i know a bunch of chicks who are getting thier azz beat daily by BROKE AZZ DUDES
why??? two main reasons
one they grew up in a subculture where GUYS were seen as REAL MEN who kept thier women in check PHYSICALLY
so they don't want no WEAK AZZ MAN that they can bully around or is a basic simp who can't say NO to thier demands
and TWO
because MISERY LOVES COMPANY
i know a beautiful chick who worked for me as a temp ....whom asked me to help her move while her man got locked up briefly for whupping he azz
sad.....she use to come work damn thier begging other workers for lunch money and shyt cause her man did nothing but odd jobs and keep her pregnant...
4 kids and ONE ON THE WAY
and even after me and my homeboy helped move her into her sister house
SHE STILL WENT BACK TO OLE BOY to get those WWF SMACKDOWNS
it's basically SELF ESTEEM....and just because a byatch has a chip on her shoulder don't mean she has good self esteem
cause ole girl the temp...had a lil attitude too...but i realized while getting to know her it was just a DEFENSE MECHANISIM
and she was insecure and fearful....fearful of dealing with SOMEBODY BETTER because truth be told SHE WASN'T SHYT HERSELF
high school dropout...poor money management skills....a drunk.....and a attention seeker
she felt more comfortable dealing with somebody on her level like his broke azz who liked to drank and make bad decisions as well
a RESPONSIBLE GOOD MAN is too CHALLENGING for her.....
and BORING
the "ABUSIVE GUY" is ENTERTAINING...cause she don't know whether he gonna HUG her one evening or SMACK THE SHYT OUTTA HER