Why do some men believe dating a single mom is simping

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You're at least second in her life. You're picking up someone else pieces, especially if you are helping her out. The baby's father is always there and has free access to her body and everything else she has. Depending on how she became a single mother, you are rewarding bad behaviors. She will only have limited time for you. You are an accessory rather than a mate.
 

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because someone who doesn't share your DNA will always be her top priority over you.
This is true


But honestly in most families, kids >>> spouse regardless
Not all but some. Just like how some bad mothers or fathers will put their spouse over their kids in general

I personally went through that with my own father.

But kids over spouse is the way it's supposed to be.


My whole thing about being with a woman with kids is time for me and us... BUT as a grown ass man who values his alone time, idgaf anymore. If she's worth it I'll deal with it. If I connect with the kids it's even better.

I don't deal with thots... Never married, never widowed, etc. if she's divorced with kids or something then I don't mind.
 

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:dame:you don't let other men base your manhood and love life off of their own experiences.
 

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Many times she's still having sex with the father of her child. If she doesn't want any children with you, you definitely a simp.

Also a lot of single mom's look for men to get in relationships with not out of love or to have a positive male figure in their child's life, but to bring more money to make it easier on her.

Some of them single moms ain't want good dudes until they are single moms and fukked. They ain't want you in their prime, ie early 20s, body on point, no stretch marks, baby fat etc.
 

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This is true


But honestly in most families, kids >>> spouse regardless
Not all but some. Just like how some bad mothers or fathers will put their spouse over their kids in general

I personally went through that with my own father.

But kids over spouse is the way it's supposed to be.


My whole thing about being with a woman with kids is time for me and us... BUT as a grown ass man who values his alone time, idgaf anymore. If she's worth it I'll deal with it. If I connect with the kids it's even better.

I don't deal with thots... Never married, never widowed, etc. if she's divorced with kids or something then I don't mind.
i agree but at least if the kid is yours, it's still you dna.
 

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It really depends on the baby father position

I used to love banging single moms in my past, but u can tell by the way they talk that a few of them wasn't over the baby father because they would talk about him to you more than what u wanted to know or not know..

I fukked a co worker who had two kids by two different dudes and I knew she was damage goods because she was the type to fall in love quick even before a relationship takes place...she got married I believe but man after I fukk and KEPT IT MOVIN , she literally told me she fukked 6 nikkas in like 5 months...

It varies from woman to woman and what profession she does and lifestyle she lives..
 
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