Why do so many men have low self esteem?

[Peruvian Connect]

If 2020 has not made you realize how worthless people are, you will always have low self esteem

Going through the public education system into college, and seeing how people behave in general, should make you realize you are an idiot if you make people completely influence your decisions since people are stupid and evil as hell I mean you have to be actually stupid to still follow that high school shyt
Want to have higher self esteem? Stop surrounding yourself with people who make you feel like shyt
If you end up alone, you were already alone with those people too bad people are too stupid to realize that
Anyone who thinks otherwise is probably stupid and willfully evil and will always suffer because of their stupidity
The average person is not someone you would even want to be around they are retarded Who gives a fukk about them?

I can't understand how people would want to willfully be around people so dumb and evil but then you are reminded of how people act in real life superficial, lack of depth, stupid, and evil
and then it makes sense

There will be two people in your life outside of family
1) Associates
2) Pawns

Anyone who makes you feel like shyt should immediately become a pawn, otherwise they are an associate
Friend is a rare thing so I didn't include it since "friends" are so full of shyt

People are too eager to be around others who don't value them, because of fear of being alone and FOMO.
Care WAY TOO MUCH about what other people think

Think about how little care about you and ask yourself why do you care about people who care so little? Because of your fear of being alone and being a loser. Everyone loses in the end because everyone is a loser, because we all die.

Too bad it took 2020 for people to realize you can also be alone around other people, hence showing how worthless people are if they are not
1) making you feel good inside
2) making you money or acting as a means to an end

Love yourself and the rest will follow. If you can't love yourself punish others for making you feel that way to remind you people ain't shyt

Family are the ones whe generally determine your values and self worth, but somehow you are absolving them and placing them on a pedestal.

 

[semicko82]

Family are the ones whe generally determine your values and self worth,[/B] but somehow you are absolving them and placing them on a pedestal.

Can you expound on this

 

[Worthless Loser]

If you are not tall, good looking, popular, physically fit or don't have alot of money to brag with, there is nothing to have self esteem about.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I think a lot of Brehs are just horny asf, dry dikk, and perhaps wanting a female companion, so they’re watching a lot of porn, subscribing to only fans and doing weird shyt like paying for fart jars.

 

[semicko82]

If you are not tall, good looking, popular, physically fit or don't have alot of money to brag with, there is nothing to have self esteem about.

Ouch

 

[Crayola Coyote]

The shyt that trips me out is how social media has straight up made more dudes scared to approach women on the street. Instead they slide into the DM's with hundreds of other dudes hoping for a chance.

I have no patience to go into a woman dm of any kind. It’s stupid and one sided. Women leave you on read or have nothing to say just want to attention seek.Women are lazy as fukk and should be sliding in our dms too but it rarely happens. Also talking to women in person is not fun ether and I’m not gonna wait for “choosing signals” ether. All I gotta say is most men do not like interacting with women for these reasons.

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

Family are the ones whe generally determine your values and self worth, but somehow you are absolving them and placing them on a pedestal.

Should have added good family
Family determines your values and self worth based on YOUR CHOICE
You are absolving your own decision making
Once people become more logical, rational, and metacognitive of their own decision making, their lives will get better instead of looking for and depending on people to determine their own value. It's supposed to be self-determined.
Even still, outside of family, if they are good, what does anyone have?
If you have shyt family, then hopefully you have a family you belong to or some members you fukk with
Not all family has to be blood but if it's not blood they better be loyal
Like that convo between Will and the other nikka in that junkyard in Good Will Hunting loyal,
to the point of refusing to get in the way of what you are supposed to do in this life
That's a TRUE friend
People are too selfish and willfully evil to be valued beyond associate and pawn otherwise

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Social media is a tool, women have decided that tool is what should be used to approach them (for some good reasons tbf) but it has gone too far. Don't underestimate the amount of women that fear men, backed by movements such as #metoo where the radicals have weaponized this fear. In this climate what exactly should a man do when the wrong interaction can lead to ruination

Dumbass women set themselves up for failure cause they do not want the men they do not like talking to them but then the men they like will not talk to them cause of this goofy Jim Crow metoo nonsense and man hating. Also women never want to approach men ether so they shots themselves in the foot.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Facts some nikkaz be like why try for real chick when I can watch Mazerati's titties clap for a nikka or Gianna Michaels ride a nikka to the grave.

cause those mediocre women in real life will try to flake on you when you set things up, make up excuses like having a imaginary boyfriend, has awful attitude like Asian Doll and flat out ignore you. Who wants to put up with that.

 

[BaggerofTea]

The lack of war, violence and struggle has taken out the edge in the genetic make up in most men

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

If you are not tall, good looking, popular, physically fit or don't have alot of money to brag with, there is nothing to have self esteem about.

Are you in high school?
Who gives a fukk about any these things besides the individual?
People need to get off of social media, get away from narcissistic idiots, and meet more real people who value greater things in life beyond high school dynamics and their lives will get better.
People are supposed to outgrow that popular kid not popular kid bullshyt

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Because men are told that they are disposable.

That they have to sacrifice themselves for the betterment of society.

I could go on.

yeah I stopped entertaining that mess and be selfish.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Should have added good family
Family determines your values and self worth based on YOUR CHOICE

The ironic thing about this for me is that I had a good family that tried their hardest to instill self worth in me but I didn't believe it.

I grew up hating myself in spite of the love I received.

 

[TM101]

My grandad ia not a tall or handsome nikka
And he had a stutter

My grandma was a pretty redbone in Canada
He got her because he had a good job at the post office and basically scooped her up
Because he knew her because family was in her area
And she grew up in the boonies

Can't do that nowadays because the post office ain't a good job any more

And hoes got internet

$$$$ and opportunity done changed the game

But cash or looks was always king

Yeah the real problem is that low skilled labor doesn't pay anymore.

You have to be a good salesmen or in engineering to make a good living.

Most dudes I know who got women off financial stability all have degrees in Computer Science/IT/Math.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

more negative experiences than positive experiences....

THIS