Why Do So Many Women Walk Around W A Chip On Their Shoulder?

TheGreatMTB

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The example of holding doors is a good one. If you hold a door for someone and expect anything in return, you should never hold another door for anyone in your life. Same with the nikkas who believe they are nice guys, more often than not, they're "nice" because they believe it will net them rewards for their niceness which is why they turn bitter when they don't get the expected outcomes.

The problem isn't a chip on women's shoulders it's an issue of entitlement.

"I did something nice for you that you didn't ask for and I expect you to be thankful for it"

:francis:


I somewhat agree...but at the same time you're not entitled to that courtesy. I went out of my way at times to deliver it and you can't even open your mouth to say thank you.


...and let's not pretend women aren't "nice" when it's convenient...women are pros at magically remembering your name when they need something
 

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I really don't open doors for women because most of them don't really seem to appreciate the effort. No harm no foul...I'm not entitled to your appreciation and you're not entitled to that courtesy. I just hate how the same women who don't hold up their end of the "chivalry" deal will complain about there being "no good men" out here.
 

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You shouldn't have any expectations for doing something that someone didn't ask you to do, this shouldn't be a difficult idea to grasp. It stands to reason that if she's walking towards a door, she was going to get through it whether you held it open or not. If you want something in return for doing unsolicited "acts of kindness", stop doing the acts and save yourself the headache.

No lie one time I was in the elevator and a chick was running towards it and asked me to hold it open.

She got on, rolled her eyes, and ignored me.
 

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How about the cashiers with a chip on their shoulder? I hate to say it but it tends to be sistas I have this experience with:yeshrug:

This one cashier in particular it happens everytime.
Thick darkskin chick.

Instead of handing me the reciept, tosses it and no eye contact.
No Hello or Have a nice day. :dwillhuh:

I'm leaving she turns to the cashier behind her and says out loud " Yeah girl, We went out and he said I didn't think you dated us" :mjpls:
 
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So the dusty dude who treats her like shyt but she still let him smash does he need threapy
He needs to hear and follow the teachings of a master

Christ, Allah, Buddha, the Hon Elisha Mohamed etc
 

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Women start out being nice to men. But there's only so much rape, attempted sexual assault, getting patronized and dudes assuming you stupid, getting cursed out, men interpreting kindness as an opportunity to escalate and then becoming verbally aggressive on some "fukk you ain't nobody wantcho ass anyway", stalking, groping, harrassment, feeling entitled, blaming women for EVERYTHING, inconsistent and unrealistic expectations, saying one thing and doing another nonsense women gone take.

After a while chicks learn a balance between fukk male feelings and cool courtesy.

There are women who are complete and utter doormats for men. So accommodating and they get railroaded and have to watch dudes risk it all for chicks who treat them like utter shyt. Women respond to dudes based on their actions and not their words. Once that ball gets rolling, you not gonna stop the momentum just b/c one random stranger happens to not be a dikkhead.
 

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Women start out being nice to men. But there's only so much rape, attempted sexual assault, getting patronized and dudes assuming you stupid, getting cursed out, men interpreting kindness as an opportunity to escalate and then becoming verbally aggressive on some "fukk you ain't nobody wantcho ass anyway", stalking, groping, harrassment, feeling entitled, blaming women for EVERYTHING, inconsistent and unrealistic expectations, saying one thing and doing another nonsense women gone take.

After a while chicks learn a balance between fukk male feelings and cool courtesy.

There are women who are complete and utter doormats for men. So accommodating and they get railroaded and have to watch dudes risk it all for chicks who treat them like utter shyt. Women respond to dudes based on their actions and not their words. Once that ball gets rolling, you not gonna stop the momentum just b/c one random stranger happens to not be a dikkhead.
You make good points but some women will get with a dikkhead who doesn't treat her with respect anyway. So its basically you can disrespect me as long as I'm attracted to you.
 
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