Why do so many men have low self esteem?

[Wild self]

Reason

Most men fear pain and hardwork which makes them Feminine

These days, hard work gets exploited and gets the least reward. That is why Gen Z tapped out of the workforce and higher education altogether.

 

[You Win Perfect]

My grandad ia not a tall or handsome nikka
And he had a stutter

My grandma was a pretty redbone in Canada
He got her because he had a good job at the post office and basically scooped her up
Because he knew her because family was in her area
And she grew up in the boonies

Can't do that nowadays because the post office ain't a good job any more

And hoes got internet

$$$$ and opportunity done changed the game

But cash or looks was always king

Huh I use to work for the post office in my early to late 20s. Women love they mail man because it is in fact a good job lol. They like a man in uniform as well. and I made $65,000-$75,000/year.
I’m also a good looking man but once a woman knows you have a good stable job they definitely cooperate 100%

 

[Two Stacks]

We got nikkas buying bathwater and bottle farts. Acting like straight clowns out here to be notice by women. Like who raised the preformative nikkas?

Single mothers and social media raised those dudes.

 

[Dave24]

Facts.

Once You go on 100+ days without porn, you never want to see it again. You use that energy to approach women in a masculine, tactful manner.

Even better, women SMELL that you carefully hold yourself. I been approached and even have women randomly screaming at me at supermarkets n all cause of that #nofap

How many days of nofap before women randomly screamed at you? I did it for 45 days and nothing changed and got no female attention.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

How many days of nofap before women randomly screamed at you? I did it for 45 days and nothing changed and got no female attention.

Dress up and go to social events where people mingle

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Dress up and go to social events where people mingle

Mannn nikka talking about they smell it on you. Maybe the cologne you threw on last minute..

 

[Wild self]

How many days of nofap before women randomly screamed at you? I did it for 45 days and nothing changed and got no female attention.

You quit *right* before your brain changed for the better.

For mer, personally, after around 60 to 70 days, women subconsciously circled around me. Not even have to be verbal or chatting, but they cooperate a lot more and LOVE to make an excuse to hang around you. Asking them for a date or a couple of hours of undivided attention is very, very easy at that point.

 

[EffYou]

Giving too much fukks....

 

[Dave24]

You quit *right* before your brain changed for the better.

For mer, personally, after around 60 to 70 days, women subconsciously circled around me. Not even have to be verbal or chatting, but they cooperate a lot more and LOVE to make an excuse to hang around you. Asking them for a date or a couple of hours of undivided attention is very, very easy at that point.

If you have a wet dream that doesn't count as a relapse right?

 

[DaHNIC82]

Many suffer from childhood/high school traumas/insecurities that they hold on into adult hood

 

[Peruvian Connect]

Many suffer from childhood/high school traumas/insecurities that they hold on into adult hood

some but many are disheartened that all the shyt they were fed as youth is total bullshyt. Hardwork doesn't pay off, Honesty ain't the best policy. Good doesn't prevail in the end. Women don't want "gentleman"

 

[Take It In Blood]

Because arranged marriages are illegal and women have actual rights now

 

[Koli_Kat]

Unfortunately men place high value on sexual relations
When you haven't gotten any ass in 3 years what self esteem you got

 

[lib123]

Lingering issues or trauma from childhood. Instead of using character and integrity as the basis for their self worth, many try to fill voids with womanizing and materialism.

 

[GreenGhxst]

Discipline and direction is the only thing that builds my self esteem tbh

Maybe it's that