stupidity of the average person is going to become unbearable and push you towards being introverted
I'm around people as long as the energy is right
Once the energy changes it's time to move on

Real shyt